Li Li, who had been feeling a little aggrieved, felt embarrassed after hearing Jian Shu's apology. She also scratched her head and said, "It's okay, I don't blame you. Aren't you just inexperienced? You'll understand once you have a child."
"No, no, I don't have any plans to smell the shit for the time being." Jian Shu quickly shook his head.
She's disgusted with her own shit, let alone other people's, even her own children's.
Hearing this, Li Li said with a smile: "What will you do if you really need to smell it after you have a child? Or not? What if it affects the child's health?"
Jian Shu thought about the scene and said firmly, "It's okay, just let his dad smell it."
"Ahem..." Li Li was shocked by her words. The corners of her mouth twitched as she said, "I'm really sorry, Comrade Gu."
I haven't even married yet, and I haven't even had a child yet, but I already have a task. Who knows how many tasks I'll have to complete when the child is finally born.
"What's so difficult about this? Isn't this what he should do as a father?" Jian Shu said righteously.
That's the way it is. If he can't even do this, what's the point of having him?
Li Li was choked by his words and was speechless. After a pause, she asked, "What about you? Aren't you also a mother?" Shouldn't she?
Although she didn't say the latter sentence, Jianshu still understood what she had not yet finished.
She directly retorted, "Being pregnant is so hard, giving birth is so hard. I worked so hard to give birth to the child, so shouldn't it be my responsibility as a father to share more of the burden?"
If men can't even share the burden, what else can we expect from them?
"Apart from this, he has to coax the baby, change diapers, wash diapers, and feed the baby. Otherwise, I work so hard to give birth to the baby, and he just sits back and reaps the benefits? How can there be such a cheap thing in the world?" Jian Shu became more and more excited as he spoke, and directly arranged Gu Mingjing's future life as a dad.
After hearing these words, the two people next to him opened their mouths wide. There was nothing they could do. Jianshu's remarks were completely different from the mainstream thinking today.
Aren't women the ones who take care of children in every household? A man who lends a hand is already a model of a good man, a good husband, and a good father. Most people still don't do anything at home.
"I'm telling you, men shouldn't be spoiled. Why can't he do what you can do? We're all human beings and we all have to go to work. What's the difference?" Jianshu kept talking and talking.
Li Li's eyes grew brighter as she listened, and Pan Ning also looked thoughtful.
Finally, following Jianshu's words "gender equality," Li Li rushed forward, grabbed Jianshu's hands, and shook them vigorously. "Shushu, you're right. Why can I do it and he can't? I've decided. Tonight, I'll let Qi Jianan put the baby to sleep. Oh, and he'll wash the diapers, too."
Usually at home, she and her mother-in-law take care of the child, put the child to sleep, and wash diapers. Qi Jianan just holds the child in her arms and changes the child's diaper after he urinates.
She didn't think it was a big deal before. After all, when she was little, she was the one who washed her brother's diapers. Her mother held her brother in her arms and coaxed him like a precious child every day. As for her father? He didn't care about anything.
So she was very satisfied that Qi Jianan could lend her a hand before. But now, after hearing what Jian Shu said, she changed her mind.
"That's a good idea you have." Jian Shu looked at Li Li in agreement and said, "She's worthy of being her friend. She thinks quickly and hasn't been brainwashed by those so-called mainstream ideas."
Then she changed the subject, "But you can't be so impatient, okay? You can't eat hot tofu in your heart. If you want to change a man, you have to take it slowly. If you throw a lot of things at him at once, will he be able to accept it?"
It's like going to work. You could easily complete your daily tasks, and then slack off the rest of the time. But then, one day, your boss suddenly throws a huge pile of work at you. How can you, someone used to slacking off, finish it? You'd probably curse in your head, wouldn't you?
The same logic applies here. If someone were to take care of the child, coax him, and wash his diapers all at once, he'd be rebellious. He wouldn't even consider what he was supposed to do.
"That makes sense. If that's the case, not to mention Qi Jianan, I'm afraid my parents-in-law will also have some ideas." Li Li nodded.
"Yeah, so you have to take it slow. For example, when you go home today, let him coax the baby to sleep first, and then slowly let him wash diapers, wash clothes and so on, step by step. When he gets used to it, he will take the initiative to do it even if you don't ask him. And in this way, your parents-in-law won't say anything, after all, their son himself is happy to do it." Jianshu gave Li Li advice.
"Besides, this will not only make you feel more relaxed, but also allow fathers to be closer to their children. After all, the more you give, the deeper the relationship will naturally be."
As soon as Jian Shu finished speaking, Li Li patted her shoulder excitedly and said, "Good idea. I'll do as you say when I get back."
Seeing Li Li like this, Jian Shu was also very happy. "Just remember one thing, the child is not yours alone. You can't just do everything for him. If he can just sit back and do nothing, then the father should also contribute."
"Okay, I remember it." Li Li nodded vigorously.
"I remember that, too."
"Huh? Who's talking?" Jianshu turned around with a confused look on his face. Is there anyone else here?
"Ningning?" Li Li looked at the person who spoke in shock.
Pan Ning looked at the two people making such a fuss and felt that it was simply unbearable to watch. He was very disgusted and asked, "What's wrong? Can't I remember it?"
"No, no." Li Li stammered, "I'm just a little surprised."
After all, she and Pan's parents had urged her many times in the past two years, but Pan Ning had always been very resistant to the idea of dating, and for some reason, they were unwilling to force her.
She thought Pan Ning couldn't get over the hurdle in his heart.
Now that it's like this, does it mean that she has changed her mind?
Thinking of this, Li Li immediately became excited and said excitedly: "Ningning, are you looking for a partner?"
So can we go on a blind date?
"I don't have that idea yet." Pan Ning's words broke her expectations.
"Ah? Then why are you suddenly interested in this?" Li Li's face instantly turned bitter.
She had thought she could finally put her mind at ease. Just then, she was thinking about who to introduce to Ningning.
But now, her hopes were dashed. After expectation, she was disappointed. Li Li felt like a bucket of cold water was poured over her head.
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