"Ningning is here!"
"Ningning is so beautiful today!"
"What are you saying? Our Ningning is not only beautiful today. She has been a beauty since she was a child."
"Don't be so picky. I mean Ningning looks even prettier today."
"Now that she's a bride, she must be even more beautiful."
"Oh, in the blink of an eye, that chubby baby from back then has grown up so big, but I always feel like I'm still the chubby baby riding on my feet to swing!"
"Yes, time flies by so fast, and time is unforgiving—"
After Pan Ning came out, everyone she saw in the living room greeted her one by one and discussed various topics.
Most of them were compliments, while a few expressed regret that time passes and is unforgiving.
Pan Ning greeted and nodded to everyone as she walked, calling them "Aunt, Auntie, Auntie" and "Auntie" all the way. She stopped almost every step of the way, but the smile on her face never faded.
The politeness that I used to find annoying now makes me feel so nostalgic.
The road was not long, and she soon arrived in front of Ding Ming.
"Ningning." Ding Ming looked at her with shining eyes, but they quickly dimmed because of something he was thinking about.
Pan Ning was a little surprised. This was not like Ding Ming's usual style. However, she didn't have time to think about it. She said bluntly, "Let's go and say goodbye to our parents."
"Okay." Ding Ming nodded and agreed without saying anything else.
Brother Gu had analyzed the previous events with him, and he knew that the timing of his performance was not right.
However, although he knew where his previous problem lay, he still didn't quite understand girls' thoughts. What if he behaved in the wrong way again next time?
In desperation, he had to choose a stupid method - to be obedient.
Since he didn't understand, he would just follow the instructions of those who did. It was simple: he would do whatever Pan Ning told him to do, and he would not do anything Pan Ning told him not to do.
As for performing well? He finally understood that before he had a deep understanding, he might only cause trouble and bring bad luck.
Alas, his father’s experience is good, but it cannot be used for the time being!
Sighing inwardly, Ding Mingji composed himself and followed Pan Ning. Together they walked to Pan's father and mother.
Pan's father and mother sat side by side, looking at the young couple in front of them. They felt relieved but also a little sad.
The daughter I have raised for more than 20 years will become someone else's family once she leaves this door today.
Although I already have a daughter, I still feel sad and reluctant when I experience it again.
Who would be willing to do that if it were someone else?
Of course, this does not apply to those who do not treat their daughters as human beings.
Looking at her lovely daughter, Pan's mother couldn't help herself. She reached out and took Pan Ning's hand, and with tears in her eyes, she warned her, "Now that you're married, you're an adult. You can't be as willful as before, okay?"
"You won't be living alone in the future. You'll have a family and children. You need to think more carefully about everything. Don't just act on your temper and lose your temper whenever you want."
"Once you get married, you have responsibilities. You have to manage your own little family well to make it last..."
Pan's mother held Pan Ning's hand and kept giving her instructions, as if she wanted to pass on all her life experiences to her.
Maybe these experiences are not necessarily the most correct, but they are definitely suitable for this era and can make people's lives better.
So even though she had repeatedly reminded her several times before she got married, Pan's mother still couldn't help it.
The change of identity from daughter to daughter-in-law is not easy for people to adapt to, and the gap is not small.
As a mother, I always want to clear away all obstacles for my children and make their life smooth. Worry is inevitable.
With tears in her eyes, Pan Ning had knelt on Pan's mother's knees without knowing when, listening carefully to every word without any impatience.
She even hoped that time could go slower, even slower, so that she could listen more to her mother's advice and her father's concern.
When the people around saw this scene, the more sentimental ones couldn't help but shed tears, and the others also felt a little sad.
Jian Shu's eyes were slightly red and his nose was sore. He buried his whole face in Gu Mingjing's chest to avoid it. After a while, he felt the wetness coming from his chest.
He reached out and gently patted Jian Shu's back to comfort her, and whispered, "Okay, don't cry. We can meet each other anytime in the future, right?"
"That's not the reason. You don't understand at all." Jian Shu buried her face in his chest, causing her voice to sound muffled.
Even if we could meet again in the future, it would still be different. Everything had been different since the day I got married.
Gu Mingjing would never contradict him and admitted his mistake in a very cooperative manner, "Okay, I didn't understand."
But Jianshu could tell that he was just trying to comfort her and didn't really understand the feelings behind it.
So, for men, what difference does getting married make? They are still in their own home, sleeping in the same familiar room, and living in the same environment. Except for the addition of one person, it seems that nothing has changed.
In other words, you will become happier because the one you love is by your side!
However, it is different for girls.
Suddenly changing one's living environment and facing a group of "family members" who are not much different from strangers, everything makes people feel a little at a loss.
If the husband is considerate and the parents-in-law are loving, the process of integration will be much easier; but if the husband is indifferent and the parents-in-law are difficult to get along with, it will be a hellish experience.
Moreover, from the moment she gets married, "home" becomes her parents' home. If she cannot integrate into the new family, then from then on, she will have no home.
That feeling of loneliness can really bring a person down.
This is also the reason why most modern girls want to buy a house before marriage. Regardless of whether the marriage is happy or not, they always have a way out and do not have to be forced to compromise when the marriage is unhappy.
This is also the reason why most girls’ parents ask the couple to buy a house and live separately. Marriage should not be about a girl moving out of her own home and moving to a completely unfamiliar place to adapt to a mature environment that she needs to integrate into.
Instead, both men and women should move out of their homes at the same time, form a new family, adapt to an unfamiliar environment together, face life's difficulties together, and build it into their own little home.
This is what is fair.
Otherwise, why should women have to sacrifice and adapt?
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