Chapter 1381
So, to a certain extent, the Yuan family and the Xu family are even on par.
As for the Lin family where Lin Wansheng lives, although her uncle also had a big background a few years ago, he was injured after all. After all these years, he has slowly withdrawn from that circle.
So compared to the Yuan family, the Lin family is a little bit behind.
In terms of ability and future, Lin Maoqing is definitely worthy of Yuan Yuqing, but in terms of family background, Lin Maoqing is a little bit weaker, but this little bit of weakness can be ignored. After all, Lin Jishang's face is still good. Here, he can still pave the way for Lin Maoqing, not to mention that he is the nephew of the Xu family.
Therefore, Lin Maoqing and Yuan Yuqing can be said to be a perfect match.
But since ancient times, China has had a tradition that it is best for a man to have a stronger family background than a woman, even just a little bit, unless there are special circumstances, such as the case of Xu Wanning and Lin An, when it was a last resort.
Otherwise, in any family with some background conditions, girls will be picky about the man's family background.
In terms of family background, Lin Maoqing can only be said to be not far behind, but it cannot be said to be far ahead. Therefore, Xu Huajing had to find another way and proposed that Lin Maoqing would receive dividends, which amounted to several thousand yuan a quarter, and there were also two people from the capital and the city. A house.
Whether they want to move in or not is another matter, but these assets alone would shock even a family like the Yuan family.
After all, the Yuan family, like the Xu family, abide by the law. There are obviously ways to make money, but they don't bother to do such things, and they have been eating dead wages.
At first glance, it seems that the Lin family, or to be precise, Lin Maoqing's financial situation is so good, how can they be picky?
After all, Yuan Yuqing is not too young. If she misses Lin Maoqing, she may not be able to find someone who is so satisfied in all aspects.
Lin Maoqing and Lin Wansheng are brothers and sisters, and Yuan Yuqing and Yuan Yusheng are cousins.
If Xu Huajing only said that Lin Maoqing's economic conditions were good, but did not explain that Lin Wansheng was the same, it might give the Yuan family an illusion that sons were favored over daughters.
No matter how well the Yuan family treats Lin Wansheng, subconsciously they will inevitably look down on Lin Wansheng because they feel that she does not have the support of her natal family.
And Xu Huajing put Lin Wansheng's conditions and all advantages on the table, and he was also telling the Yuan family that my Wansheng did not compare favorably with your Yuan family, but if you have even the slightest bad idea, you should consider it carefully.
This can be regarded as clearing the way for Lin Wansheng to get married. Even if this obstacle may not exist, as a mother, Xu Huajing can think of so much, which is enough to show her love for this daughter.
"As for whether the Yuan family will think too much about it? My answer is, definitely. But what they will think is not important to us. What is important is what they do. Sister Wansheng, the wedding date has been decided verbally today, but We must talk about the betrothal gifts later, right? We won’t explain clearly what the Yuan family’s conditions are, but we can roughly infer
. “So, what we have to do now is to wait patiently for the Yuan family to come up with the betrothal gifts. If their betrothal gift is more than we expected, it means that they attach great importance to this marriage and do not want their son to take advantage of you. From now on, you and Yuan Yusheng can get along with each other how you want. There is no need to be in some "But if they take the opportunity to reduce the betrothal gift, or it
is not much different from what we expected, it means that they still want to take advantage of it. Then, you have to guard your wallet, you know?" "
After listening to Xu Wanning's series of analyses, Lin Wansheng felt suddenly enlightened.
She admired Xu Wanning for being able to judge so many things from other people's subtle tones.
Unlike her, who only acted out of impulse and lost her temper at her mother without even understanding her mother's intentions.
Thinking of this, Lin Wansheng glanced at Xu Huajing subconsciously, but the other party was already discussing Lin Maoqing's betrothal gift with Xu's mother and eldest and second aunts.
Lin Wansheng then retracted her attention and whispered: "The Yuan family shouldn't be like this, right?"
Xu Wanning shrugged: "Based on my contact with the Yuan family, I think they are the first type and will not take advantage of you. , but will pay more attention to you because of it. But knowing people but not knowing their hearts, human nature cannot withstand scrutiny, so we cannot take it lightly
. Xu Wanning gently held Lin Wansheng's hand: "Sister Wansheng, don't think too much. More, our family will accompany you in everything, and we will never let you suffer! "
Well, Lin Wansheng said vaguely: "But I still hope that the Yuan family and Yuan Yusheng will not disappoint me. I really like him and sincerely want to live a good life with him.
If the Yuan family had saved it from the beginning, With the thought of scheming, Lin Wansheng didn't know how she should face Yuan Yusheng.
On the other side, Xu Huajing had already calculated Lin Maoqing's bride price.
"Mao Qing's two houses are not included in the bride price. I plan to give the Yuan family 3,000 yuan as a betrothal gift, and I have prepared the other three gifts. In addition, I will buy two more good clothes for Yuqing.
"You don’t need to buy clothes, just go to Aning’s tailor shop to customize them, okay?" It’s worse than the ones bought outside
. “Yes, yes, I forgot about this! Isn’t three thousand yuan a bit small? "
The eldest aunt patted Xu Huajing on the shoulder: "Sister, today's betrothal gifts in Beijing are generally five to six hundred yuan, three thousand yuan, which is already a sky-high price,
let alone other things.
Xu's mother said: "Our betrothal gift should be settled as it is for now. When we look back, we will see how much the Yuan family gave Wansheng as a betrothal gift, and then we can increase or decrease it appropriately based on this. They are two brothers and sisters. It's not too bad.
Xu Huajing nodded: "That's all we can do now.
The Yuan family didn't keep the Lin family waiting for too long. On the fourth day of the first lunar month, the Yuan family invited the Lin family and the Xu family to their home. It was said that the two families would have a simple meal, but everyone knew in their hearts that this was to completely settle the matter of four children and two newlyweds.
Before setting off in the morning, Lin Quan refused to let Xu Wanning take the children with her.
"Sister-in-law, when we lost our aunt's house before, the children also came with us. But after all, they are not married yet, and they are not related yet. It is not appropriate for the children to follow us.
Moreover, today we have to talk about important things, the children. They followed, it was a bit too noisy.
Mother Lin also advised: "Just listen to Tsuen Tsuen this time. Just go by yourself and leave the four children at home. We can watch the children.