Chapter 60
In the kitchen, Aunt Wang was cooking with the door closed, so she couldn't hear any talking in the living room.
I hope the two children can like each other and be good children.
In the living room, Xu Di took a sip of tea and thought about how to ask about his family situation. Her parents wanted to know the details.
"Comrade Xu, have you really thought it through? Can you accept long-term separation or can you accept living with my grandma?"
"Comrade Zhang, I have thought it through and I can accept this kind of life.
Although I may have a harder time in the future and have to shoulder more responsibilities than others.
But you are defending your country and doing a meaningful job.
As a military family member, I have to bear some responsibilities, but at the same time, I also enjoy certain benefits. ”
Of course, Xu Di couldn't say that she just wanted to find a husband who would be away from home all year round and live a life that was not single.
Moreover, Xu Di has a good impression of soldiers. In past and present lives, I always think they are an amazing group of people.
Moreover, being a soldier is a very honorable thing. Especially in the 1960s and 1970s, that was the mainstream of society.
Military dependents are treated well and are taken care of.
"Thank you for your understanding, I really like this military uniform and this job.
I still say the same thing, I can't accompany you all the time, but I will be absolutely loyal to the marriage.
My salary and allowances are not low. I will give them all to you, except for the necessary living expenses and some help to the families of our fallen comrades. ”
Zhang Chaoyang thinks that since you are going on a blind date, you should show your true self and not hide anything. Make it clear what’s good and what’s bad to avoid conflicts in the future.
"Comrade Zhang, I understand your sincerity. Now, I want to ask you something about your family.
You also know that marriage is not only a matter between two people, but also a matter between two families.
As for me, I was spoiled by my family since I was a child. I am not afraid of hardship, but I cannot tolerate being bullied.
You have to explain to me clearly the interpersonal relationships at home. If there is a shrewd mother-in-law, an unreasonable sister-in-law, or sisters-in-law who sow discord, I cannot accept it. ”
Zhang Chaoyang's eyes darkened. He had a strong mother, a pretentious sister, and a domineering sister-in-law in his family. He felt that he was tricked everywhere.
"Comrade Zhang, you don't have all of them at home, do you?"
Although Comrade Zhang controlled his facial expression very well, Xu Di didn't notice anything. However, his sudden silence made people suspicious.
"Comrade Xu, to be honest, it's pretty much the same.
My mother is a strong person and has some influence. My dad likes to smooth things over.
My eldest brother and his wife have a bad relationship and they quarrel every other day.
I also have a pair of twin siblings, a boy and a girl. The younger brother is a normal person and is studying at the Workers, Peasants and Soldiers University.
My younger sister is in the army art troupe and she is a bit pretentious.
However, these problems are not difficult to solve because I don't live with them.
I was raised by my grandmother and have an average relationship with my parents.
When I was young, my parents worked in other places, and I didn’t see them for three or four years at most.
Moreover, I will not take my parents' opinions for granted.
As for my younger brothers and sisters, they are quite afraid of me and think I am unkind, so they don’t interact with me much.
By this calculation, I don't have all of the things you mentioned. ”
Zhang Chaoyang has a strong desire to survive, and he really has a good impression of Comrade Xu.
It wasn't love at first sight. He had felt a little moved when they had been communicating with each other before.
Today, after meeting, that little bit of excitement turned into my whole heart being moved.
This was the first time in his twenty-four years of life that he had this feeling. He didn't want to give up easily.
Xu Di was disappointed at first, because she was very satisfied with Zhang Chaoyang's conditions, which met her requirement that the person would not come back but the money would.
After meeting him today, I am very satisfied with him.
First of all, the appearance is good.
Given their looks, the child they give birth to can't be ugly. Secondly, he is not like what Aunt Wang said, a dull person who can’t say nice things.
Although this person speaks directly, there is still some humor in his words.
Although they don't have to live together every day in the future, there will be times when they live together, and she still hopes that the man as a husband has a sense of humor.
It’s just that the situation in his family is a bit complicated.
It seems that the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not very good. His mother is rather snobbish, so her family background is definitely not within his consideration.
However, he was raised by his grandmother, so it's a good thing that he won't live with his parents in the future.
As for whether he can really ignore his parents' advice and make his own decisions, we have to ask Aunt Wang, as she doesn't want a mama's boy.
"Comrade Zhang, can you really make the decisions about your own affairs? Is it true that your parents will not and cannot interfere in your life?
I don’t want to get married and, when I’m taking care of the family alone, receive all kinds of orders from my mother-in-law from time to time, asking me to be a good and filial daughter-in-law. ”
Xu Di also wanted to ask clearly to see if it was within her acceptable range.
It is not easy to find someone with the right conditions and appearance.
"I can guarantee that after we get married, you won't have to worry about any of my family members except my grandma.
My grandma is a reasonable person, you two will definitely get along well.
My mother is a person who cares about her reputation. She won't cause trouble at your workplace.
Others, you can just ignore.
My relationship with my siblings is average, there are no conflicts and we are not very close.
It's good for everyone to keep to themselves and live their own lives. ”
Zhang Chaoyang quickly made his position clear. He felt that if he hesitated for even a second, Comrade Xu would retreat.
"I'll ask Aunt Wang later to confirm whether what you said is true.
Don’t think I don’t trust you. I believe Aunt Wang’s words more than Comrade Zhang when I first met him. ”
Xu Di likes to ask openly and put the problem out in the open. He doesn't like to hide things.
"That's natural. You're right. Compared to a stranger like me, Aunt Wang is someone you can trust.
If given the chance, I also hope to be one of the people you can trust. ”
"Comrade Zhang, Aunt Wang said that you are rather dull and not good at speaking. But I think you are quite talkative and good at speaking."
Xu Di had some questions in his mind and raised them directly.
“Auntie Wang watched me grow up and left the stereotypes of my childhood in my mind.
After I graduated from high school, I joined the army and went to the south where I couldn’t speak the language. During this period, the number of times I came back could be counted on one hand.
We have to adapt to different environments and receive different training for our missions, and our personalities will also change. ”
Zhang Chaoyang was very quiet when he was young, so in the eyes of adults, this child was quiet and dull.
“Understand, growing up is not just about growing taller.
Let me also tell you about my family’s situation. My parents work in a machinery factory. My eldest brother is married and also works in a machinery factory. I have an older sister who is an educated youth in Yunnan Province and has just gotten married, and a younger brother who is in elementary school.
I also lived with my grandparents when I was young, until I was eight or nine years old, when I had to come back to go to school.
My family is relatively simple, and we all have good relationships with each other. I have close relationships with my relatives. ”
The Xu family is one of the few harmonious families in this era, without any of those messy things.
Both of them showed their cards and pondered in their hearts. In fact, it was Xu Di who was pondering in his heart, whether to accept it or not.
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