The two of them laughed for a while, and finally Li Meili looked serious.
"You don't really have a partner, do you?"
Lin Siya blushed a little. Strictly speaking, she was not yet 18 years old. In her previous life, this would be considered premature love.
"Um."
"Oh my god, which brat actually took away such a beautiful woman like you?"
Li Meili looked incredulous, and Lin Siya's face turned even redder when she saw her like this.
"Tell me quickly, how did you two fall in love with each other? Where is that man from? How did you meet? Confess quickly and I will give you leniency. Resist and I will give you severity."
Seeing Li Meili's expression of watching over her, Lin Siya surrendered immediately and told her the whole process of her and Fu Sinian, from the time they met to the time they confirmed their relationship. Li Meili's eyes turned into stars after hearing it.
"Wow, you guys are so romantic."
"Is this considered romantic?"
"Isn't that romantic? If I met a man like that, I would definitely marry him without hesitation. Just like you said, he's good-looking, has a good family background, and he's also capable. A man like that is hard to come by. If I miss him, I'll definitely regret it for the rest of my life."
"Haha, so I just took the initiative."
"You're so smart. You really deserve to be my sister." Li Meili gave a thumbs up to show her agreement.
The two of them laughed and joked for a while.
"I didn't expect you already have a partner. Looks like I have to listen to my mom and go on a blind date sooner rather than later. Otherwise, just like you said, all the good ones are gone."
"Don't worry, Auntie will definitely not harm you. But when you go on a blind date, you have to be careful too. You can't just look at a person's appearance. I read in a book before that there are four types of men you shouldn't marry."
"Hey, you know all this?" Li Meili looked incredulous.
"What's the big deal? If you read more books, you will naturally understand." Lin Siya looked proud.
Li Meili immediately became interested and said, "Then tell me which four types of men you shouldn't marry. Give me some suggestions."
"Okay, listen carefully, the first type of man you shouldn't marry is called a mama's boy."
"Mama's boy?" It was the first time that Li Meili heard this term.
"Yes, a mama's boy, as the name suggests, means a mama's baby boy. This kind of man is like a child who has never grown up. He has no opinions of his own. He not only listens to his mother, his father, and his sister, but he never listens to his wife. He always says "my mother said, my mother said". When there is a conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, no matter who is right or wrong, he always takes his side. He always says "my mother raised me with difficulty, can't you just be more patient?" He reports everything to his mother and looks for his mother whenever he has difficulties. He is just a child who will never grow up."
"Oh my god, after hearing what you said, if I meet a man like this, I will be really unlucky for eight lifetimes." Li Meili felt terrible when she thought about it: "What about the second type?"
"The second type is called a domestic violence man. As the name suggests, they're men who enjoy beating women. They'll hit women at the drop of a hat. They'll repent afterward, but they'll hit them again. You have to remember this: domestic violence can happen once, but it can happen countless times. When you're on a blind date, be sure to inquire more about the man's character. See if he's emotionally stable in his daily life and whether he's prone to conflict or arguments. These kinds of men are all potential domestic violence men."
"Hmmmm."
The more Li Meili listened, the more fascinated she became, and her worldview was completely opened up.
"This third type of man is called the Phoenix Man."
"white collar guy from a working-class background?"
Yes, this so-called Phoenix Man is actually very easy to understand. It means that this man himself is very outstanding. "
"Then why can't I marry this kind of man?" Li Meili became more and more curious.
"Let me analyze this carefully for you. Although this kind of man is very outstanding, his family conditions are not good. He climbed up through his own efforts, just like a phoenix flying out of the mountains.
This type of man has a strong sense of self-esteem. Although he has good conditions, he has a family that is burdened by him. He needs to rely on the woman's better conditions to cross the social ladder. At the same time, he also bears the responsibility and hope of the entire family. This type of man generally does not want his wife to be more powerful than himself and is more concerned about money. Therefore, there is a saying that it is better to marry someone of equal status.
"What you said makes sense, what else?"
"Another example is an unfaithful man. Once unfaithful, you can never trust him again, no matter if it's towards people or things. This kind of philandering man is completely irresponsible. How much can you expect a man without a sense of responsibility to contribute to the family?"
"Siya, you said it very well."
"So, I don't object to you going on a blind date. Our parents have experienced more than us, and their judgment of people is more accurate than ours. But no one can predict things like love. After all, love is mutual. When two people are together, it can't be just one person giving. Also, if one person takes it for granted, that kind of relationship is wrong and won't last. So you need to experience it yourself."
After hearing Lin Siya's words, Li Meili seemed to be thinking about something, and just listened to Lin Siya continue speaking.
"There are all kinds of people in this world, and many are good at pretending, so you have to open your eyes and carefully distinguish them before you can find the one who is right for you. In this process, of course, it won't be smooth sailing, but it doesn't matter. You just need to remember one thing: you are yourself. You don't need to live for anyone else, and there is no need to compromise for anyone."
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