Chapter 959: What is Marriage?
Xu Wanning nodded and said to Chen Ye: "Sister-in-law, you have to talk to the third brother carefully, otherwise you will suffer a lot of grievances when Sister Jingjing gets married in the future!" "
How is that possible? ! I will definitely be kind to Jingjing and will not bully her, don’t you believe me?" Xu Maoying defended herself.
Xu Wanning looked at him expressionlessly: "Don't you know how you treated Sister Jingjing in the hospital today?"
"Yes, when two people get along, due to personality and other factors, it is inevitable that There will be running-in, but you have only been together with Sister Jingjing for a long time, and it is hard for me not to think too much if you treat her like that!"
"That's because...because..."
Xu Wanning interrupted Xu Maoyan expressionlessly: "Are you trying to say that it was because you knew the reason why Uncle Tao proposed to postpone the wedding, but you didn't know how to tell Sister Jingjing, so you did that?"
Xu Maoying nodded hurriedly: "That's it. Yes, An Ning, you are the one who understands your third brother best. But
Xu Wanning just wanted to give him a big eye roll: "Uncle Tao chose to hide it. I can understand it because of his character. I don't know how to tell Sister Jingjing that you, as a person, Why did Sister Jingjing’s fiancé choose to hide it? When two people are together, shouldn't they be honest with each other? "
Let's take a step back. Even if you have a compelling reason to hide Sister Jingjing, you can definitely use other ways to resolve the matter instead of treating her with violence and cold violence!" "
Third brother, ask yourself, what was it like when you were pursuing Sister Jingjing, and what is your attitude towards her now? If you can discover the difference between the two, you can You know what I mean now.
"Whether you love someone or not, you don't say it with your mouth, but show it with actions! It's useless to talk more, think about it yourself!"
After saying that, Xu Wanning held Lin An's hand. The hand is gone.
Xu Maoying was still sitting on the stool, unable to regain consciousness for a long time.
Chen Ye sighed and said: "I have said so much, but you probably didn't listen to much. After Aning scolded you, you must be able to think of something clearly. In this case, just think about it yourself outside!"
It was windy and cold outside, and she wanted to go in early to warm up!
In the room, Tao's father said goodbye, but Tao Jingjing sat motionless on the sofa, showing no sign of going home with them.
"Jing..."
Tao's mother pressed Father Tao's hand and interrupted what he had not finished, "Jingjing, then you and Maoying will discuss the details of the wedding. I will ask your brother to pick you up later. " Home
" Tao quietly responded in a low voice, but still showed no sign of getting up.
After Tao's mother said goodbye to her eldest aunt, she quickly dragged Tao's father away.
"Why didn't you just let me take Jingjing home with you? I have something else I want to ask her carefully!"
"Let me ask you, what do you have to ask? I haven't seen you caring about your daughter much before, now. What are you asking about?"
Mother Tao said angrily, "When will you change your stubborn temper and I won't be caught between you two?"
"You still have the nerve to accuse me? Why don't you, the mother, know anything about such a big thing happening to Jingjing? It's a good thing that we met a sensible and easy-to-talk in-law, otherwise Jingjing would be a laughing stock in the future!"
"She is an adult. She has her own thoughts. Can I still keep her by my side and restrain her? You blame this and that all the time. Why don't you tell me what you have done for our family and the children?" What? Ah!"
Tao's father and Tao's mother did not see Xu Maoying sitting under the eaves, and the two left noisily.
Xu Maoying looked at the back of Tao's father and Tao's mother and had doubts for the first time.
Marriage, what exactly is it?
In the room, Chen Ye sat next to Tao Jingjing and asked softly: "Jingjing, how are you feeling? Do you feel uncomfortable anywhere?"
Tao Jingjing shook her head: "There is nothing uncomfortable for the time being. There is also vomiting, but the frequency is relatively high. I can tolerate it, but I feel that since I found out I was pregnant, I can't help but lose my temper, and I get very angry
when anything goes wrong. Eyes: "But, I was obviously not like this before.
Although she suffered a lot of grievances during her marriage to Ding Zhenlong and cried a lot, every time she cried it was for a reason. It has never been like this. Even if I just sit there and dare not do anything, I will shed tears for no reason.
Tao Jingjing didn't like this feeling.
not at all.
It's as if he is a puppet manipulated by his emotions.
Chen Ye advised: "This is normal. People who are pregnant will have such changes. I used to cry a lot when I was pregnant with An Shiyi, and I often fought with Mao Ran.
"Fight? Tao Jingjing was surprised: "You and your eldest brother don't look like they would fight."
Chen Ye smiled and said, "It's not so much a fight, it's more about me beating him in a big way
." In fact, when I first became pregnant, my mood changed. No less than you, he often made trouble with Mao Ran when nothing happened. During that time, my mother knew that the house was always in a state of chaos.
"At first, Mao Ran even coaxed me, but then the number of times increased, and he also felt annoyed. Sometimes he would argue with me. After being scolded by my mother several times, he stopped arguing with me. But I could clearly feel that the distance between us became very distant during that time. I suddenly realized that. "If this continues, the distance between us will only grow further and further
." So I had a frank chat with him and told him about my emotional and physical changes during this period, especially when I wanted to lose my temper. I can't even control myself. And I told him directly what I wanted him to do or not do in front of me
. "After this conversation, Maoran completely changed. Although I still lose my temper often, he knows and can feel it." Because of the physical pain caused by my pregnancy, he couldn’t share the physical pain for me, so he was willing to be my outlet for my emotions.
“I used to always quarrel because he didn’t know the reason why I lost my temper. Gradually, he also became more and more quarrelsome. Becoming irritable. After we talked about it after the meal, when he knew the pressure I was under, he would take the initiative to share with me that
Chen Ye had been paying close attention to Tao Jingjing's expression when he was talking.
After seeing Tao Jingjing's thoughtful mood, she continued: "Until now, whenever there is friction in our lives, we will sit down and have a good chat to