Jian Shu also came back to his senses and said, "I'm sorry, Comrade Lu, I came to the social gathering today only because I couldn't resist the kind words of my senior colleagues. I'm not ready to date yet. Thank you for your kindness, but I'm sorry, I can't agree to it."
Although she was very satisfied with Lu Jianan's appearance, he was just a handsome guy, so it was enough to just admire him. There was no need to marry him and look at him every day.
She just loves beautiful women, but doesn't want to sacrifice herself for them.
Not to mention that she doesn't have any plans to date right now, even if she did, she wouldn't agree to it casually and would still have some requirements.
Lu Jianan is 28 years old this year, and she is only 18, ten years older than her, so they are not age-compatible.
What's more, she would definitely not agree if it was her second marriage and she had three children. No matter how pessimistic she was, she would never become a stepmother.
There are a lot of brothers, sisters and relatives in the family. Such a family is too complicated and she doesn't like it.
Although Lu Jianan is a deputy battalion commander with excellent qualifications, she is not bad either.
She has a good figure, good looks, a wealthy family and a decent job. She must be crazy to be a stepmother.
From ancient times to the present, has being a stepmother been so easy? Countless stepmothers have been scolded, but how many have been praised? When hearing the word stepmother, the first adjective that comes to everyone's mind is vicious.
A biological mother can discipline her child by spanking and scolding him/herself, but can a stepmother do that? Do she dare?
If your stepmother really beats or scolds you, and it gets out, you will be scolded to death and become a vicious woman.
If the child is not disciplined and has any problems, others will say that it is the stepmother who deliberately spoiled the child.
It can be said that whether you do it or not, whatever you do will be wrong, it is thankless and you are in a dilemma.
Moreover, for children, ten thousand stepmothers are not as good as their own biological mother. Even if they have worked hard to raise them and cultivate them into talents, they will still miss their biological mother.
Although it is human nature to miss one's biological mother, Jianshu is a person whose love and hate are relatively pure. She hopes that the other party will give back as much as she has given.
If she worked hard for decades only to end up making wedding clothes for others, she would be so angry that she would die.
Although this is a bit absolute, not all stepmothers in the world have a bad life, there are also some who have a good life.
But they must have put in a lot of effort for this, so why bother?
Jian Shu wasn't someone who liked children. She wouldn't even have the patience to raise her own child, so why would she raise someone else's? How could she possibly do that?
To put it bluntly, how many first-married women are willing to marry a second-married man with children?
Basically, there is a big age gap between them, and the man is a second-time married woman with children. They are all rich and well-off.
Although it may sound a bit snobbish to say this, it is the truth. We have to say that most first and second marriages are like this. Otherwise, why would a good girl want a man?
Because he's old? Because he doesn't take a shower?
Could it be true love? If it was true love, wouldn't it be strange to see him with someone else's child?
Love brings jealousy, so how can you live happily together like this every day? Of course, if you are selfless enough not to mind at all, and you love his children as if they were your own, then there is nothing to say.
Such a woman is amazing. Jianshu knows herself well and knows that she can't do it.
Jianshu is not short of money and will not become a stepmother because of these things.
Besides, considering Lu Jianan's conditions, his entire family's assets combined are not as much as hers. What reason does she have to marry him and become a stepmother to his children?
Just because he's handsome? But there are many handsome men. She's not that crazy. She would agree to it if she had a brain.
And even if she agreed on a whim, Zhao Mingze and Meng Ying would not agree. Li Li and Pan Ning would have to beat her up, and her parents would have been so angry that they would come back to life.
What parent would let their daughter, who has never been married, marry someone who has been married twice? Who loves their child? Who wants their child to have a stepmother?
Jianshu is a stingy person and a bit selfish. She is unwilling to split the love she has into two parts.
She has emotional cleanliness and requires her future partner to be as clean as herself, both physically and mentally, and no one else.
Although she grew up in that open era, Jianshu still has some of her own persistence.
She cares a lot about fairness. In her opinion, fairness is particularly important.
She has never been in a relationship or lived together, and has no emotional experience, so she will require her future partner to be as clean as she is.
Otherwise, she will feel very unfair and have a lot of negative emotions.
She doesn't want her past to be a blank slate while the other person is experienced, and she doesn't want the other person to have any traces of his ex in his heart.
You can say she is narrow-minded or jealous, that's just her nature and she can't change.
Either they are all first loves, or they have all been in love before, or they are no longer clean, or they are all second marriages. Both parties must be equal. This has always been her principle.
So no matter from which perspective, Lu Jianan does not meet her standards for choosing a partner, and there is no possibility for the two of them at all.
"Comrade Jianshu, I..." Lu Jianan was about to say something, but was interrupted by Jianshu.
"Comrade Lu Jianan, I have been out for a long time. My friends are still waiting for me. I will go in first. Goodbye." She had no intention of dating Lu Jianan, so she did not plan to continue talking to him.
To avoid embarrassment and other unnecessary things, it is better to leave early.
Now Jianshu is no longer in the mood to appreciate any appearance. After this incident, when she looks at Lu Jianan again, she feels that he is not as good-looking as before.
After Jianshu finished speaking, he turned and left without a moment's hesitation.
Looking at Jianshu's leaving back, Lu Jianan remained silent.
At first, he was forced by his leader to attend the social gathering and he was reluctant.
His wife has been dead for two years, and his children are being taken care of by his parents. When his wife was still alive, they were always in their hometown, and they basically only saw each other a few times a year.
So after she left, his life didn't actually change much, and he didn't think there was anything wrong with his current life.
But in the boss's view, he is already 28 years old, so of course he can't stay single forever. He still has to find a partner to get married and have a wife and children to live in.
Although he was married and had children, he was already deputy battalion commander at the age of 28 and was soon promoted to battalion commander. To have achieved such an achievement at such a young age, it can be said that he is very outstanding and has a bright future.
Many people are willing to marry him, but he himself is not willing.
It’s not that he has deep feelings for his deceased wife and doesn’t want to remarry, but he just feels that his current life is good and there is no need to marry again.
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