Before Zhao Meilan was discharged from the hospital, a major event occurred in the country. All major departments were on high alert and increased vigilance both inside and outside the country.
Jiang Yun has to show her internal pass to the guards every day when she returns home. The unit has also issued new regulations that no new faces are allowed in the family compound.
Therefore, the plan of letting Zhao Meilan move in had to be abandoned before it could be proposed to Jiang Yonghua.
Jiang Yonghua had no such plan at first. He happily arranged to bring Zhao Meilan back to Ping County. His colleagues and neighbors were all waiting to see his little baby.
Jiang Jun breathed a sigh of relief after being torn between wanting to help and not wanting to help, and finally had a legitimate reason not to help. He took some time to go back to the courtyard to visit Ye Qingyin.
Nowadays, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a lot of common topics at work.
Ever since Jiang Yonghua mentioned Ye Qingyin's good popularity in the division's staff quarters and her interpersonal skills, Jiang Jun was not annoyed. Instead, she secretly observed her and easily discovered the secret of Ye Qingyin's ability to maneuver and advance and retreat appropriately.
She believed that her ability to read people's expressions was much better than Ye Qingyin's, but she was far inferior in terms of tolerance and cultivation.
In her original time and space, the environment where she received education was mostly with foreigners who were simple-minded and straightforward. Interpersonal relationships were relatively easy to handle, and foreigners did not have so many intimate private interactions outside of work.
Later, when she worked in China, she often ran into obstacles with the same work attitude. Finally, she chose to be a professional headhunter, dealing only with the superstructure, which was quite peaceful.
The only time she interacted with many people was when she was on Jiang Heng's crew, but Jiang Heng always waved his octopus-like wrist to shield her from view.
Now, seeing how Ye Qingyin handles the personnel relationships at all levels with ease, Jiang Jun sincerely admires her.
Jiang Jun once asked Ye Qingyin, "Mom, I understand the principles, so why can't I do it?"
The working environment does not allow direct verbal battles. The colleagues are either well-educated or have good backgrounds, and they always speak in a very subtle and tactful way. Because Jiang Jun had a direct verbal battle with Qu Meiping before, she left an image of a fierce person among her colleagues. Even now, she has been giving lectures for half a year and her image has not changed.
Ye Qingyin replied calmly, "To succeed in this world, you need more than just understanding the principles; you also need magnanimity and courage!"
Later, she relayed this to Chen Yuanwu, who smiled and replied, "Yes, my mother taught us from a young age to be tolerant and magnanimous. Whether the other person is an emperor or a beggar, we must treat them equally and not look down on them. But in our work, we must do our best so that no one can criticize us. We must know where others make mistakes but not find fault with them. When we stand there, we must have the courage to command without getting angry."
Of course, Jiang Jun still had questions: "What if someone doesn't buy your tricks and insists on challenging your authority, deliberately using your good manners to argue with her and gain the upper hand?"
She spoke out about those who used to rely on freedom of speech to vent their personal emotions anonymously on the Internet.
Especially when I was in Jiang Heng's crew, I saw many celebrities. Some of them were really innocent but were wrongly accused and scolded. In order to maintain their image, they had to swallow their anger.
As an outsider, she sometimes gets angry watching this.
Chen Yuanwu was stunned for a moment before replying, "There's no such thing as freedom of speech in this world. Anyone who dares to speak so rudely must have no self-awareness and is content to sit in a well and observe the world from a narrow perspective."
Jiang Jun asked, "So are you just going to endure it in vain?"
Sometimes she felt that it was easier to deal with people like Zhang Xiuying. If they started to make a fuss, she could just slap them to death. As for those who made sarcastic remarks, if she didn't respond, they would think she was serious, and if she responded, they would make things worse.
Chen Yuanwu laughed, "Not responding to insults isn't about forbearance. It's about giving them opportunities to make further mistakes, letting them think they're right, and then constantly challenging authority. So, those ignorant and fearless people ultimately perish at their own hands because they overestimate their own capabilities."
You don’t know until you hear it, and you’ll be shocked when you hear it.
It turns out that different people have different understandings of magnanimity and cultivation, and the way to fight back is not to fight back immediately or to take advantage of the situation to suppress others.
Jiang Jun was convinced and admitted that he had misunderstood Ye Qingyin before. From then on, he observed Ye Qingyin's reactions more carefully.
Speaking of women, it's really strange. They can be jealous of women who are not as good as themselves, dare to suppress women who are stronger than themselves, but they will unconditionally love and give to women who admire them.
Ye Qingyin was like this. She found herself becoming her daughter-in-law's idol and a role model to imitate. When she talked with Jiang Jun about work or daily life, she almost never used a lecturing tone. Most of the time, she showed the patience and tolerance of a mother teaching her daughter.
After a brief greeting, the conversation between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got down to business.
Their conversations usually start with Jiang Yun proactively reporting on her work.
Jiang Yun: "Mom, after the Chinese New Year, my company will send me on business trips all over the country to spot-check my learning progress."
Her investigation report in Lingcheng was quite perfect. It eliminated the interference of authority and power, and the steps of the investigation process were detailed and textbook-like.
In view of her outstanding performance, Su Guorui transferred her and Bu Senyuan out and set up a separate department to specialize in training demonstration societies and research and evidence collection.
Ye Qingyin: "You are already twenty years old and have been a lecturer for more than half a year. This time on a business trip, your role is not just a teacher. You are also responsible for supervision and correction. You can't be soft on the surface, but you have to be ruthless in your heart."
Jiang Yun: "Yes!"
She had heard similar words over and over again at least ten times.
She understands the truth. Supervising and correcting others is like pouring water from a cup. You have to hold it up before you can pour it out.
Ye Qingyin: "Director Wang praised you to me once, keep it up."
No one is perfect. It doesn't matter if you make mistakes. The key is to correct them. The most important thing is that there are more right things than wrong things, and the wrong things are not enough to affect the overall situation, then you are still right.
Jiang Jun: "Thank you, Mom!"
Ye Qingyin: "You are on a business trip, where is Xiaowu?"
Jiang Jun: "Yuanwu hasn't returned yet. I heard from some of his family members that he might not be back until after the Chinese New Year."
Ye Qingyin: "The situation is so urgent, and the roads are difficult to travel on. Tell the logistics department to come back and stay here, so that your family won't be worried if you encounter a snowstorm."
Jiang Jun: "Mom, my dad just gave birth to a boy."
Ye Qingyin: "Oh, I have some fabrics here that are suitable for making clothes for children, as well as some white sugar malted milk. I'll have Sister Liu find some for you later. When you go to see your father, give him my regards. I'll come visit them someday when I'm free. By the way, have you named the child yet?"
Jiang Jun: "Yes, my full name is Jiang Bai, and my nickname is Qingfeng."
Ye Qingyin: "It sounds nice, and I think I'll have a bright future."
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