No matter what, people must learn to love themselves. Loving yourself does not mean being selfish, but not being harsh on yourself. You should think that you deserve to be treated well. For example, an apple can be cut into pieces for everyone to eat together, instead of giving the whole apple to others and then saying: I have given so much for you, you have to repay me well! You have to be promising!
Don't portray yourself as a victim.
Put all the things in the corner temporarily and take a break before cleaning up.
"Don't cook since you just got back. Come to my house for dinner. There are dishes available." Lao He and Wu Sufen invited them warmly.
"Then let's go to your house to eat. We also brought some food from our hometown. I'll sort it out and bring it to your house." Su Qianqian agreed with a smile.
"Chu Luo, do you want to go home first or finish your meal with us before going home?" Cheng Yue asked.
"Grandpa and grandma probably miss me a lot, I'll go home first."
"Okay, I'll take you back then."
Cheng Yue carried the things and Chu Luo carried his schoolbag, and after they sent them home, the two elders really missed their grandson.
"Deputy Captain Cheng, I'm sorry to bother you during this period of time." Chu Luo's father was also here today.
"It's not a problem. My three children also like Chu Luo very much. They have a lot of fun playing with him. Chu Luo is very obedient and polite." Cheng Yue kept praising Chu Luo, which made the children feel a little embarrassed.
The two elders looked at their grandson and found that he had gained weight after being away for half a month. He became much more sturdy and it was almost impossible for them to hold him.
"Deputy Captain Cheng, your food is really good. Little Luo has gained weight." Chu Luo's grandmother said with a smile.
"Chu Luo will definitely grow taller in the future." Cheng Yue touched Chu Luo's head, "I'll go back first."
"Deputy Captain Cheng, when will you bring your wife and children to our house for a meal?" Chu Luo's father asked, "I'm at home these days and I'm free."
"The day after tomorrow at noon." Cheng Yue thought about it and gave a time.
He knew that such words would make Chu Luo feel more comfortable. After all, he was not a child who liked to take advantage of others.
"Okay, I'll take you out." Chu Luo's father took Cheng Yue out, and the two chatted for a while while walking. "Deputy Captain Cheng, I'll trouble you to pay more attention to this child in the future. I'll give him money and let him come to your house to eat and play with your children."
Cheng Yue looked at him, thought for a moment and said, "My wife and I can take care of him a little, let him eat at my house, and play with him, but we are not his parents after all. He still needs his parents' love. He used to be very withdrawn and didn't like to talk."
"I'm too busy and don't have time to take care of him. I feel so guilty about him." Chu Luo's father sighed.
"Are you really too busy, or do you just don't want to face him?" Cheng Yue ruthlessly exposed him, "Having a child is not the only way to be happy. If you don't love a child, then don't have one. My words may sound harsh, but I have to say that if Chu Luo becomes bad one day, the parents will be the biggest responsible."
Some children may be born bad, but most of them are shaped by their acquired environment.
Chu Luo's father was a little unhappy, "Deputy Captain Cheng, I know the child has troubled you, so I won't let him trouble you in the future."
"It's up to you." Cheng Yue would not indulge him.
He turned hostile just because I told him the truth? Then he turned hostile. Who’s afraid of who? Anyway, he didn’t need to please anyone. Even if he was unemployed now, his wife could still support him!
After Cheng Yue left, Chu Luo's father returned home with a bad face, and said to Chu Luo in a cold voice, "Don't go to Cheng Yue's house in the future."
"What's wrong?" Chu Luo's grandfather asked in confusion, "The child just came back, why are you yelling? Do you think I'm giving you face?"
The two elders were already very resentful towards their son, and now they got angry at their precious grandson, which made them immediately unhappy.
The grandson finally became happy, talked more, and laughed, but he was afraid of being yelled back.
"Deputy Captain Cheng is taking care of Xiao Luo, but you are still acting like a fool. It's New Year's Day. I don't want to scold you. You should adjust your mood and don't scare my grandson!" Grandpa Chu said unhappily.
Father Chu was very angry, but he didn't know what to say, so he just turned around and went into the room.
"Xiao Luo, don't listen to your dad. Deputy Commander Cheng and his wife are good people. You can still go to their house often. Don't be afraid. Grandpa and grandma support you."
"I understand, Grandpa and grandma. I'll tell you about the fun things in the countryside later. Oh, yes, I also brought you gifts. I'll get them for you." After a moment of sadness, Chu Luo suppressed this emotion and quickly changed his mood.
He brought cloth shoes for the two elderly people. "These are made by Grandma Daya herself. They are very comfortable. I brought them to you. You can try them."
"How embarrassing!" The two elders said as they tried it on. It really fits the feet very well and is very light. "It's comfortable, very comfortable. We can wear it when the weather gets warmer."
"These are the dried bamboo shoots they dried, and they are also for grandpa and grandma."
"You're so polite. They're all nice people. I kind of want to go and visit them." Grandma Chu took the dried bamboo shoots and smelled them. The aroma reminded her of the old days. She also grew up in the countryside when she was young. She missed them so much.
"They told me to go play during the summer vacation. Can my grandparents go with me then?" Chu Luo wanted to go play in the summer. He could play for a long time with his grandparents and wouldn't have to rush back.
Otherwise, if he is alone outside, his grandparents will worry and miss him.
"Okay, okay, that's decided." Anyway, they have a lot of free time, so it would be nice to go to the countryside to play with their grandson.
Father Chu felt annoyed listening to the laughter outside.
It seems like everyone is happy except him! Why?
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After returning home, Cheng Yue helped Su Qianqian pack up.
Su Qianqian felt that something was wrong with him, "What's wrong? What happened when you sent Chu Luo back?"
"Huh? Did you sense it? Didn't I manage my emotions well?" He had sorted out his emotions along the way and didn't intend to let Su Qianqian notice any clues, but she still found out.
"It's well managed, and you can hardly tell, but you were distracted."
Cheng Yue immediately chuckled, "It turns out that my wife understands me best. Wife, you can't leave me, otherwise I will not live." As he said that, he hugged Su Qianqian.
"Stop being funny and talk about things!"
"I just mentioned it to Chu Luo's father and asked him to fulfill his father's responsibilities, but he got unhappy and stopped Chu Luo from contacting us."
"Is he crazy? If he takes Chu Luo with him, I'm afraid Chu Luo will become the second him." Then he will stage a robbery.
"Don't worry about him. As long as nothing happens to little Chu Luo, that's all that matters. I'm optimistic about this child and think he will have a great future."
Cheng Yue nodded and no longer took the matter to heart.
After finishing everything, they went to Wu Sufen's house for dinner. The two families had a lively meal and then went back to rest. The next morning, Lin Xuemei brought Huihui to their house.
"This duck of yours is amazing. It seems to understand human language. Could it be a spirit?"
"Hush, you can't say that. You can't become a spirit in the future, or Huihui will be killed."
Huihui, who was originally lying on the ground, suddenly flapped its wings, walked around in small steps at a very high frequency, and hid itself in the corner. This action made Lin Xuemei and Su Qianqian laugh.
When Lin Xuemei had laughed enough, she gossiped, "Let me tell you something, about Zhou Yun."
"What's wrong with her?" Su Qianqian didn't care too much.
"I lost the baby, and I may not be able to have children in the future!!"