Otherwise, if every time something happens, one person always backs down. Over time, won't the person who backs down feel unhappy? Won't the other person become even more presumptuous, and eventually lose their bearings?
When the person who was tolerant no longer wants to tolerate and the other person becomes self-centered, everything is over.
One doesn't want to retreat anymore, and the other has never thought about retreating. If these two people are together, it will be a real lose-lose situation.
Jianshu has no opinion on what he said.
When I read novels in the past, I also hoped to have a partner who would agree with me in everything, do whatever I said, and have the final say over her.
But now think about it, if there really is such a person, she will only be scared.
Everyone has emotions, and many times they need to be properly vented.
The thought of a person who always gives in, never gets angry, and has a gentle attitude seems unreal and scary.
She would rather be with someone who clearly shows his joy, anger, sorrow and happiness than be with a perfect person day and night.
Like Gu Mingjing, when we have nothing to do, we can chat with each other, you tease me, I tease you, we quarrel and have some arguments, which is actually quite good.
It can be regarded as a little change in the boring life day after day.
Meng Ying was also very happy to hear this. She knew that Mingjing was a different child from others.
I simply stopped beating around the bush and laid it all out to him, "I'm relieved that you think this way. Shushu looks like an easy-going kid, but he's actually been stubborn since he was a kid."
"If she doesn't like something, she won't like it no matter what. Once she's made up her mind, she won't change it easily. She's very opinionated. As an elder, I'm very proud and satisfied with her personality. I don't have to worry about her being fooled by others."
"But everything has two sides. While I'm proud, I can't help but worry about what kind of partner I should find in the future so that we can get along well and can truly accept her personality."
Having said this, she paused, glanced at Jian Shu, who lowered his head in silence, and Gu Mingjing, who had a determined look in his eyes, and said with relief, "Now that I see you, I can finally rest assured."
She knew that her children would be able to live well no matter what, but as an elder, she always hoped that she would have smooth sailing.
The relief after being hurt is also something people don't want to see.
"Aunt, I think Shushu is great, no matter her personality or anything else. Since I've chosen her, it means I accept everything about her, her strengths, weaknesses, excellences, and shortcomings. These are all who she is."
"I understand your concerns, but please rest assured that marriage is a decision I made after careful consideration, not a spur-of-the-moment decision. When I made the decision, I indicated that I was capable of shouldering the responsibilities it would entail. No matter the outcome, good or bad, I will not regret it."
"I won't make any promises or guarantees in front of you. Promises without legal effect are just empty words that can be torn up at will. They are worthless.
"I will use practical actions to prove to you that you did not make a mistake in choosing me today, and you will not regret the choice you made today."
Gu Mingjing's voice was calm and firm, just like him. Just looking at him made people feel at ease and very reliable.
Meng Ying looked at him quietly without saying a word.
The atmosphere in the living room suddenly became solemn, but no one spoke to break it.
Zhao Mingze lowered his head, not knowing what he was thinking, and Jianshu kept his mouth tightly shut.
Gu Mingjing also spoke frankly to Meng Ying, his eyes full of sincerity without any evasion.
Two minutes later, with Meng Ying's chuckle, the atmosphere became relaxed again.
"Okay, today, I'll trust you for once. We've agreed on your relationship with Shushu, and I hope you won't let us down."
Just like Gu Mingjing said, all promises and guarantees are empty. The only thing that can restrain a person is his own bottom line.
She didn't want two people who were in love to go their separate ways after many years, leaving behind only regrets of having chosen the wrong person. In fact, separation is not scary, but the scary thing is to deny the days they spent together, which is what really makes everything in the past become a joke.
No matter good or bad, the past is a trace in life. They cannot see the ending now. She only hopes that they can cherish the present and remain the same.
"You kid, remember what you said today. If you regret it later, I will make you pay!" Seeing that everything was settled, Zhao Mingze, who had lost the right to negotiate, could only make a harsh remark at the end.
Having escaped, Gu Mingjing, whose back was slightly sweaty, suddenly relaxed a lot. Hearing Zhao Mingze's threatening words, he immediately smiled bitterly, "Uncle Zhao, why would I bother you anymore? If I say I regret it one second, my dad will kick me out of the house the next second."
"Maybe I've just been kicked out of the house, and my dad will start looking for a partner for Shushu right after I get kicked out."
Zhao Mingze: “…”
Meng Ying: “…”
Based on their understanding of Gu Zhan, he could really do this.
Zhao Mingze instantly became excited. What a great idea! If that day ever comes, let's do it!
Isn't it just men? Three-legged frogs are hard to find, but two-legged men are everywhere!
If this one doesn’t work, then try another one. Are you going to hang yourself on a tree?
Thinking of this, he looked at Gu Mingjing with more ill intentions, "Humph! You kid, don't give me a chance!"
Gu Mingjing: “…” He originally said this just to ease the atmosphere and reassure the two of them, but why did it seem like he ended up digging himself into a hole?
In fact, he dug this hole himself. Is there anything more depressing than this?
You know what, it really exists.
Looking at the faces of the people present, some of whom were laughing, some were lost in thought, and some had no expression on their faces, Jian Shu poked Gu Mingjing with his elbow with interest.
She whispered in his ear, "Listen, you have to be nice to me from now on and don't make me angry, otherwise, there will be people waiting in line behind you!"
Gu Mingjing's expression suddenly turned ugly.
He dug a hole himself, and Zhao Mingze kicked him in. Finally, his fiancée covered the hole with soil herself and buried him in it.
Is there anything more distressing than this?
"Am I not good enough to you?" He looked at her with some grievance.
Although he liked to tease her, sometimes making her angry, and liked to give her gifts when she said shut up, but...
As he thought about it, Gu Mingjing became a little panicked.
When I think about it this way, he does seem a bit bad.
Jian Shu raised an eyebrow, "It's okay."
"What do you mean it's okay?" Gu Mingjing asked anxiously.
If it's good, it's good. If it's bad, it's bad. It's really uncomfortable to suddenly be okay, neither good nor bad.
"It's okay, but there's still room for improvement. You need to keep working hard, okay?"
"Okay, I will definitely keep working on it!"
Seeing that he had fooled the person, Jianshu was very satisfied.
Very good, don't miss any opportunity to benefit yourself.
It’s me as expected!
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