Ye Qingyin only reveals her pride when she praises her own children for how outstanding they are.
It was a smile that only a mother who had won a great victory could have, full of confidence and lightness.
Jiang Jun felt that it was not that simple, so he tried to praise her: "Mom, you are so kind to Yuanwu. Dad doesn't seem to praise him much."
Ye Qingyin glanced at Jiang Jun and sneered, "You're mistaken! If I hadn't been so strict with Yuanwu, and his father had been so lax with him, who knows what kind of young master he would have become!"
Jiang Jun was surprised, really surprised: "Is that so?"
I thought Chen Zhong asked Chen Yuanwu to join the army because he couldn't stand his weak scholarly temperament and didn't look like a soldier.
Ye Qingyin's expression was a mixture of pride and complaint: "Xiao Wu's dad spoils Xiao Wu the most. He thinks everything about him is good and says he can shine wherever he goes. But in reality, Xiao Wu's dad is just afraid that they'll have nothing to talk about together, so he insists that Xiao Wu join the army."
Jiang Jun was amused by this remark.
What she saw was that when Chen Yuanwu was with Chen Zhong, they always handled matters impartially and discussed matters with each other, but when he was with Ye Qingyin, he acted like a sensible son filial to his mother.
"Mom, I thought Dad was only strict with Yuanwu."
"Tsk!" Ye Qingyin curled her lips slightly. Chen Zhong always portrayed himself as a kind father to Chen Yuanwu. "He just said, 'Xiao Wu, you'll be able to learn anything, and then he just left it alone. The rest is my business! Have you ever seen Xiao Wu's father take care of any of his children?'"
"Ah? Mom, I thought you were the one who managed things well, and Dad didn't have a chance to show his abilities!" Jiang Jun knew Jiang Yun's patience and tolerance for every detail. "You're amazing! In the future, even Gongjin Zhongmou will listen to you!"
An old person in the family is like a treasure!
Ye Qingyin really had this plan: "That's what I thought. After you have a baby, I will retire next year."
Jiang Yun felt that this was a bit of a sacrifice. "Mom, aren't you still not old enough to retire? Why don't you just take sick leave? Or I can hire a few more nannies to do the housework, and let Aunt Liu take care of Gongjin Zhongmou exclusively."
Ye Qingyin disagreed: "You don't understand this, right? A child looks like the person they were raised by. Why do you think those monkey kids look like monkeys? How can you expect your own children to look like their nanny?"
Jiang Jun was startled: "Yes!"
Ye Qingyin said slowly, "It's not that I look down on the working people. Every hardworking worker deserves respect! This is just a conversation between us two behind closed doors, so I'm speaking so bluntly. You'd better remember not to talk nonsense everywhere! We have different starting points from the nanny, we look at things from different angles, and our approaches to things are even more different. Are there any kings, princes, generals, or ministers who are born with the same kind of talent? It's all influenced by the environment! Otherwise, why do we all try so hard to get into good schools? And to squeeze into good teachers' classes? How do you think dandy kids are brought up? They're all brought up by people with a servile mentality!"
Jiang Yun nodded.
These experiences are very similar to the aristocratic theories she learned in her original time and space.
Ye Qingyin spoke excitedly, continuing in one breath: "So, parents must have the right mindset! Don't think that just because you spend money, others will take good care of your children. But think about it, you have such a high level of education, and others have to study and serve as officials for more than ten years before they can listen to your lectures, but you leave your child with a nanny who only knows a few words. This is putting the cart before the horse!"
Jiang Yun puffed out his cheeks.
After talking for so long, I said this to her.
Ye Qingyin smiled: "Have you found your seat?"
Jiang Jun shook his head. "To raise their children well, Japanese women study very hard. Some even get a doctorate before getting married and having children, just to raise them well."
Ye Qingyin nodded in satisfaction. "Well, that's not bad! Only when you can excel yourself can you pass on excellent qualities to your children through words and deeds! Raising a child is almost as arduous as the 25,000-mile Long March!"
Jiang Yun sincerely admired him: "Mom, if you hadn't told me, I would have thought you particularly liked children, so you took care of them so easily and well!"
The key is to do it really well!
To be honest, she likes Xiaomei, but not so much Diandian. Before she knew she was pregnant, she only helped to make milk powder and cook rice porridge, and didn't do anything like holding her, changing films, or washing films.
Ye Qingyin smiled contentedly: "One minute on stage takes ten years of hard work off stage. It's the same in any profession! But I really like children. Take good care of them. They'll be so pretty and lovable no matter how you look at them!"
Jiang Jun nodded with a smile, feeling extremely happy. Her eldest and second children had such a grandmother, so they had already won at the starting line!
Ye Qingyin touched his chest: "Hey, it's been a long time since I talked so much, Xiao Jiang, don't think I'm teaching you a lesson!"
Jiang Jun shook his head: "Mom, I know you are doing this for my own good!"
If she had not received the theoretical education of "it takes ten years to grow a tree and a hundred years to cultivate a person", and had only listened to Ye Qingyin's words from the perspective of her own background, or if Zhang Xiuying had heard Ye Qingyin's words, she would have jumped up to criticize Ye Qingyin's bourgeois ideas.
When people are poor and have low aspirations, they always feel that everyone in the world looks down on them.
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After the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a close and in-depth communication on the growth of the next generation of the Chen family, their relationship took another step forward.
Gao Shengmei was amazed when she saw this: "Xiao Jiang, you and Aunt Ye look like mother and daughter together!"
Jiang Jun laughed: "Do you think Diandian looks more like the Chen family's grandson?"
Diandian is a typical little duck baby, he will be close to whoever takes care of him.
After Gao Shengmei was discharged from the hospital, Ye Qingyin helped take care of her during the confinement period. After she finished her maternity leave and went back to work, she handed the child over to Ye Qingyin. As a result, Diandian is now shy and only allows Ye Qingyin and nanny Aunt Liu to hold her. Gao Shengmei's hands make Diandian cry loudly.
"That's right! So I'm just a temporary nanny!" Gao Shengmei gritted her teeth and said, "Just wait and see how I'm going to beat him when he grows up, can walk, and can call for help!"
Ye Qingyin glared at Gao Shengmei: "Don't say such things to Xiao Yunlong! Even the youngest child is sensible. He will understand everything you say and take it seriously! He doesn't care whether you are joking with anyone or not."
Gao Shengmei's speech was stagnant. She just wanted to explain that she was joking with Jiang Jun.
Jiang Jun explained with a smile, "You have to treat our Diandian with the same seriousness you would treat a director! He has to be the eldest brother in the future, otherwise his two younger brothers won't accept him!"
Gao Shengmei's eyes widened. "With your flat belly, you can still fit two more babies in there! How big will they be when they're born? Look at me, my belly hasn't gone down yet, I look more like a pregnant woman than you."
Ye Qingyin took a glance and said, "Xiaomei, are you pregnant again?"
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