Qiao Yunxin and his wife were also discussing the problem with Qiao Xin at this time. Sanniang was already 20 years old, but still hadn't found a marriage.
Now she lives in Laohu Town, building houses and doing business, and she is doing very well. I have never seen her fall in love with any man!
This is not normal!
She is in her prime years, when love is beginning to blossom. How could that girl live so heartlessly?
Is it that he hasn't woken up yet, or is he too awake?
Aunt Xu treated the children as her own. She couldn't quite figure out Sanniang's thoughts, so to be on the safe side, she had to go to her mother-in-law for help!
After hearing what Xu said, Qiao Xin felt that this issue could not be delayed any longer and decided to talk to her granddaughter in person!
No matter what you plan to do, you must always give your elders a definite answer!
Qiao Xin asked someone to call the third lady over, and looking at her granddaughter's beautiful face, she sighed softly.
Why is it so difficult to arrange a marriage for such a beautiful woman?
Could it be that this child has a problem with his sexual orientation? Qiao Xin was so disgusted by her own thoughts that she shuddered.
It’s hard to think about it, and I don’t dare to think about it!
But please don’t let the situation be what you imagine, otherwise, there will be no place for Sanniang in this world!
Qiao Sanniang watched Qiao Xin daydreaming and had to call her several times to bring her back to her senses!
"Grandma, what can I do for you?"
Qiao Xin waved at her, asked her to sit next to her, and said straight to the point: "I won't beat around the bush with you. I called you here because I want to ask you, you are already an adult, what do you think about your lifelong event? Do you have someone you like? Or do you have other plans in mind?
You should talk to grandma, so she can give you some advice!"
The third lady shook her head without hesitation: "No, grandma and granddaughter have no plans to get married for the time being!"
Qiao Xin was puzzled: "Why is this happening, Sanniang? Do you have any unspeakable secrets, or do you dislike men?"
Qiao Sanniang didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "Grandma, what are you thinking? It's not that I don't like men, it's that I haven't met a man I like yet!"
"Your aunt took you to so many banquets, but you didn't like any of them?"
"No, it's not appropriate. I can't really explain it, grandma, but I just feel it's not appropriate in my heart!"
Qiao Xin suddenly became curious and couldn't help asking, "Come on, tell me what's inappropriate about this."
Sanniang's words were full of helplessness.
"I want to find someone who is at least comparable in every way.
But those men started telling me about the Three Obediences and Four Virtues before they could even finish a few words. Before I even entered their homes, they demanded that I must stay at the backyard and take care of my parents for them. They never mentioned a word about their own responsibilities.
My granddaughter casually chatted with a few young masters from aristocratic families at the banquet, and then she couldn't continue the conversation with them anymore. There was no point in talking to them if they didn't agree!
But when I think about having to live like this for the rest of my life if I get married, I really can’t imagine it!
Grandmother, I don't think my demands are too high. If I can't even satisfy this little bit, what do you think I want from getting married?"
"Don't give up. There are so many men in the world. Let's look at them again. One day we will find the right one for you. Let's look at it from a different angle.
If you want to find someone with good looks, then don't care about the other person's family background. Anyway, as long as you control your own money, you will never have to worry about food and drink in this life.
If you want to find a powerful man, then guard your heart and be a generous mistress. Treat men as leaders and concubines as subordinates, and you can still live comfortably.
There is no perfect marriage in this world. It all depends on what you want.
Love is something that is lucky if you get it, and fate if you don’t. It is fair to everyone, whether you are a dragon or a phoenix! Instead of asking others to do something, we should save ourselves.”
Sanniang was silent for a moment. She knew that what her grandmother said was true, but she had seen a lot and had no confidence in any form of marriage.
But if I don't get married, it will inevitably affect the marriages of my younger brothers and sisters, and it will also be detrimental to the family's reputation. Although my grandmother can persuade my parents to follow me, I can't be so selfish.
"I'd better ask my grandmother and aunt to help me arrange this matter. My father has tolerated me for so many years and it has reached his limit. When my father returns to Beijing for his promotion, he will definitely find a way to marry me off.
Instead of letting my parents arrange a marriage for me, I would rather ask my grandmother to help me decide!"
"So, do you have any other requests?"
"Grandma, if you can't find someone who shares your mind, what difference does it make to find someone else? The one who can catch Grandma's eye should not be much worse! I don't ask for the other person's sincerity, I just want to find someone with a similar family background and status, so that my granddaughter can be on an equal footing with him in everything!"
Qiao Xin nodded: "Your aunt and I will do our best in this matter. You should also make your own decisions. Don't be discouraged. We always look at a person's character first, then his family background. A person with good character is always good."
"It's okay, grandma. Just help me choose!"
Qiao Xin:........
She couldn't be at ease at all, in this era where it was better to marry well than to be born well, marriage for a woman was like a second life, so how could she be careless?
Her family doesn't need that granddaughter to exchange for benefits, so naturally they want to live with a family that will make the child more satisfied!
After seeing Sanniang off, Qiao Xin curled up in the chair and sighed!
If a child lives to be a hundred, he will often live only ninety-nine years. He must have done a lot of sins in his previous life and he has to pay for them one by one in this life.
"Madam, it's actually not hard to find someone who meets the Third Miss's requirements. There are many young men from noble families who can match her!"
"That girl seems to like everything, but she is actually very picky. Among all the grandchildren, Sanniang is the most pitiful, she is precocious and sensible.
People who are too clear-headed will suffer. Although she always smiles in front of us, she is worried behind our backs.
My parents are unreliable, and Sanlang has his own life to live after he gets married. I am old too, and I can only accompany her for a few more years. I always hope to have someone who understands her and is with her for the rest of her life."
Nanny Qin thought that Sanniang's personality made her a good choice for the prince or princess.
However, as a servant, it was difficult for her to say this!
The Qiao family from top to bottom has made up their minds not to marry into the royal family. Even if there is a suitable candidate, they cannot get past the elders!
Qiao Xin called Xu and said, "Let's put Sanniang's marriage on hold for now. Since it's hard to find a partner in the capital, let's look outside. When Dalang and his men return with the army, we can take a look inside the military camp. When the world is at peace in the future, it might not be a bad idea to find a military commander with a straightforward personality!"
Xu was a little hesitant: "I'm afraid my second brother's wife would not be happy for their child to marry into a military commander's family!"
Qiao Xin immediately felt disgusted: "She has never contributed a single day to my care. When is it her turn to take care of Sanniang's marriage? Even the second son is not qualified. Don't mention her in front of me!
If she dares to agree to Sanniang's marriage in private, I can let her marry herself!"
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