This made Yan Hong unhappy and she pouted.
"Girl, I suspect you despise my vision, and I have evidence!"
Xiushui smiled apologetically and quickly put her arm around her friend's shoulders.
"Well, I really didn't expect that you would choose Chen Dafu, who also manages the workshop."
"So girl, what kind of person do you think I should choose?"
She has been in this critical village for three and a half years and is very familiar with the villagers.
Since she first fled from famine, many young men have shown their interest in her, especially the two young men from the Qian and Luo families, who were very attentive.
Moreover, his identity and family status are better than Chen Dafu, the man she has chosen now.
"Well, well, at first, I remember that Qiao Ge'er from the Luo family was really after you. He was pretty good-looking, and a rare scholar.
There is also the fair-skinned and soft-spoken boy that the Qian family found. Although he looks a little feminine in my opinion, he is really handsome and he was shy and liked you the moment he saw you.
At the time, I thought you would choose one of these two, but in the end you chose Chen Dafu, who had no parents but only an older brother.
"Didn't your sister Fa also choose Dafu's brother?"
Xiushui understood as soon as she heard it.
"Oh my, you think that Chen Dayou and my sister Fa get along very well, so you are envious and have your eyes on Dayou's brother Dafu!"
Yan Hong glanced at her softly.
"Who is it that keeps talking about the fatherless, motherless, and difficult younger sister-in-law? Who is it that keeps saying that three-no men are good?"
Xiushui shut up and glanced guiltily at the girls in the workshop who greeted her. Oh, why did she like to come to the workshop to inspect? Because there were too many beautiful girls in the workshop.
She didn't answer, but Yan Hong wouldn't let her go.
"It was a person named Wen Xiushui who kept saying this all the time, and it also influenced me and a group of sisters in the workshop.
I know that among the sisters in our workshop, at least ten couples have decided to get married this time, and they come from simple families without many relatives."
Xiushui felt even more guilty. She was just talking nonsense. Who knew that the girls would take it as a serious alternative condition?
"Well, did I really have such a profound influence on them? Actually, there are good people in the family of men with aunts and uncles.
As long as a man can stand up for himself, he will not let his wife suffer."
"It does have some impact, but it's not the most important one. You don't have to feel any psychological burden about it."
"Really? That's good. So, you chose Chen Dafu for another reason, right?"
"Well, it's mainly because I've been working outside for the past few years, and I've seen, heard, and seen so many people and things, so I've started to think about it a little more.
At the beginning, the young man from the Luo family really met my requirements at the time, and I seriously considered contacting him and his family.
But after getting to know him, I unexpectedly discovered that although Luo Ge'er was good to me, he was also equally good to his mother and sisters at home.
Even the sisters around me were equally nice. Until later, a girl who had a slight conflict with me started joking with him on purpose.
When I mentioned to Luo Geer that I had a little conflict with her, he advised me to be more tolerant.
He is not suitable for me. After I proposed to break up, he was in pain for two days. His family and my sisters also scolded me.
But I think he is really not suitable for me.
It is no exaggeration to say that to him, I am just one of his many sisters."
Xiushui understood.
It’s not that the Luo family’s brother is a bad person.
Rather, that person is a little confused about the difference between primary and secondary love.
You are unable to care for your lover wholeheartedly, and when you know that your lover has conflicts with others, you still joke around with them.
On the contrary, he advised his girlfriend to be magnanimous, saying that this man was a good person.
To put it bluntly, he enjoys the feeling of being in control among women. He may not be unfaithful, but he is also unable to be devoted to his wife.
Moreover, why would you look for a lover who always tolerates those close to him?
"You're right to break up with this kind of man. Being his woman is very tiring. No matter who you have a conflict with, he always asks you to be more tolerant."
"Yeah, it's tiring. I don't live for him, so why should I be so tolerant for him? As for that guy from the Qian family..."
Yan Hong smiled.
"He's devoted to me, but he's a little too attentive. If I say a few words to a man, or even smile a little, he'll get mad at me for a long time.
In his opinion, he is devoted to me and will not joke around with other women.
I, on the other hand, could talk and laugh with any man. Later, I also tried to be considerate of his emotions. However, my job meant I couldn't avoid contact with men outside my family.
That would have been fine, but later on when I started chatting and laughing with some girls more, he would also have some opinions, and he even said that the way a certain girl looked at me was not right.
But the truth is, our relationship is very normal. Oh girl, you don’t know, even if my sister looks at me for a second, he will feel that my sister’s eyes are not right.
Every day we are in two states: explaining and being angry. After a long time, I am tired of it.
Until he told me that after we got married, I wouldn't have to work anymore, I could stay at home and take care of his parents, and it would be great to have a pair of children to take care of.
Then, I immediately broke up with him. I couldn't put my entire future on one man.
I'm not afraid of you laughing at me, but after I officially proposed the breakup, I actually felt relieved and was glad that I no longer had to carefully explain myself.
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