Chapter 387 No one has ever taught her this
Jiang Yu's cheeks were visibly red, and even his earlobes were stained a light pink.
"Sister-in-law?"
Shen Qing had the Chinese way of thinking when it came to talking about marriage, and didn't find it difficult to talk about. She just took Jiang Yu's feelings into consideration before, fearing that she would think that she disliked her as a burden and wanted to get rid of her, so she was eager to find someone to marry her off.
But after being together for such a long time, Jiang Yu must have a new understanding of his current personality and his feelings for her, so he can talk about it openly.
Looking at Xiaoyu's reaction, she guessed right. She didn't feel sad or uneasy about being abandoned, but only shy, which meant that Xiaoyu at least had no resistance to Lei Dafu.
Indeed, Lei Dafu has been working silently, without asking for credit or exaggerating, and he is steady and capable. Only such a man is suitable to be a husband and can support a family.
She looked at Xiaoyu, patted the seat next to her, motioned her to sit down, and asked bluntly: "If you have any concerns, tell me."
Jiang Yu put down the dishes and chopsticks he had cleaned and sat down on the chair next to Shen Qing.
She lowered her head, bit her lip, then looked up at her sister-in-law and said sincerely: "I want to be with my sister-in-law forever. I like everyone in the family very much now, especially the two sisters Huahua;
Sister-in-law, when I was in the Liu family, I wanted a child. It was mainly because I saw everyone else had one, so I wanted one too. I also thought that life was hard and tiring because I couldn't get pregnant. If I could get pregnant, maybe life would be easier. Of course, I later realized that with the Liu family's character, even if I gave birth to many children, and all of them were sons, it wouldn't work. Life would only become more difficult.
But now I don’t know what’s wrong with me, sometimes I really want to have a child. My life is already very good and I can live a good life without a child, but I still want to have a child of my own.
Sister-in-law, am I living too comfortably and too idle? That’s why I have so many other thoughts.”
Compared to getting married and moving out, she wanted to be with Shen Qing more. She felt that Lei Dafu was good, but not as good as Shen Qing. It was just that sometimes when she took care of the two sisters Huahua and Huahua, she saw their cute and adorable looks and she wanted to have a baby of her own.
In the past, she thought she couldn't have children and had basically given up hope. However, later Shen Qing took her to see several doctors, and each doctor said that there was nothing wrong with her body, so she began to have hope again.
She must be a selfish person at heart, that's why she always wants to have a child of her own...
Shen Qing laughed and said, "How is that possible? This is human instinct, it's a very normal thing, don't overthink it!"
Or they are old enough to want children. In China, there are many DINKs who insisted on not having children but then changed their minds. There are also many who spend a lot of manpower and financial resources just to have a child of their own.
Xiaoyu loves children, so it's natural for her to want her own child.
Jiang Yu heard Shen Qing's words without a trace of blame, and instead comforted her. The original guilt and self-blame dissipated a lot. She said: "Sister-in-law, do you think I am not a faithful wife?"
A woman is married twice. Even if Liu Sheng is not a good man, it is not a good thing for her to marry someone else.
Shen Qing didn't react and blinked.
She asked in shock, "What virtues do you need to observe as a wife? Liu Sheng hooked up with his cousin while he was married, and Wang Chuntao moved into your house before the divorce. Now that you two are divorced, what do you need to observe? What's there to observe?"
It's fine for you to remarry, both legally and morally!"
I've only heard of women who remain widows after their husbands die, but I've never heard of women who remain widowed after a divorce!
Besides, there are two types of widowhood. Rich families with children can use widowhood to protect their property from flowing out; if poor families can no longer make ends meet, forcing others to remain widowed is purely evil, and is no different from taking the lives of orphans and widows.
As for Xiaoyu, let alone a divorce, even if Liu Sheng died during the marriage, she would not have to remain a widow for him!
Jiang Yu felt a warm current in his heart. Shen Qing's thoughts were always different from others. Why was she so special?
"Sister-in-law, I'm not doing this for Liu Shengshou. I just feel that I'm a daughter of the Jiang family. Xiao Shuihuahua and the others are also daughters of the Jiang family. Ah Bing and Ah Li are all wives of the Jiang family. I'm a second-married daughter, and it will affect their reputation."
Ali was fine, as the Guan family was from the same village and wouldn't say anything unpleasant. Ah Bing's family was a high-ranking official, a wealthy family, so even if they had fallen on hard times, they must have had many rules. Talking about the fact that the Huahua sisters had an aunt who had married a second time was definitely not a pleasant thing to say.
Xiaoshui will be getting married in one or two years at most. When her in-laws find out, it will be difficult to accept that her aunt is getting married for the second time.
Shen Qing said seriously: "Xiaoyu, you are yourself first, and then someone's daughter or aunt;
Besides, we won't do anything illegal or immoral. Besides that, you have the right to be happy. In other words, your family is your backing. You can't let outsiders gossip about you. Family members are even more ruthless, right? If that's the case, are they still family? They're worse than outsiders!"
Xiaoyu and Lei Dafu are unmarried, and they have neither destroyed other people's families nor affected others. If Xiaoyu's reputation is still damaged, it is not Xiaoyu's fault, but the people who think so are wrong;
And because marrying a second time would affect her family's reputation, and the proposed marriage would be rejected by the family, then so be it. Her family couldn't afford such high standards! The girls in her family didn't need to marry into a family and follow rules that only applied to girls.
Jiang Yu's tears rolled down and he quickly pulled up his sleeves to wipe them away.
Shen Qing handed over a dark blue cotton handkerchief folded neatly into a tofu shape and continued, "You know what kind of character they are. Do they want you to live the good life you want, or do they care about these empty things?
If you were in their shoes, would you care about these things?"
Jiang Yu shook her head with tears in her eyes.
Shen Qing concluded: "So, don't worry about your reputation, don't care about other people's thoughts and opinions, what you should pay most attention to is other people's character.
How does he treat you? What is the character of his family and whether they can accept you. "
How can life be the same no matter who you are?
A person's character determines his lowest point. In addition, these days, when you get married, you live with the whole family, so parents-in-law are very important!
Sometimes, it even surpasses the husband. One must never marry into a family with bad in-laws, otherwise one will suffer endless anger and losses in the future.
From her point of view, the Lei family members are now reconciled, which is the main reason why she did not stop it and let it develop freely.
But Xiaoyu still needs to observe the details herself.
Jiang Yu thought of the Liu family. Those three years of purgatory-like despair made her tremble slightly.
Shen Qing is more insightful than her and knows how to focus on the big things and let go of the small ones. No wonder they can live a good life after she came and make them all happy.
"Thank you for teaching me this, sister-in-law."
Really, no one has ever taught her these things since she was a child.
I only taught her to work hard, to help the family without complaint, to be virtuous and have a good reputation...
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