"I'm just explaining my thoughts to you."
Qian Yueling felt tired.
It turns out that it is impossible for most parents and children to get along with each other on an equal footing.
Now, they didn't even try to understand her thoughts.
He just heard something he didn't like and asked her to apologize as soon as he opened his mouth.
Being a parent is such a great authority.
"He and I are together simply because we love each other."
"Even if we have children in the future, it will be because of love, not any other reasons."
"Children are not our property, and we are not shackles on future children."
"I just want a relationship."
She looked at her parents and suddenly smiled, "Now I understand why so many people say they have few close ties with their family."
"Can I tell you now what your purpose was in giving birth to me?"
"love me?"
She smiled a little sadly, "Using parental authority to control me?"
"You only love me if I'm obedient and sensible?"
"Before you gave birth to a child, didn't you ever think that the child might not be sensible?"
"What happens if I don't understand?"
Qian Yueling is about to get married, and having children is just a matter of planning.
Suddenly I understood something.
"I'm getting to that point."
"If my children ask me in the future why I gave birth to them."
"Because I want to give birth to them, to prove that my uterus is healthy and I am fertile."
"Because I have a good life, I want to experience what it's like to be a mother."
"Because... I'm afraid of being lonely in the future. I want a child to take care of me in my old age and see me to the end. After I die, they can burn some paper money for me during the Qingming Festival."
"Because I gave birth to the children on my own initiative, not because they begged me to give birth to them."
"Because I want to use this child to silence some people."
Seeing the slightly stiff expressions of my parents.
Qian Yueling smiled and said, "There are so many reasons, but if you really think about it, out of tens or hundreds of reasons, only one or two are about wanting to bring an unknown life into this world, to let this life feel the world and experience life."
"Creating a life out of self-interest."
Qian Yueling said, "I don't have the face to ask this child to be grateful to me, or even to understand the pain I went through during pregnancy and childbirth."
"Everyone knows that it's not easy for women to get pregnant and give birth, but they still have to give birth."
"Since you have a child, you have to take responsibility. It's normal to be responsible for your own profits and losses."
She grabbed the bag next to her and stood up.
"I have something else to do, so I'll leave first. Good night, Mom and Dad."
The two of them were full of anger, but as their daughter grew up, the authority that belonged only to parents was gradually losing control.
Is she leaving now?
"Where are you going? Why are you still going out so late?"
Lin Jinglan didn't know what to say for a moment.
It's like I only come back once and stay for one night.
Besides, since they are getting married soon, the elders of both families should sit down and discuss the marriage, right?
She followed her daughter to the door of her home.
"Yueyue, since you're getting married, your dad and I have to meet your in-laws, right?"
Qian Yueling opened the door and the sensor light outside came on.
"We are having a naked marriage. We don't plan to have a wedding banquet, just get the marriage certificate. And it doesn't involve the parents of either side, so there is no need for us to meet. I am marrying one person, not a whole family."
While waiting for the elevator, she looked at Lin Jinglan.
"Mom, I'm an adult now and I have the ability to make decisions about my own life. I can't possibly follow the path you've arranged for me. After all, your path has no reference value to me."
If you really think you are amazing, you wouldn't be an ordinary person now.
Since we are all ordinary people, there are actually many paths, and any path we take is an ordinary person's path.
She doesn't like to be a copy and paste of others.
"Mom, you and Dad take care of yourselves. I'm leaving now."
Entering the elevator, Qian Yueling waved goodbye to her.
I really didn't think of inviting the elders from both families. I only invited friends and classmates who I get along well with.
Therefore, it doesn’t really matter whether Si Ming attends the wedding banquet or not.
The elevator door slowly closed in front of Lin Jinglan, and she was barely conscious at all.
A sense of panic arises spontaneously.
**
Arrive at the hotel.
Qian Yueling and her fiancé started a video chat.
This boyfriend was the one she had chosen after a long period of observation, and the thing that made her most satisfied was that her boyfriend was weaned.
To put it bluntly, it means that you have completely broken away from your parents' family and are an independent and thoughtful adult.
The next morning, Qian Yueling opened her eyes and looked at her cell phone.
He was drowsy for a few minutes, and suddenly opened his eyes, grabbed the phone and stared at it intently.
A six-digit number in a row of six was deposited into the bank account.
Si Ming also sent her a message with a gift money.
For someone with a monthly salary of around 20,000 yuan, this is equivalent to her income for three years, and the key is that she cannot save anything she can earn in three years.
She can save at most 6,000 yuan every month, and have a surplus of 70,000 to 80,000 yuan a year.
With this money, she has enough to deal with emergencies in all aspects.
"Brother, you are awesome, thank you." Qian Yueling called him and thanked him.
Si Ming hummed, "The number determined by Jiang Li."
Hearing this name, Qian Yueling was slightly stunned.
"Brother, my sister-in-law doesn't hate me anymore?"
Si Ming curled his lips, "She doesn't hate you, but she doesn't like you either."
Qian Yueling: “…”
Before I could utter any excited words, a bucket of cold water was poured down on me.
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