Holding back any emotions for too long is bad for your health. The most important thing now is to let Wu Xiufang vent.
Jianshu guided Wu Xiufang to speak out the things that were weighing on her heart, and stood on the same front with her to share the same hatred and enemies, to speak up for her and to condemn others together.
Gradually, Wu Xiufang's mood improved and she became more energetic.
Many times, people just lack someone to listen. When they encounter something bad, they talk to someone, and they both curse at each other, and then forget about it after a few days.
The reason why Wu Xiufang has been suppressed for so many years is simply because she lacks such a person.
She has a bad relationship with her husband's family, and she doesn't want to make her family worry about her. Her child is still young, and her closest husband is not only her husband, but also someone else's son and brother, which makes her unable to speak.
Those things could only be suppressed in my heart, and I never forgot them for many years. Until Jianshu's words became the fuse that ignited everything.
The two walked to the place where they were waiting for the bus. The bus had not arrived yet, so they found a sheltered place to wait.
There weren't many people waiting for the bus, mostly people going to work in the city. Because it was so cold, most people didn't go out much.
Avoid the crowd and stand in the corner to whisper.
"Shushu, thank you. After telling you, I feel much better." Wu Xiufang stroked her chest, took a long breath, and smiled at Jianshu.
"It's good that you can think positively. There is nothing in life that you can't overcome. If you have any unhappy things in the future, you are always welcome to talk to me." Jianshu is happy to be a trash can.
Wu Xiufang regained her former energy and jokingly said, "You said so, so you're not allowed to find me annoying in the future."
"How could that be? Am I that kind of person? I promise to be at your service anytime." Seeing that she was in a better mood, Jian Shu continued, "Sister-in-law, besides me, if you encounter similar situations in the future, you can also talk to Captain Zhao?"
"Tell him?" Wu Xiufang's smile faded. "Forget it, he won't care."
Jian Shu shook his head disapprovingly, "Sister-in-law, you've fallen into a misunderstanding."
"What do you mean?" Wu Xiufang looked puzzled.
"Sister-in-law, you think they are a family, flesh and blood, and the bond between them is there and cannot be separated. Even if you tell him, it will only make things difficult for him, right?"
Wu Xiufang nodded.
"Sister-in-law, have you ever thought about this? Even affection will fade away. They are blood relatives. Does that mean Tiedan and the others are no longer Captain Zhao's blood relatives? Doesn't that mean the affection you have for him, who you've shared a bed with for over ten years, is not deep?"
"Father, mother, and brothers are important, but wife and children are not? Even if it's like you said, if you tell him at the beginning, he will be caught in the middle and can't make the decision for you. He may just comfort you. But what if there are more such things?"
"You mean..." Wu Xiufang thought to herself.
"Sister-in-law, there has been a saying since ancient times that pillow talk. On one side are the wife and daughter who are being bullied, and on the other side are the so-called relatives who are becoming increasingly distant and arrogant. After a long time, which side will your heart lean towards?" Jianshu pointed out meaningfully.
As long as the man is not the kind of foolishly filial man, it is obvious which side he will lean towards.
And for Captain Zhao to have reached his current position, could he be a foolishly filial person? If so, I imagine that the family of six wouldn't be living a quiet life in the family compound now.
Jian Shu didn't believe that the mischievous relatives from Wu Xiufang's hometown would stay at home peacefully. They might have been planning to live a better life in the family compound for a long time, but were simply rejected by Captain Zhao.
Perhaps this is why Captain Zhao has been sending money home every month for so many years and has always responded to requests.
Firstly, as a son, he might feel guilty and want to give more financial support; secondly, he also wants to use money to shut the other party up and buy some peace and quiet.
Although Jianshu does not quite agree with this solution, it cannot be said that it is completely wrong.
However, he did not expect that there would be such a huge conflict between his wife and his parents and brothers, and he did not expect that his so-called relatives would be hypocritical and say one thing in front of him and another behind his back.
It is precisely the error in information that has led to the current result.
The main culprits for all these things are the group of ungrateful parasites in Captain Zhao's hometown who sucked his blood from his family. Captain Zhao's neglect of his family is secondarily responsible, and Wu Xiufang's behavior of keeping everything in her heart is also wrong.
Husband and wife should support each other. If they don’t open up to each other and communicate, problems will easily arise, just like what is happening now.
Wu Xiufang stood there in a daze, muttering to herself, "Did I do something wrong?"
Jianshu's words were like a wake-up call, causing her to start reflecting.
If she had silently endured all the grievances from the beginning, would everything be different?
Fearing she might get stuck in a rut, Jian Shu quickly spoke up, "Sister-in-law, please don't take all the blame on yourself. You're the victim in this whole thing. The ones with the problem are those who took advantage of you and bullied you, and Captain Zhao. As a husband, he didn't even notice that his wife and children were wronged. Doesn't that mean he has no problems?"
Even if Wu Xiufang did something wrong, she is the complete victim in this matter. Instead of blaming the perpetrators, people blame the victims for silently enduring it. How can this be justified?
"Don't worry, I don't mean to take the blame on myself." Seeing Jian Shu worried about her, Wu Xiufang felt warm in her heart. "I just thought it through. Indeed, I shouldn't bear everything silently by myself. They are his parents, not mine. If they encounter problems in the future, let him handle them. I won't interfere anymore."
Jian Shu breathed a sigh of relief, then nodded in agreement. "You're right to think so. His parents raised him, so what does it have to do with you? If he wants to be filial, let him do it. Why should you suffer? You used to think too much about him and endured everything. That's why he thinks life with a loving father and filial son is wonderful. From now on, let him deal with it on his own."
She dared to guarantee that that group of greedy, evil and stupid people would destroy this promising son within a year.
Don't say that Jianshu looks down on others. It's really that she can't understand the behavior of that family. You don't coax such a promising son, but treat his wife and children harshly. It's lucky that Wu Xiufang is good-tempered and didn't complain, otherwise they would have been separated long ago.
Now that Wu Xiufang is no longer watching over him, I'm afraid it won't be long before his true colors are revealed.
By then, hehe...
It is definitely impossible to live a good life like we do now. The most we can get is some pension money.
Forget about anything else. No matter what plans that family has, they will all fail.
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