Xu Nanxing followed Zhang Zhilan back home.
She took out the vegetables she brought. This time she brought some beans, cabbage, radishes, eggplants and a few tomatoes.
"Sister-in-law, these vegetables were just picked this morning and are still very fresh. I brought them for you to try!"
Zhang Zhilan looked at the vegetables, all of which were very juicy and growing well, especially the bright red tomatoes, which looked delicious at first glance. She said happily, "These vegetables are growing really well! Freshly picked vegetables are so juicy!"
He also asked with concern whether he was used to life in the countryside and whether he had been bullied.
Xu Nanxing answered them one by one.
As for being targeted by Huang Meifeng and Song Liandi, since the Xie family did not know the true situation of Xu Nanxing's parents, she had been vague about it when she mentioned her family. In addition, the matter had already been resolved by her, so she did not tell Zhang Zhilan about it.
Just say everything is fine in the countryside.
Zhang Zhilan felt that the little girl seemed to be hiding something in her words. She just thought that the little girl had just been in the countryside for a short time and had some friction with other educated youth, so she didn't think much about it.
He could only comfort her, "Girl, if anyone bullies you, just come find your Big Brother Xie. As long as he's around this town, your Big Brother Xie's identity as a police officer can still deter some scoundrels! If there's something that's inconvenient for you to go to him, you can also come to me and I'll make a decision for you!"
"Yes, I know, sister-in-law! If something really happens, I will definitely come to you for help!"
Thinking of the neglect the little girl had received from the Yang family before, he pulled Xu Nanxing aside and comforted her, "You don't have to worry about the Yang family. Their family, ah, is very complicated! Let me tell you this! Your Uncle Yang is not that bad! That's right, their family all listens to his mother, and he has no other choice!"
"Old Lady Yang is extremely short-sighted, sarcastic, and insists on taking control of the family. Everyone has to obey her. If you don't obey her, she'll roll around on the floor and make a scene, making everyone think her son is the most unfilial son in the world!"
"Many people didn't know much about her family's situation at first and really thought Lao Yang was an unfilial son. They wanted Lao Yang to be filial to his mother. Even the leaders in the army were alarmed and went to persuade Lao Yang to be filial to his mother."
"It wasn't until they'd been together for a while that the family members in the residential building learned about Old Lady Yang's character. Take, for example, Old Lady Yang's marriage! His boss had planned to introduce his niece to him, but his mother, who I don't know who she was, wentssiped that her son would only listen to his boss's niece and not her! She immediately ran to the army crying and making a scene, and the marriage was completely ruined."
"Finally, Old Lady Yang chose a girl from her mother's village and insisted that her son marry her because she was very obedient and she could control her. That's why she wanted her son to marry her home! Old Yang refused, and Old Lady Yang went on a hunger strike and threw a tantrum for many days. The whole family compound knew about it. Old Yang finally couldn't stand his mother's pressure and had to agree. During those days, Old Yang was very thin, his face was haggard, and he was extremely depressed. His mother made a fuss every day until she forced her son to agree. Only then did she stop."
"Besides insisting on obeying her in everything, Old Lady Yang treats her son very well. She gives all the rice at home to her son and grandson, and only eats coarse grain steamed buns herself. I heard that Old Yang has been without a father since he was a child, and his mother raised him with great difficulty. If others say bad things about her, she will be complacent, but if you say bad things about her son, she will fight you to the death! Sigh, I don't know whether having a mother like this is good or bad!"
Zhang Zhilan has been living with her husband in the military family compound and has had dealings with all members of the Yang family.
It's hard to describe how Old Lady Yang behaves, and her daughter-in-law Wang Xiuzhen is also not easy to get along with!
"Wang Xiuzhen is also a pushover, a tantrum-monger, and a taker of petty gains. She's inherited these traits from Old Lady Yang. The other family members in the compound are reluctant to interact with them.
Yang Shilong had a hard time in the army after marrying such a wife. If any wife suffered from the Yang family mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, their husbands would have to get back with Old Yang!
Finally, Lao Yang was no longer happy in the army, so he decided to retire and return to his hometown with his family to work.
"Alas, my husband, Lao Xie, also retired two years ago and happened to work in the same department as Lao Yang. So, I had no choice but to continue living in the same family building with Wang Xiuzhen. We didn't like each other back in the military family compound, and that hasn't changed here!"
Xu Nanxing was stunned for a moment when he suddenly ate such a big melon!
Tsk tsk, it’s better not to have a mother like this who doesn’t care about you!
This old lady Yang is quite good at using moral blackmail and filial piety to control her son!
And letting your sons and grandsons eat good food while you eat the bad, isn't that showing that you are willing to endure hardships, making your son feel guilty, and allowing you to better control him?
This is PUA!
I was reminded of a modern genius doctor I saw in a short video, who was also harmed by his parents' desire for control.
This doctor scored over 500 points in the college entrance examination when he was 10 years old. He wanted to repeat a year to get into a better school. However, in order to make their child famous early, his parents disagreed and sent him to a teachers' college.
When he graduated from university at the age of 13, he had the opportunity to study in Germany at public expense, but his parents refused and kept him in the country.
When he was 16 years old and studying for a doctorate, he calculated the rise and fall of housing prices and his family's existing funds, and told his parents that he would buy an apartment in Beijing. His parents agreed, but rented an apartment to deceive him.
He had an argument with his parents after he knew the truth.
His parents went to the media and said, "Because we didn't buy him a house, he said he wouldn't get a PhD."
The media made a big fuss about it and countless people cyber-bullied him.
At the age of 16, he was reported by the media and became an ungrateful learning machine.
My parents led me in the wrong direction at three turning points in my life.
Now at the age of 28, having completed his doctorate, he has chosen to lie down and live off his parents.
When the media interviewed him, he simply replied: "They still owe me a house in Beijing, which should be worth more than 10 million!"
"Living a life of idleness and waiting for death can actually lead to a lifetime of happiness." (I saw this on a certain audio platform)
Netizens commented: "This child has a pair of parents who are extremely cognitively retarded but extremely controlling!"
When parents use family affection to shackle their children, it really makes people powerless to resist!
Ordinary soldiers like Yang Shilong and Xie Wentian, who came from rural areas and had no foundation, could only rely on their own efforts to advance. They could only gain military merits through hard work and hope to use these to advance their ranks.
I'm working so hard outside, but my mother and wife are holding me back. It's suffocating just thinking about it!
Suddenly she remembered the first time she met Yang Shilong. She just felt that he was quite cold and didn't talk much.
Now that I think about it, that expression was more like numbness!
Thinking of this, Xu Nanxing suddenly felt that the other party was very pitiful, but he was powerless to control his own destiny!
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