"That's because they met such good people like you. If my sister-in-law is not mistaken, there shouldn't be many people in your army who pay for it, right?" Although Niu Lili felt embarrassed, she still felt sad.

After all, the fourth couple earn so much salary every month. It would be great if they could give part of it to others and give part of it to them.

But she could only think about it in her mind. If she were asked to say it out loud, it would be absolutely impossible.

"A lot of people, after all, it's not just that one person who sacrificed, everyone contributes money every month." Lu Qingyan now admires soldiers the most, because they are kind, lovely, and responsible.

"Um..." Although Niu Lili couldn't continue the conversation on this topic, if she continued, she might forget what she wanted to ask in the first place.

I could only interrupt and ask something else: "By the way, when you came back this time, did your uncle and aunt come back with you?"

"I'm back. I haven't been back for several years. It's a good opportunity for me to bring the elderly and children back to visit. I don't know when I will come back next time." Lu Qingyan smiled and said, "My parents have been taking care of me and the children there. It's very hard. Let them come back and relax."

"It's a blessing for uncle and aunt. I don't have to work in the brigade. I can cook for you, clean the house, and take care of the children every day. It's so easy." Niu Lili said nonchalantly when she heard Lu Qingyan's words.

"Sister-in-law, you are wrong. My parents would rather go back to the brigade to work than serve us there." Lu Qingyan would not follow Niu Lili's words and said that her parents were not willing to serve them in the army at all, but were willing to go back to the brigade to work.

"Ah? This uncle and aunt really don't know how to enjoy life, right? Cleaning the house, cooking, and taking care of the children are definitely easier than working. Why do they want to go back to the brigade to work?" Niu Lili never thought that Lu Qingyan's parents would be unwilling to serve them in the army, but would be willing to go back to work in the brigade.

"To be honest, I really don't know. I have two children in my life. When one cries, the other cries too. When one pees, the other pees too." Lu Qingyan didn't know whether to laugh or cry when talking about her two sons, but she still explained, "Later, when the two children grew up, I went back to work. These two children still had to do the work at home and outside, and it all depended on my parents. Do you think they wouldn't be tired?"

"It's a bit tiring, but I don't think it's as tiring as going to work. After all, the kids in the brigade all grew up like that. There's nothing to coax them about." Niu Lili didn't know that Lu Qingyan's child was nothing like the kids in the brigade, so her words were not painful.

"It's hard to say. Raising children is different. Maybe my child is a little more difficult to raise." Lu Qingyan couldn't say that her child was raised more delicately, and was completely different from those rough-raised children in the team, so she could only say that her child was a little more difficult to raise.

"You are right. Just look at them and you will know how your uncle and aunt raise their children." Niu Lili heard this and looked at the delicate Lu Qingyan in front of her, and immediately understood what she meant.

Her child might be more difficult to raise than she says.

That should be quite troublesome, otherwise the two old people would not be willing to stay in the city and instead want to go back to the countryside.

Thinking about it this way, she felt that she had guessed right, and she couldn't help but feel happy for her parents-in-law.

It’s a good thing her parents-in-law didn’t go. If they had, they probably wouldn’t have been able to take good care of the child.

After all, Lu Qingyan was so pretentious, let alone the child she gave birth to.

"What's wrong with me? Am I fine like this?" Lu Qingyan didn't understand what Niu Lili meant, so she asked in confusion.

"It's pretty good. Ever since you married into the Gu family, you haven't left the house for three days. Let me tell you about you. Since you married here, you have not only alienated the fourth child from his parents, but also prevented him from honoring them." Niu Lili said this because she was in a rush. Although she wanted to stop talking,

But then I thought that since I had already said it, I might as well continue.

This way, he wouldn't seem like he was afraid of her, Lu Qingyan, and wouldn't dare to finish his words halfway.

"I caused it? Sister-in-law, can you please check your conscience before you say this? Are you sure it was me who caused the estrangement between Gu Mingze and his parents?" Lu Qingyan was so angry that she laughed, but she didn't get angry. She just sat there and spoke calmly.

"Yes, if you don't believe it, you can go to the brigade and ask everyone and see what the people in the brigade say about you two." Niu Lili thought that she had already said what she wanted to say, so she might as well say it all out:

"Ever since the fourth child came back a few years ago and said he had severed ties with his parents-in-law, he hasn't been back for several years, and the team has started to gossip about it. As time went on, everyone started to think it was you who caused it.

Otherwise, the Gu family was doing well before, but after you married in, why did the fourth son of the Gu family cut off all ties with his parents and didn’t come back for several years? "

"Oh, so everyone in the team thinks that I was the one who caused all this, and they don't know at all that it was my mother who was behind all this, right?" It was hard for Lu Qingyan not to be angry at this moment. After all, no matter who stabs you in the back, the person involved doesn't know about it. Now that someone else says it, I guess anyone who hears this would be angry, right?

"What our mother did was wrong, but is what you did right as a daughter-in-law?" Niu Lili looked bad, but she had a good heart, so when discussing the past, she still sided with her mother-in-law.

"Okay, sister-in-law, there's no point in talking if we don't agree. I feel like there's nothing more to say to you, so let's just stop here." Lu Qingyan had no intention of talking to Niu Lili at the moment, so after saying this, she stood up and walked out

Niu Lili looked at the people walking forward and wanted to say something, but when she saw Gu Mingze following behind her, she immediately swallowed the words.

I thought to myself, I’ll wait until next time I find the opportunity.

After all, it is better for a family to live in harmony.

The stalemate has been going on like this for a long time, and someone has to break it up so that these people can reconcile.

So let her be the bad guy, since she is the eldest sister-in-law in the family.

If not for her parents-in-law, she should also think about the next generation.

Now that the old ones are gone, the young ones should always get along well with each other.

But among their generation, only Gu Mingze has a good family background and is an official.

Therefore, if the adults are allowed to reconcile now, his sons will be able to benefit from it in the future.

But if the adults remain so rigid, there will be no hope for the younger generation.

Just do well in the future. This is the result of farming in the countryside all your life.

It's because their parents are incompetent and can't send them to the city to enjoy a good life.