Chapter 634: Must give birth to a boy.
Zhang Wenting's little face turned red instantly. Her eyes dodge, she did not dare to look at Xu Wanning and Xu's mother, she could only stare at the fruit basket on the bedside, "Isn't it... that after we have sex? Will...will you have a baby?"
Zhang Wenting said it in a short sentence.
Xu Wanning suddenly realized.
After all, for the introverted Chinese, this aspect has always been difficult to talk about.
Even thirty or forty years later, later generations only added physical hygiene classes to teach students some of the most basic and important physiological knowledge.
Fortunately, with the development of the Internet in later generations, everyone can obtain this knowledge by surfing the Internet.
But for people of this era, this topic still cannot be discussed openly and openly.
Xu Wanning felt that she was shouldering the important task of spreading the news, and she suddenly felt energetic. With the support of Xu's mother, she sat upright and began to spread relevant knowledge in this area with Zhang Wenting.
It only took half an hour for Zhang Wenting to go from vague understanding at first to sudden realization.
"In other words, I can get pregnant next month?"
Xu Wanning:...
"I mean, this kind of thing depends on the right time, place, and people, and it doesn't happen overnight. Besides, you and the second brother, you two I have just gotten married and am in the sweet period of marriage. It is more than just living in a world of two. Life in a family of three is very different from living in a world of two."
"Actually, I also want to spend more time with your second brother. Think about having children again, but my mother always told me that we are the same age and your child is already six or seven years old, so I should not make the gap too wide. Moreover, I am also afraid that I will not be able to give birth as soon as possible. Children will make the family unhappy."
Xu's mother heard some clues.
It was probably Zhang Wenting's biological mother who was worried that her daughter would be made trouble by the Xu family if she failed to give birth to a child as soon as possible.
She was worried about this herself.
Although she is not her daughter-in-law, Xu's mother seems to treat Zhang Wenting as her junior.
"Tingting, you have to understand that whether you are getting married or having children, your starting point must be that you want to do it, rather than forcing yourself to do it because of other people's eyes or guidance. Although As elders, we also hope that you can give birth to children as soon as possible and have a harmonious family. But what matters most to us is your own happiness."
"I believe your mother has the same idea as me about giving birth. If you don’t want to have children, when to have children, and how many to have, it’s all up to you and Maoting. As elders, we will only help you live your little life to the best of our ability, rather than pretending to be elders. Go get involved in your lives."
Xu Wanning nodded as she listened to Xu's mother's words.
These days, as a mother-in-law, having such an idea is already very advanced.
It’s enough to kill 99% of mothers-in-law instantly.
"I am also a mother, and I also have the apple of my eye. If it were Aning who told me this topic today, I would advise her in the same way. Live your life as comfortably as you want, but you must not be constrained by those rules and regulations. As long as you juniors can be healthy and safe, we as parents will be satisfied."
Xu Wanning responded at the right time: "Second sister-in-law, please don't think that my mother is perfunctory with you . If you don’t believe it, you can find a suitable opportunity later and have a good chat with your second aunt about this topic. I believe you will be able to think more clearly after being enlightened by her. ."
Zhang Wenting said: "I know my mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law, but my mother... Frankly speaking, most of my pressure now comes from my mother. She always tells me to have a baby quickly, and... We must give birth to a boy..."
"Our family has never had the habit of favoring sons over daughters. Look at Aning and Jinchu. They are no less favored than boys in our big family."
Xu Wanning . I feel that what my mother said is a bit conservative.
Not only is it no better than a boy, it is completely better than a boy!
She is the only daughter of her generation in the family, and Jinchu is the only daughter of their generation so far. Therefore, the two of them are the apples of their hearts in the Xu family.
Xu's mother was a little confused. In the Zhang family, Zhang Wenting was as favored as her family, Aning, and no one looked down on her just because she was a girl.
How could Mother Zhang say that she must let her daughter have a son?
"Probably, maybe, Aunt Zhang just hopes that the second sister-in-law can integrate into our big family as soon as possible."
"Wen Ting, listen to the third aunt, don't listen to your mother's words, just do whatever you want, we Xu There aren’t that many rules at home!”
“Yeah.” Zhang Wenting nodded vigorously, feeling even more fond of the Xu family.
While chatting, Mother Lin came to the hospital with her four children.
As soon as they stepped into the ward and saw the person sitting on the bed, the four children started crying, and the wailing sound almost lifted the roof.
"What's wrong? Is someone bullying you?"
Jin Chu quickly ran to the hospital bed and buried his head on Xu Wanning's legs. His shoulders were still shrugging, "Mom, you feel better now. "No?"
"Mom is getting better now. I don't feel bad now."
"If possible, I wish I could take my place in the illness." Jin Chu's red eyes were filled with admiration.
Xu Wanning's heart suddenly softened.
She held Jin Chu's little hand and said softly: "When you and your brother were sick, your mother thought the same way, wishing to transfer your pain to your mother. If your mother's illness is your fault, then your mother will not only have to endure I have to endure the pain in my body."
Jin Chu curled his lips and almost cried again.
"Occasionally getting sick can build up your resistance. Mom doesn't feel uncomfortable at all, really."
"Mom is lying!" Jin Chu said angrily: "Aunt Manman said that mom had a high fever last night and fell into a coma."
Hearing this , Xu Wanning immediately scolded Tao Manman in her heart.
She didn't want to tell her children that she was sick. Anyway, she often went out for business, which could be as short as a day or two, or as long as several months. The children were used to it.
She can be discharged from the hospital after her high fever subsides, so her children don't have to worry.
The hospital is not a good place. All kinds of germs are in the air. Children are young and have weak immunity. They go to the hospital every two days. What should I do if they get infected again?