Chapter 64
The Xu family's living room was silent for a full five minutes, but it felt like fifty minutes.
"Xu Di, have you thought it through?
Whether it is the long-term separation after marriage or the complicated family relationships in the other party's family, do you have the confidence to handle it? ”
Father Xu spoke up and got to the heart of the matter.
Xu Di did not answer immediately. Living apart was her own request and she was confident that she could convince her parents.
As for the complicated family relationships in Zhang Chaoyang's family, to be honest, Xu Di himself doesn't know.
In his previous life, Li Kai was the only child in the family. Although her parents-in-law were sweet on the outside but bitter on the inside to her, they did not live together.
Apart from unconditionally doting on his son, brainwashing her and making her unconditionally tolerate their son, there are really no major conflicts otherwise.
He is also good to his only grandson. Although he doesn't contribute to the project, he still gives money to the child.
This is also the main reason why Xu Di, after waking up, knew that he had this opportunity and could enjoy his new life with peace of mind.
My son has graduated from college, and his grandparents have prepared a house for him to live in when he gets married.
Never mind. There's no point in thinking too much.
In her previous life, her death was a relief for both her husband’s family and her own family.
In this life, she wants to live the life she wants and follow her own ideas.
Even if she made the wrong choice again, she would admit it.
"Dad, Mom, Zhang Chaoyang can't come back often, and it's not certain whether he can come back once a year.
However, I am confident that I can handle what comes my way in life.
What's more, Grandma Qian is in good health and can help me.
Even if I can't, I can do it.
As for other members of his family, I can choose to have less contact with them or no contact at all.
If we get married, I will live with his grandmother, and we will be far away from each other and only see each other a few times a year. ”
Although Xu Di didn't know whether he could handle Zhang Chaoyang's parents, he would deal with it as it came.
No matter who you marry, such problems are unavoidable.
Unless she finds someone who has no father or mother.
However, in this era, even those who have no parents will have a group of younger brothers and sisters following them.
She likes children, but she doesn't like to help others raise children or be a great eldest sister-in-law.
"You don't live together, and they ask you to come over for something, can you not go?"
Xu's mother felt that Xu Di's thinking was too simple. If a mother-in-law wanted to torture her daughter-in-law, there were many ways to do so.
"Mom, this is not ancient times. I have my own job and organization.
I am a military wife, a military wife who is left alone at home, and the Women's Federation will not just sit there and do nothing. ”
Xu Di is not afraid of big things. They all want to save face, and she, a barefoot person, is not afraid of those who wear shoes.
Although Xu Di has not experienced the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law herself, she has watched TV dramas for so many years and has some theoretical knowledge.
Zhang Chaoyang said that he just wanted to save face, and that was all.
Moreover, Xu Di felt that since Zhang Chaoyang's parents didn't care about him, how could they spend too much time paying attention to his unpopular daughter-in-law?
Looking at their daughter's energetic look, Mr. and Mrs. Xu felt that it would be superfluous to say anything.
"Xu Di, have you ever been to Zhang Chaoyang's grandmother's house? Is the house big? Are there any extra rooms?"
"Yes, Xu Di, Comrade Zhang's grandmother lives alone. What about his grandfather? Did he pass away? He doesn't have any uncles or aunts?"
After listening for a long time, Xu's mother felt something was wrong. After her eldest daughter-in-law asked this question, she finally knew it.
Xu Di always said that Comrade Zhang was raised by his grandmother, but never mentioned his grandfather.
"Mom and Dad, Grandma Qian lives alone. Comrade Zhang's grandfather is the head of the army and has another family."
Xu Di was thinking about how to simply explain Grandma Qian's matter so that her family could understand.
"Isn't that just abandoning your wife?"
Xu's mother yelled, which scared Xu Di.
"Not really. It was just a coincidence."
Xu Di told his family about Grandma Qian’s matter. This matter had to be told sooner or later.
"Why is it so tortuous? This old lady is quite stubborn."
Xu's mother also knew that similar things happened a lot in those days.
When the People's Republic of China was just founded, many people left their wives behind and married young and beautiful new wives in the name of breaking the feudal arranged marriages.
"The compound where my parents, my eldest brother and his wife, and Grandma Qian live is next to Aunt Wang's house.
I've been there several times. It's on the second floor, with three bedrooms and a living room, which is big enough for us. ”
Xu Di knew that such housing conditions were quite good at this time.
How many families, with more than a dozen people, are squeezed into two rooms?
"In that case, Comrade Zhang's conditions are really good."
Mrs. Xu felt that except for living apart, all other conditions were acceptable.
"What did you say?"
"We will be in a relationship for now. Comrade Zhang has a month's vacation this time.
We want to understand each other, and if neither of you has any objections, then we can talk about marriage. ”
Xu Di didn’t know how men and women in the 1970s dated each other. She still had to go to work and only had one day off a week.
"Dating without the intention of getting married is just hooliganism. When the time comes, you can contact them and ask when they are free. We want to meet them."
Father Xu feels that kids nowadays talk about free love all the time and are too casual about free love.
Marriage and life together are not just playing house.
“Is it too fast?”
Xu Di didn't expect to meet her parents so soon. This was their first meeting.
"Why hurry? We haven't met him yet. Are we sure he is someone you can trust for life? Can we trust you to associate with him?
When the time comes, the woman will be the one who suffers from the rumors. ”
Xu's mother also agreed to meet the person first and then take a closer look. If it doesn't work, then there will be no meeting.
"I see. I'll ask Aunt Wang tomorrow. Mom and Dad, I'm going back to my room to change my clothes."
"Go, go..."
Xu's mother did nothing all morning but thinking about Xu Di's affairs.
Mr. Xu also had something else to do, so he quickly changed his clothes and went out.
Brother Xu and his wife also took their child back to her parents' home, and the house suddenly became empty.
"Second sister, can I come in?"
"Come in."
Xu Jun pushed open the door and entered his second sister's room.
"Second sister, do you want to marry him?"
"So far, I'd like to get married."
“Then you can get married. I’m still several years away from graduating from high school.
When you give birth to a child, I can help you take care of it. If someone from your husband's family bullies you, I will help you fight back.
I can eat so much in one meal now, and I have a lot of energy. I can quarrel too, I'm not afraid of them. ”
Xu Jun said it very seriously. His second sister was good to him, so he should also be good to her.
“Okay, I’ll wait for you to help me take care of the kids and support me.
Thank you, Xiaojun! ”
"What are you thanking me for? Aren't you my biological sister? Second sister, no one has called me Xiaojun for a long time."
Xu Di touched her brother's head. She could feel that Xiaojun was speaking from the heart.
"Okay, go play."
"Then I'm leaving. The fat guy downstairs is waiting for me."
"Go ahead."
Xu Jun pushed the door open and went out. After a while, he heard the excited voices of children in the corridor.
The children are really energetic and full of vitality.
Tomorrow, I will go find Aunt Wang and convey her parents' opinions.
I hope Comrade Zhang Chaoyang can get past his parents.
Otherwise, it would be difficult to find someone who would satisfy her.
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