He Xiangdong's detailed consideration of his future and life has reached a level that surprised Jiang Jun.
From getting a dormitory after marriage, to having children, where to give birth, whose parents will take care of the children after giving birth, and whether the children will go to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school, or the military when they grow up, everything has been thought of!
Jiang Jun found this incredible: "How do you know how society will develop in the future? If you calculate like this, what hope do you have in life? How do you know your life won't get better in the future?"
This is a girl who hasn't even been in a real relationship yet, so why is she thinking like a parent? Isn't that too realistic?
He Xiangdong blushed. "I've heard my mom and her friends talk about this all the time since I was a kid! And the neighbors, relatives, and friends all live like this."
Jiang Jun didn't know how to persuade He Xiangdong. After all, the area around the military base was indeed very desolate. It would take at least twenty years for the market economy to extend to all areas, and the scientific research units led by the military base would gradually have more and broader contacts with the outside world.
I can't live a comfortable life in the capital while trying hard to persuade my best friend to stay here and suffer, leading a monotonous, boring and unchanging life, and being under great pressure.
"What do you think, Captain Bao?" Jiang Jun asked from a different angle.
He Xiangdong still blushed: "The window paper hasn't even been broken yet, how dare he say anything."
Jiang Yun fainted: "Just a mutual affection, a secret crush?"
I have said so much just now, and my considerations are more detailed and long-term than those of those who are married and have children. Who is the target person to be simulated?
He Xiangdong hurriedly covered Jiang Yun's mouth: "What love? Don't say it!"
Jiang Jun was at a loss for words: "You've even considered your child's future in kindergarten, school, and military service, so why can't you even discuss the topic of love?"
He Xiangdong was speechless and asked anxiously, "What about you and Staff Officer Chen? You two can just make the decision. Do they really not care?"
Jiang Jun couldn't help but feel a little proud again: "We even submitted a marriage application, and their leader approved it."
He Xiangdong was stunned: "Are you pregnant?"
Jiang Jun felt like she might be a fake bestie. How could she not keep up with He Xiangdong's thinking? The gap was too big!
How should she respond?
She said she agreed to marry him just to get a dormitory for herself? That seems a bit too snobbish!
Who would believe that someone can just file a marriage notification without getting married?
They are not in a committed relationship and have considered everything. They filed a marriage report and said they have not considered the future. Even they cannot justify themselves!
Seeing Jiang Jun remained silent for a long time, He Xiangdong couldn't help but glance at her belly: "Are you really pregnant? I can't tell."
Jiang Jun was both embarrassed and annoyed. The person who couldn't stand even the word "love" just now was now talking about children openly: "How can you have a child just by filing a report? Besides, I won't have children in the future!"
"Why?"
"No reason!"
Jiang Jun was truly ashamed and angry. "Who says women have to get married and have children? Look at the wartime. Those female soldiers, swollen with bellies, fought tirelessly amidst the hail of gunfire. They were clearly strong, but because of pregnancy and childbirth, they were forced to become weak! We're no worse than any man, so why should we bear children for them?!"
He Xiangdong was confused: "But if women don't give birth to children, who will? Isn't this what all women have to do?"
Jiang Jun looked at He Xiangdong with a look of disappointment, and said with resentment, "I won't have children in the future!"
He Xiangdong didn't know why Jiang Jun suddenly got angry. After thinking about it, he could only think of one reason: "Xiao Jun, don't be like this. Is it because Chief of Staff Chen's family treats you badly?"
Jiang Jun let out a breath, feeling that he shouldn't have lost his temper with He Xiangdong. "I don't care about their family's attitude! If his mother doesn't like me, what does it have to do with me? I'm not going to spend my whole life with his mother!"
He Xiangdong was at a loss: "Xiaojun, don't be angry. Elders are elders. You will have to live with them in the future. Just bear with it."
Jiang Jun's emotions, which were just about to relax, were stirred up again: "Why should I live with someone who doesn't like me? Why should I be so servile and look down upon her? Why should I swallow my anger? I'm not just a freeloader!"
He Xiangdong tried to calm Jiang Jun down, "Xiaojun, let's not talk about this anymore, okay? How long can you stay here? Are you going to leave with Staff Officer Chen and the others soon? Where will you be when you go back? I'll have my home leave by then, and I want to go see you. Where can I find you?"
Jiang Jun tried her best not to explode. She couldn't take her grievances out on her best friend. "I just got my file, and I have to find a new job when I go back. But I promised Aunt Bai that I would come to your house during National Day."
Perhaps it was because she trusted He Xiangdong so much that she did not hide her emotions and her expression was still very ugly.
He Xiangdong quickly said, "Come stay at our house for a few days and we can have a good chat!"
Jiang Jun's face turned pale and he nodded slightly.
Chen Yuanwu, who had been keeping an eye on the two of them, noticed that Jiang Yun looked uneasy. He put down his bowl and chopsticks and walked over. Seeing the almost untouched food on the table, he asked, "Is the food not to your liking? Or are you feeling unwell?"
He Xiangdong apologized, "We were just too busy talking."
Chen Yuanwu looked at Jiang Jun and said, "Wait a moment, I'll get a lunch box from the car and pack it for you. You can eat something on the way, okay?"
Jiang Jun was furious when she saw Chen Yuanwu. If she had met Zhang Xiuying who was unreasonable, she could have fought back, but when she met a mother-in-law like Ye Qingyin, she felt like she had a few mouthfuls of old blood in her heart, and she wanted to vomit but couldn't, and she wanted to swallow but couldn't.
He Xiangdong waited for Chen Yuanwu to leave and apologized softly: "Xiaojun, I'm sorry, don't be angry, it's all my fault, I shouldn't have said this to you."
Jiang Jun shook his head: "It's okay, it's none of your business."
It would be wrong to say that it was completely irrelevant. He Xiangdong's words made her realize her own powerlessness and incompetence. The difference in gender and the differences in the three views in different time and space could drive her crazy.
Jiang Jun was sulking, said goodbye to He Xiangdong, and followed Chen Yuanwu on the return journey.
Chen Yuanwu could guess a little bit, perhaps He Xiangdong mentioned Mo Xiaohui.
But his attitude is very firm. He filed a marriage report without even notifying his parents. Isn't this enough to prove his love for her?
To be honest, he was really worried that his mother would have a heart attack again if she knew about this.
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