Since Gu Yanzhang made up his mind, Chen Xuanxuan felt that her life seemed to become more comfortable.

"Wife,... you see, after this period of time, we will have to pay the head tax again. Do you think we should really find a good husband for our two daughters?" Hearing

this, Chen Xuanxuan couldn't help but roll her eyes at him.

"Find a husband?"

"How?"

"Who should we find in this short period of time?"

Gu Yanzhang opened his mouth after hearing this. I don't know what I should say.

Chen Xuanxuan has been eating well every day these days. She is fat and warm, and she doesn't want to do anything.

In Chen Xuanxuan's opinion, it was really too troublesome to find husbands for her two daughters.

This was a huge project.

If she didn't want to push her two daughters into trouble, she had to thoroughly understand the man's family before they got married.

What kind of personalities did the man's parents have, and what kind of character did the man have. Did the man's family have money and could they support his wife and children? Was the

man's family complicated, and were his brothers, sisters, and sisters-in-law easy to get along with? Was the in-

laws her two daughters were looking for far away? ... If it was too far, it would definitely not be good.

A long time ago, Chen Xuanxuan wrote down all the circumstances of her daughter's marriage, the conditions and materials needed, and some requirements for the man in a notebook. She wrote all

eight pages of the notebook.

Chen Xuanxuan always heard people say that after a woman gets married, she must learn to compromise, learn to be virtuous, learn to obey, learn to be obedient, learn to be filial to the other party's parents, learn to be frugal and work hard... Whenever Chen Xuanxuan thought about it

, it was like going to hell after the woman got married. She had no ideas of her own, and only used her labor and everything she had, including some things from her family, to give to the man... She felt particularly uncomfortable in her heart. What is the basis

...

It is said that the butt determines the head.

Logically speaking, Chen Xuanxuan now has four adopted sons. She also married four daughters-in-law from other families. Therefore, she actually did not lose out in the marriage of her children.

However, as a person who has received many years of education, she has a conscience.

She thinks that men and women are together not for the sake of making a living, nor for living together in a daze, but for the resonance of the heart between people.

Marriage without love is immoral.

If a woman marries a man and has no love, no money, and only knows how to give birth to sons, sons, and sons for the man... then, the life of such a woman is extremely miserable.

Chen Xuanxuan has lived here for nearly eight years. These eight years are neither long nor short. They are enough for her to see many things clearly.

Chen Xuanxuan does not want her daughter to live a life of domestic violence, abuse, or even murder after getting married. After getting married

, they should be happy, cheerful, and free.

They should have no worries about food and clothing.

They don't have to worry all day long whether they will have the next meal after this one. Whether they will have the next set of clothes after wearing this set of clothes.

If a person cannot even solve the most basic problem of food and shelter, then such a man is the least worthy of reliance.

Men who can hardly even guarantee their own survival are generally irritable, bad-tempered, and even tyrannical and capricious.

Thinking of this, Chen Xuanxuan suddenly turned around and said to her husband in a serious face, "Master, I must tell you something."

"We must be very careful about the marriage of our daughters. I only have these two daughters in my life, and I don't want them to be unable to live the kind of life I have now. If they live in their parents' home, they will have no worries about food and clothing, and will not be beaten or scolded. But if after getting married, they will be beaten by men every day, scolded by their parents-in-law, and abused, and forced to stay awake in the middle of the night, and even eating meat will become a luxury... then we, as parents, should not have let the two daughters marry into such a family in the beginning..."

"We must look for a good one and find a suitable one."

Gu Yanzhang nodded hurriedly when he heard his wife say this.

"Of course, of course."

"I think our family is one of the best in the whole village. Look at our house, we have 8 suites."

"Look at the fields we planted, there are dozens of acres now."

"Think about you, my wife, you have several famous skills." "

So I think that when a family like ours marries a daughter, she can marry a big shopkeeper in the prefecture. Those in the county are well-off."

Chen Xuanxuan nodded in agreement after hearing this.

Those who are rich and powerful in the family will generally take their reputation into consideration. They will not be so harsh when treating their daughters-in-law, and will not even abuse them.

As for those who have no money, they only think about treating their daughters-in-law like donkeys and cattle all day long.

So, generally speaking, the probability of getting happiness is slightly higher if you marry a rich man than a poor man.

"Master,...actually, I'm still thinking about letting our daughters marry closer. It would be best if they marry to my mother's hometown, Chenjia Village. You see, the place where we live now is only a river away from my mother's hometown, Chenjia Village. Once you cross that bridge, you will reach the territory of our mother's family." "

If our two daughters encounter any problems, my mother's family will go directly to their house to reason with them. Those who deserve a slap in the face will be slapped in the face, and those who deserve physical action will be taken. Anyway, I have so many brothers and sisters, I don't have to be afraid of anything!"

When Gu Yanzhang saw that his wife was so tough, he thought about it seriously and nodded involuntarily.

"Wife, after hearing what you said, I have the same idea..."

However, just when the couple was sitting in the house discussing the marriages of their two daughters, Gu Yu'an, who had been staying at home for a long time, sneaked out of the house.

As soon as he went out, someone came to him.

"Brother, I've been looking for you for a long time! You haven't been out for such a long time, what happened to you..."

When Gu Yu'an saw the familiar man in front of him, he immediately frowned and complained bitterly.

"Oh, Brother Wen, don't mention it."