Chapter 945 Life Choice
"Just in time, I have prepared a table of food in the private room upstairs. Let's sit down and chat while eating. Please tell me carefully, what do you think of me?
When the door of the private room is closed, , Tang Ting started chattering non-stop.
She talked about her business with Chen Qiaoqiao during this time,
"I made a little money, although it was not too much, but it was better than working in the factory for a month. It's better to get a dead salary of tens of dollars. I used the money I earned from doing business several times to buy gifts for my parents, brother and sister-in-law. They were very happy, but my relatives were unhappy and attacked me personally one by one.
Originally, Tang Ting was the third member of the Tang family. A person who was admitted to university, or Huaqing University, while the family elders congratulated her, they were also jealous of Tang Ting's parents.
Therefore, when they learned that Tang Ting, a college student, did not study hard during the winter vacation, but instead set up a stall and ran a small business with her college roommates, those relatives seemed to have some fun and devalued Tang Ting as useless.
"I couldn't listen anymore, so I told them that I made a lot of money by setting up a stall, but guess what?"
"I guess they asked you to borrow money. If nothing else, the reason should be your cousin. My cousin is getting married, but the girl’s family’s demands are too high, and they can’t afford much money, right?”
Tang Ting slapped the table with her right hand and said in an excited tone, “Isn’t that what you told An Ning? That's right!"
"So you borrowed money?"
"I'm not stupid. They look down on me, but they still want me to borrow money? In the office, the children are so old, and I have never seen anyone who has saved a little money, and they even borrow money from the juniors. Isn’t it embarrassing?
“They can’t save their face, so they get angry with me, and I don’t pay attention to them.
” Ting's description was so vivid that Xu Wanning and the others could already imagine the scene.
Xu Wanning thought of Tang Ting's parents and couldn't help but ask: "What is your parents' attitude towards your business?"
"My dad doesn't think it's okay. He said that as long as I live a happy life, I don't need to care about worldly judgments. . But my mother felt that my father was the factory director, and I was the factory director’s daughter, and I was still a student at Huaqing University. It was really shameful to run a small business.
"Then I told her that my roommate, Comrade Xu Wanning, Was it because she was the top scorer in the college entrance examination in the first year after the college entrance examination was reinstated, or because she was the favorite of college teachers. Even the Academy of Agricultural Sciences was vying for her. Didn't she also run a restaurant and do business? As long as the money is earned cleanly, there will be no distinction.
Chen Qiaoqiao urged Tang Ting: "What happened next? What did your mother say later?"
Tang Ting's face drooped, "My mother said, I don't count. Who is worthy of being compared with Wan Ning? Then I became depressed. It seems that if I were not my biological child, her mother would not tell her
so straightforwardly.
You can’t be depressed!
Xu Wanning's heart tightened when she heard the word depression. Tang
Ting burst out laughing, "Don't worry, I'm not that neurasthenic." I know how big the gap is between me and you. Even if my mother doesn’t tell me, I know.
“The reason why I gave your example is to tell her that I went to college to have a good job in the future. Having a good job is In order to earn a high salary, the essence is to make money, why can't I just go into business? The money I make from doing a small business is higher than her and my father's monthly salary!"
Tang Ting said nothing . Wrong, but compared with the deep-rooted thoughts of my parents' generation, it seems a little deviant.
"Not only Tingting, but Mengmeng and Qiaoqiao must also listen carefully. Doing business can make money, but it also comes with risks. If you can make money, you may lose money. If possible, I suggest you take care of yourselves. As long as your professional knowledge is excellent and your
graduation examination scores are excellent, I will find a way to help you get into a good employer. Although the essence of work and small business is to make money, social status is different
. "Tingting, you have reached a dead end now. If you are only thinking about how to make money and how to earn more, Money, but you have ignored what you should be paying attention to most now, which is the real putting the cart before the horse.
Perhaps Xu Wanning's tone was too serious, Tang Ting was a little scared when she heard it, "Wanning, what should I do? "
"As I said just now, study hard and have excellent professional knowledge. When school starts again, I will open a boutique store. You can use your free time to work, and I will pay you wages and commissions. In addition, you should focus most of your energy on your studies.
"Tingting, the idea of making money is correct. No one can criticize your behavior. But what I want to say is that you should give your own life Providing alternative paths
: "After you graduate and have a decent job, you can choose to give up your job and start a small business, or conversely, give up your small business and work, or do both. It's all okay
. "If you give up your studies now and continue to do your small business, one day in the future, you suddenly remember that you clearly had other ways to go, but you chose to give up
. "Although, the path of life There are thousands of choices, none of which are definitely right or wrong, but with one more choice, your life will have unlimited possibilities.
This is not the first time that Xu Wanning talks to Tang Ting and the others.
But after listening to it so many times, it was this time that gave Tang Ting the greatest impulse.
Gu Meng also said: "Yes, Tingting, you should listen more to Wanning's analysis. You used Wanning as an example before, but have you ever thought about it, while Wanning opened a restaurant, she also took care of her studies, and even She also overcame the problem of greenhouse cultivation and developed hybrid rice with academicians of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences.
"She is not saying that business is not good, because she is doing it herself. She just wants to tell you that you can actually do both. " What
about you?" Tang Ting asked: "Mengmeng, what do you and Qiaoqiao think?"
Gu Meng continued: "Qiaoqiao and I have already discussed it. After school starts, we will concentrate on Study and try to get Wanning to arrange a good job for us. Of course, while studying, we will also work in her boutique. There is no conflict between the two.