Chapter 63
After coming out of the cinema, Xu Di was going home.
"Comrade Xu, I'll take you there."
"Comrade Zhang, I'll go back by myself. Your arm is still injured, and it's not suitable for you to squeeze on the bus."
Xu Di didn't ask Zhang Chaoyang to send her off because she was used to being independent. Moreover, I really feel that Comrade Zhang’s arms are not suitable for squeezing into the bus.
"Okay then. I'll take you to the bus stop. Once you get on the bus, I'll go back."
Zhang Chaoyang settled for the second best and didn't send it off, feeling that it was not right.
"Okay, I'll get on the bus and you can go back. You still have to be careful with your arms."
Now that he had agreed to be in a relationship, Xu Di also tried to adjust his mentality.
She really couldn't act like a real 18 or 19-year-old girl, shy and timid, with fluttering hearts in love.
A young body contains a heart that has experienced many vicissitudes of life, so there is no need to be shy.
Zhang Chaoyang sent Xu Di to the bus and then went home.
"You came back so soon, without sending Xu Di home?"
As soon as Zhang Chaoyang entered the house, his grandmother asked anxiously.
"No, Comrade Xu said that my arm was injured and I was not fit to take the bus.
I think she wanted to digest what I said quietly. ”
"What did you say? You scared the girl so much that she wouldn't let you send her home.
Didn’t your Aunt Wang say that Xu Di agreed to date? Did you change your mind later? ”
Grandma Qian was anxious, and the worry that had just been put at ease was lifted up again.
"Grandma, no. Don't worry, I've told Comrade Xu everything about my family.
The matter between you and grandpa, my mother's power, the bad relationship between my brother and sister-in-law, and my sister's arrogance and domineering. ”
"That needs to be made clear, not just good things. Chaoyang, does Xu Di know that I'm your grandmother?"
Grandma Qian reacted, and Xu Di knew that she was Chaoyang's grandmother.
"Okay, got it."
"Is Xu Disheng angry?"
Chaoyang looked at his grandmother with a nervous expression. It seemed that she really liked Comrade Xu.
There is really such a thing as affinity between people.
His grandmother never cared so much about his sister, and they didn't like each other very much.
"I'm not angry. I think Comrade Xu is very happy to know that you are my grandmother.
She said that because she knew you were my grandmother, she felt more confident about her future life. ”
For a moment, Zhang Chaoyang felt that Comrade Xu liked his grandmother more.
Although, he has never been in a relationship.
But even though he had never eaten pork, he had seen pigs run, especially in high school, when many of his classmates and friends were secretly dating.
He did not see any shyness on Comrade Xu's face, except that she stared at him for a while when they first met.
Afterwards, both of them were calmer. Comrade Xu thought about things clearly, one question after another.
However, Zhang Chaoyang thinks this is a good idea. They met through a blind date and don't know each other well. As they get along better with each other, they will gradually get closer to each other.
"I'm glad you're not angry. I'm really afraid of losing such a close friend.
Chaoyang, the nature of your work means that you contribute little to your family.
So, if you and Xu Di really get married, you must learn to respect and love your wife.
Recognize her contribution to the family and her contributions.
Half of the credit for your future military honors will be due to her.
Being a husband and a father is not just about earning money and bringing it home.
My grandmother has worked in the Women's Federation for so many years and has seen too many family conflicts.
You have to learn to cherish your wife, because she is the one who will be with you for the rest of your life.
Your parents have other children, and their children will grow up and leave you. Only your wife is the only one who will stay with you until the end.
There will always be conflicts in the family, and how the family will be in the end depends mainly on whether the husband can do his job.
You must stand firmly on your wife's side and not let her feel that you treat your family better than she does.
You can't always be with her, but you have to give her enough sense of security. ”
Grandma Qian has dealt with too many family disputes, including conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, if the husband can handle the relationship well, things will be much easier.
Many mothers-in-law enjoy the care of their daughters-in-law, but in their hearts they treat their daughters-in-law as outsiders. They don’t know how to feel sorry for others, so how can there be no conflicts?
People are all made of flesh and blood. After a long time, they will be able to tell whether someone is sincere or not.
"Grandma, I know. I will study hard and try my best to be a good husband and father in the future."
“I believe the grandson I raise will be a responsible man.
Oh, I don’t know whether Xu Di’s parents will agree.
It would be great if you could get married earlier, you are not young anymore.
I have to see if the tickets I have are enough for three turns and one ring. ”
Grandma Qian hummed a tune from her hometown as she went to take inventory of her small treasury.
Zhang Chaoyang hasn't heard his grandmother hum this tune for a long time and he really misses it.
As for Xu Di, he got off the bus and went straight home.
Because she was going to meet Zhang Chaoyang, she told Jin Weidong in advance that she would not be delivering goods during this period.
She didn't know what branch of the military Zhang Chaoyang belonged to, but soldiers had very strong vigilance and reconnaissance abilities, and she didn't want to be exposed.
Xu Di entered the family compound, met a neighbor he knew, greeted him, and went straight upstairs to go home.
Today, all the family members are here.
Xu's father and mother, Brother Xu and Sister-in-law Xu were all at home, even Xu Jun didn't go out.
"You are all at home, why don't you go out?"
"What do you think? Of course we are waiting for you to come back. Sister-in-law, my parents are getting anxious. Tell us what the man looks like and what the family situation is like. What did you two say? Have you decided to date?"
Mrs. Xu and Xu Di have a good relationship, so they speak more casually and are not at all shy.
"What your sister-in-law asked is what we want to know too. Please tell us quickly."
Xu Di knew that he had to explain clearly, otherwise, it would be difficult to pass this test.
Taking off the bag and putting it aside, Xu Jun brought a chair to her second sister and asked her to sit down and talk.
"Mom, Dad, Big Brother, Big Sister-in-law, Xiaojun, I'm telling you, listen.
Zhang Chaoyang's parents are both in the military. His father is in charge of logistics and his mother is an accountant in the military hospital.
He grew up with his grandmother, and his parents basically didn't care about him.
I also know his grandmother, Grandma Qian, who has a very good relationship with Aunt Wang and whom I mentioned to you before.
She is also an old revolutionary. Before her retirement, she was the chairman of the Municipal Women's Federation.
He also has an older brother who is married. There is a pair of twin siblings, one is in the art troupe and the other is studying at the Workers, Peasants and Soldiers University.
That's the basic situation. He is in the southern army, holding the position of deputy battalion commander. His salary is not low, and he also receives subsidies. ”
Xu Di told her what Zhang Chaoyang had told her about the family situation. As for the children born to his grandfather's later wife, Xu Di did not ask because there was a layer of separation.
"This is the son of a high-ranking official!"
Mrs. Xu exclaimed, there is a big gap between her family and other people!
"Xu Di, do his parents know about your situation?"
"I don't think he knows. His grandmother is in charge of his affairs. His parents have no right to interfere."
These were Zhang Chaoyang's original words, and Xu Di just repeated them.
Xu's father and mother didn't speak for a long time. They were thinking, with such conditions and such a family, could their Xu Di cope with it?
In the living room, everyone fell into a brief period of contemplation and no one spoke.
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