Bi Yue lived as a military wife in Chuzhou. Time passed quickly from spring to summer, and from summer to autumn.
For half a year, Chu Yifeng and Bi Yue lived with their family of four and their two children. The overall impression they left on the military district family compound was that they treated their children very preciously and educated them very well.
Also, the couple often gives people a pity impression.
It’s a pity that when the family members saw Colonel Chu who was so family-oriented and kind to his wife and children, they thought: Oh, such a good man, he is excellent both outside and at home. Tsk tsk, it’s hard to find him even with a lantern.
When the family members saw Bi Yue, those who were close to her, like Sister Cui, joked with the political commissar:
What were Bi's parents thinking? How could they bear to let such a wonderful girl marry off so early? It's too early. They could find any young man they wanted. If only our two daughters could be half as good as her aunt, that would be great. Then I'd have to pick and choose a son-in-law, and I feel like no one is good enough for her.
It can be seen that the family of four is extremely happy.
Xiaoxi and Xiaolong are very strong with their father by their side.
Now I have developed the habit of getting up early.
Because every morning, Dad takes them to brush their teeth and wash their faces, makes milk powder and breakfast for them, and Dad also uses his two strong arms to lift them up for weightlifting exercises.
The three of them often shouted in unison at the training ground: "One, two, three, four, one, two, three, four."
The two children got to know many military uncles and learned many military commands. As long as they were called by their names, they would shout "Here we are."
If their father is resting, that is the happiest time for the two babies, because their father will carry them on his back and run all over the mountains and fields.
The two-and-a-half-year-old baby also learned to coax his mother to sleep and would sing the nursery rhymes he learned from his father to his mother:
"Little bunny, open the door...
Little boy, few worries...
La la la, la la la, I’m a newspaper seller…”
The two kids will learn from their dad and watch him demonstrate how to help mom with the work. They squat down with rags to wipe the floor and do things within their ability.
They blinked their eyes and took Dad's words to heart: "Mom is the one we three have to protect. Dad is the main force now, and in the future it will be you two. Did you understand?"
It was also their father who taught them many childhood games: playing with dice, throwing sandbags, fighting with roots, lifting their legs and hitting their crutches, playing hide-and-seek, and gave them handy "weapons" such as knives, guns, sticks and clubs, and taught them how to play them properly.
What about the mother? What did she teach her two children in the past six months?
If someone asks Xiaoxi and Xiaolong, they will tell you:
"Mom will tell you why the moon waxes and wanes, why the stars blink, why swallows fly south in autumn, and why frogs disappear in winter.
Mom would also act out the story of the little white rabbit defeating the big bad wolf father, and would sing one, two, three, four with us.
Mom is more gentle than Dad. She will praise us as long as we make a little progress.
Every morning, he would ask us: "Did you put on your clothes by yourself? Did you button your clothes by yourself? You are so good. You have grown up and learned to put on your shoes and socks by yourself."
This is the children's answer.
But if you ask Bi Yue what she has taught her two children by staying with them every day, her complacent answer is: teaching them to control their desires.
How could she not be happy? You know, this is difficult for adults, let alone children.
The reason was that after arriving in Chuzhou and settling into Bi Yue's family, she discovered that the two babies had been spoiled by their great-grandmother, grandmother, grandmother and aunt, and they wanted whatever they liked. The two little adults thought it was normal and proper to buy whatever they wanted.
She used to go to the company every day and only take a short break in the evening. There were still a lot of things at home and she had no idea. Only after she took care of it herself did she discover this problem.
For example, when you take them shopping in areas with toys and food and drinks, they don't behave as well as when you accompany them to buy daily necessities.
But there are obviously a lot of things at home, and if we buy more, it will be the same thing again. They still stretch out their little hands and ask for things by name, and refuse to leave unless we buy them.
The two children frowned at her, as if to ask, "How could a mother be so cruel and difficult to talk to? Did she have to make them cry and make a fuss?"
This made Bi Yue very angry, especially the little expressions of the two babies stimulated her. She almost had violent thoughts and was about to go home and beat up the two kids.
Later, she discussed with Chu Yifeng and took the children shopping as usual for several days.
Even though she was tired of shopping, she started to show off: pointing to a piece of clothing that was similar in style to the one she was wearing, she pretended to want to buy it but was conflicted.
When she first gave birth to those two children whose eyebrows and eyes were not different, she was advised:
"Mom, buy it."
The little girl even said: "It's not like Mommy is short of money."
Listen, he is only two years old, but he is almost an adult.
Bi Yue could only set an example by personally demonstrating to the children how she looked at the clothes eagerly but refused to buy them. Then she turned around and went out to teach them:
If your mom already has this style of clothes, and you still want to buy more, that's unnecessary; that's called desire. Good people learn to control their desires. How do they control it? Don't buy things recklessly, don't waste money, and spend it on useful things. That's what a good child does.
Don't think that children are too young to understand, they are actually very smart.
The first two times, the two little adults asked for something in the store. After Bi Yue repeated the same method a few times, she asked them: Do you have this at home? When they answered that they seemed to have it, they would unhappily ask you: "Do I have to control my desires too?"
Although the two babies were in a bad mood and had a very unhappy time shopping, they really decided not to buy anything after the conversation.
After a few days, Chu Yifeng would pretend to be a good person and coax them: Do you still want the toys from the store?
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