Chapter 1345
However, since getting married, Yang Kai has provided less and less support to his family. He used to send 20 yuan a month, but now he only sends 10 yuan a month.
It's not like Yang Kai's parents and brothers never had troubles, but Yang Kai only said one word every time.
"My parents don't belong to me alone, and the burden of providing for the elderly should not be borne by me alone. I have helped the family enough over the years. From now on, I will only pay tribute to my parents every month. As for my two younger brothers, they are also about the same age." It’s not big, it’s time to work hard, so it’s time to go out and fight on your own, you can’t put all your hopes on me, right?”
My parents originally wanted to make a fuss, after all, they have been accustomed to Yang Kai raising them all these years. Son, as a result, the money for filial piety has dropped dramatically, how can they accept it?
But Yang Kai stood firm, no matter how they made trouble, he only had that sentence.
When he first joined the army, Yang Kai's household registration had already been taken out from his family. In other words, he now has an independent household registration book. From the perspective of a rural person, he has now separated from his family.
Even if there is no separation, he is justified wherever he stands.
There are three brothers in the family. It makes no sense for him to shoulder the burden of raising his two younger brothers and their family, right?
Although ten yuan is not much, for rural people, having a stable income of ten yuan every month can already beat 90% of families.
Yang Kai's mother made a fuss, but after the fuss, Yang Kai didn't get any money in the second month.
Slowly, everyone in the Yang family knew that Yang Kai was particularly fond of Li Lingling, and would rather break up with her family than marry her for her.
The Yang family is not without resentment in their hearts, but what can be done with resentment?
Can they really refuse the money Yang Kai gives every month?
That's obviously unrealistic.
Ten yuan in rural areas is enough for a family to live happily for a month.
Therefore, before Li Lingling became pregnant, although Yang Kai's parents did not say how much they liked her, they still maintained a superficial peace.
After learning that Li Lingling was pregnant, Yang Kai's mother suddenly transformed into an evil mother-in-law and forced Li Lingling, who was just two months pregnant, to give birth to a grandson for their family.
Therefore, from yesterday to today, Li Lingling's mood has not been high. She is afraid that she will be rejected by the Yang family after she is born a daughter.
She knew very well how hard it was for her unloved daughter to live at home, so she naturally didn't want her daughter to have the same experience.
Even though she still didn't know whether the baby in her belly was a son or a daughter, she was already worrying unfoundedly.
Xu Wanning looked at Li Lingling's appearance and comforted her softly: "The most taboo thing for pregnant people is having a bad mood, which will directly affect the child in the belly. Therefore, if you want your child to grow up healthily and robustly, you You must maintain a good attitude. "
"Besides, it doesn't matter whether you have a son or a daughter. As long as Yang Kai treats you and the child wholeheartedly, what difference does it make if it's a son or a daughter? It can’t be said that your thoughts are not important at all, but don’t take it too seriously. Just leave everything to Yang Kai.”
After being enlightened by Xu Wanning, Li Lingling’s mood became brighter, but that’s about it.
She nodded vigorously, "Yes, I understand. If I give birth to a daughter and the Yang family makes things difficult for me, I will let Yang Kai protect us. If he can't figure out how to dislike her as a daughter, then I will follow He's getting divorced! Anyway, I earn so much salary every month, so there's no need to look at anyone's face."
Xu Wanning put her hand on Li Lingling's shoulder: "That's right. If you have this kind of awareness, life will never be difficult. "Don't be afraid. In addition to Yang Kai, you have me and your comrades as your backing. If anyone wants to make you unhappy, just tell us openly and we will support you."
Listening to Xu Wanning's words, Li Lingling couldn't help but have red eyes.
She sniffed and said angrily, "Wanning, thank you."
If she hadn't met Xu Wanning, Li Lingling felt that she would never have the good life she has now.
Not only was she able to cut off ties with her original family that had caused her pain for decades, but she also found her own happiness. All of this was given to her by Xu Wanning.
Xu Wanning patted him on the shoulder: "Don't think nonsense. The most important thing for you now is to take good care of your body and take care of yourself and the baby in your belly."
"The first three months were relatively unstable. Anyway, we are on holiday now. The snack shop is here. There's nothing to do here. You should try your best to take care of yourself at the snack shop or go to Qizhou."
"Yes, I will!"
After talking to Li Lingling, Xu Wanning looked again. with eight other people.
"You guys should all be single, right? Does any of you already have someone you like in your heart, or someone who has developed a stable relationship?"
Yang Rong and the eight of them looked at each other and laughed: "We don't have time to go there. Looking for a partner."
"Yes, men will only affect the speed at which I make money!"
"There are not many good men, and the good men around our age have basically been picked away, and now there are only a few left. "I'd rather be single than settle for nothing."
"Marriage, that's not what it's like. I've seen too many examples of people having a hard time after getting married. I'd rather be single all the time." After moving to my husband's house, I will take care of the
whole family. " "Anyway, we earn a lot of money every month. We will save it all. When we save enough, we will buy a small house to live in. It will be much more comfortable than getting married and taking care of the whole family!"
After listening to what these people said, Xu Wanning really didn't know what to say.
If you want to say what they said is wrong, Xu Wanning really can't say anything against her will, because she thinks what they said is too correct.
But if you want to say that they are right...
in the 1980s, women already had this kind of consciousness, and they always felt that something was strange.
But there is a saying that is right. It is obvious that you are living a good life on your own, but after getting married, you have made yourself miserable. Instead of doing this, it is better to be alone, rich and free, how wonderful it is.
After all, today's new-age women are not the same as those of later generations. Once they get married, they have to serve their parents-in-law and their family by default. If there are many brothers in the family and there is no separation, their wages have to be paid.
If you don't have money, you still have to serve others. It's really not something that most people are willing to do!
Everyone has their own destiny. Xu Wanning does not have a God's perspective and does not know what kind of life the eight of them will live in the future. All she can do is not to interfere and let them develop freely.