Look, I'm so far away from you. I've been on a roll for a while. What about Yifeng? He sees me every day. His background, his upbringing, is different from ours. He's always been looked up to by others. How could he have ever suffered the humiliation of being looked down upon and felt inferior to his wife?
"As for you learning that thing, you shouldn't have said fifty thousand or a hundred thousand to him. He's in a sensitive period, and you said that to him. Niece, Yifeng emphasized that the money was from the club, because he was afraid of hurting her self-esteem."
Bi Yue remembered this sentence, otherwise she wouldn't be able to learn it: "I just got even angrier when I heard him say that. Whose things don't belong to the family? At the time, I just thought he was just being lazy and wasting money, spending an extra 50,000. I was only worried about the 50,000, just one sentence! The club? Whatever he earns is mine."
Bi Tielin shook his head. He reminded himself not to make the same mistake. He always lost sight of his original purpose during the pursuit.
"Yueyue, I admit that I am just like you, always thinking that money should be spent wisely.
It's just a matter of one sentence, but you suffer a loss of 50,000 yuan. I understand that you can't get around this.
Others will think that you are so rich, why are you so fussy about thirty or fifty thousand.
They don't know that there is no businessman who is not petty. If you are too greedy, you will not make a fortune. If you don't care about anything, you are just a sucker and not a qualified businessman who knows how to calculate profits.
So my uncle understands that rather than arguing with Yifeng about money, it is better to say that you are fighting against your habitual thinking about whether it is worth it.
You think losing 50,000 yuan for a single word is not worth it, but you think it is worth it to buy back the house you spent on it.
Bi Yue had stopped crying and nodded with a frown, "Yes. He's also in business, doesn't he know? Who do you think I know about the guy who sells mobile phones on the black market? I let him make so much money from my family for no apparent reason.
I felt uncomfortable after hearing that. Couldn't I say something to him? I was even being tactful.
Really, uncle, I was holding back my anger so that I could talk and negotiate. It's not that I didn't know my limits.
Let me put it this way, if today is still like before, with him earning the money and being the main force, and he dares to tell me that he spends his own money and doesn’t waste mine, me? I’ll tell him to get out!”
Bi Tielin immediately laughed and said:
“If Yifeng and you were to switch places now, you wouldn’t have to tell him to get out. He’d have to discuss this with you right after spending so much money.
So, Yueyue, your little family, and any family, should be like this. Be tolerant and understanding. More often than not, the more capable people should also think more about each other.
There's no such thing as the weak giving way to the strong, the strong giving way to the weak, or anyone giving in. We all just want a better life and work towards that goal.
Let go of your nitpicking about whether it's worth it. If you spend an extra 50,000 yuan and he's happy, do you think it's worth it?
No matter how many cars you buy for Yifeng or how many houses you decorate, if he is not happy, and you spend millions, then is the money worth it? It is only the value you think it is worth.
Don't forget your original intention. My uncle told me that making money is about making your family happy, making those around you happy, and making yourself happy. "Being happy is worth it."
Bi Yue was shocked.
"You two, this is just a trivial matter, and it can be explained in a few words. If you want to talk about the big thing, you should take his feelings into consideration and think more about how Yifeng treated you in the past.
Let me tell you something from a man's perspective. If you're like this now, Yifeng will definitely work hard to advance himself. Aren't you afraid of putting him in danger in that industry?"
Bi Yue's heart tightened again.
"Because of human nature, there are three paths for men. The arrogant one will either catch up with you and surpass you, and if he lacks wealth, he will make up for it in other ways. Or the more rational one will quickly adjust himself. If he is not as good as his wife, he will never catch up. What should he do? He will make more efforts in other aspects and compensate more to achieve equality with his wife. There is another point. Of course, there is no such person in our family. He will find ways to pull you down, belittle you, and undermine your confidence to make you the same level as him.
Look for yourself, what kind of person is Yifeng? If he's obsessed with making progress now, what will happen when he returns from his vacation? If you don't make peace with him right away, will you regret it later?
I heard from your parents that Yifeng is also taking care of the children at home now. It's not like you haven't taken care of children before. Taking care of children may seem insignificant. Doesn't it mean you have any credit or hard work?
Can you give him a few words of affirmation so he won't get discouraged?"
Bi Yue sighed instantly. She held the phone in one hand and hugged her shoulders with the other:
"Uncle, who doesn't live under pressure? It's not easy for me either.
You all told me about the word pressure and told me to give it some time to adjust. I have it too.
I was also afraid that I might not do something well enough and disappoint my family.
For example, when I buy you a house, I am actually vague about buying you a wedding house, I thought about it. For example, when I buy things for Chu Yifeng, I will also be vague about whether he will think that I am a gigolo and ask him to support me.
But I am even more afraid that if I become rich, you will think that I was generous when I was poor and needed your help, but now that I am rich, I become stingy.
It's impossible for me to grasp the psychological state of anyone, let alone Chu Yifeng.
If he continues to be so pretentious, thinking that marriages can only be guessed at, I'll have to ask him, is he looking for a wife? He should just go and see a psychologist, who's bound to be right. I'm really... so tired. I'm really dissatisfied with his fragility.
No matter what, Bi Yue and Bi Tielin threw away the garbage with all their heart, and after Bi Tielin's persuasion, they calmed down a lot.
She sat cross-legged on the bed.
Looking at the dressing mirror opposite her, she sometimes had a confused expression, and sometimes bit her thumb, not knowing what she was thinking about.
Two fat babies were playing with the ball on the ground.
As for Chu Yifeng's drinking party, it finally ended at this moment.
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