Chapter 607 Bipolar Personality
I suddenly stood up and said, "Wait a moment," then walked to the living room, called Qing Ruo, and asked:
"Hey, let me ask you something. A few years ago, Teacher Baiyun wrote a book for my master. When he organized a discussion with the company's employees, there was an employee named Wu Xiaosong, right?"
Qing Ruo said, "You have a good memory. That person left the company a long time ago."
"Oh—you were doing well, why did you leave?"
"He was three-timing, dating several girls at the same time. He had a bad reputation in the company, so he left."
After hanging up the phone and walking into the study, I sat down and said to Wu Xiaosong, "You're too careful about your reputation, understand?"
Wu Xiaosong blushed and said, "Do you understand?"
I said, "Bipolar person."
They all looked at me.
"You're not really an extrovert or thick-skinned person. Strictly speaking, you like quietness and solitude."
He nodded.
"There are many people like you in the entertainment industry. They have excellent acting skills and can play any role very well. They are very relaxed.
There are also some in the hosting industry who are eloquent and free in public, like social masters.
However, they have one characteristic: when they get home from work or interact with strangers, they are completely different.
Some people don’t like dinner parties, like Guo Degang, who rarely attends social events. Some people, like Meng Fei, enjoy reading and don’t like adding WeChat friends.
Actress Zhao Liying doesn't drink, doesn't know how to socialize, and doesn't like socializing. The same goes for Han Xue and others.
In other words: you're crazy at work because it's work. In private, you're quite reserved. So, your thick skin in public is purely a work ethic.
In private, especially when alone with women, you are shy."
Before Wu Xiaosong could speak, Yu Fang said, "Teacher Wan, you are also a god. I introduced him to several girlfriends, and they all told me afterwards that he was a piece of wood.
I just couldn't understand it, but after you explained it tonight, I finally understood."
Wu Xiaosong's face turned red.
"So, you're a crowd pleaser in front of people, but quiet as a rabbit behind their backs. The reason you're different in front of people and behind their backs is because your true self is behind their backs.
You are in front of others to change your own destiny. You want to stand out from the ordinary.
If you look it up, Meng Fei was born into a printing industry, while Guo Degang was born into a cultural center as a librarian.
Zhao Liying used to work as a clerk in a pipeline anti-corrosion company. They all wanted to change their fate.
Han Xue was born into a noble family and she loves performing arts.
So, you are the same type of people as them. In order to make yourself stand out, you put aside your pride in public.
Returning to your own world, or your own world, you are neither romantic nor talkative.
There are many people like this, such as some writers who write such passionate articles, but are actually not passionate at all in their lives.
There are also some writers whose writings are very rogue, but they themselves are not rogue at all. Do you understand?"
The two of them burst out laughing.
Wu Xiaosong said, "This is my first time meeting Mr. Wan. You are knowledgeable, talented, and very humorous."
Yu Fang said, "You'll learn a lot this time when you go out with Mr. Wan."
Wu Xiaosong immediately said, "That's right. I will definitely learn more from General Wan."
Listening to their conversation, I understood something and said, "You two are relatives."
Yu Fang smiled and said, "I can't hide anything from you."
I said, "Xiaosong, you have another special characteristic."
He looked at me.
"You are generous in public affairs, but thin-skinned in private. For example, if you are asked to come forward for public affairs, you are generous, but if it is a private matter, you are extremely thin-skinned and cannot speak up.
For example, if your company asks you to raise 10,000 yuan in sponsorship, you have the courage. But if you ask someone to lend you 1,000 yuan, you hesitate. You’re afraid to ask for it.”
Wu Xiaosong said, "Boss Wan, you really have a perceptive eye."
"Why are you like this? Let me analyze it for you. It all started in junior high and high school. People teased you—they called the class beauty Pan your sister-in-law.
It was a form of ridicule. So you were terrified of being called that. The more afraid you were, the more excited they became, the more they wanted to humiliate you in person—and they had to drag you into the same situation as the class beauty.
You were forced to fight back, calling out someone else's name and saying that he missed your sister-in-law.
This counterattack makes the other person blush. Therefore, when someone makes fun of you, he or she will consider the consequence that you will also humiliate him or her, so fewer and fewer people will make fun of you.
You can learn from this experience that as long as you are brave enough, don't embarrass yourself, and make others embarrassed, you can get rid of embarrassment.
So, if you want to stand out at work, you learn to be thick-skinned.
You are an introvert by nature, so after work, when you are not working, your true nature comes out. You prefer to be alone and don't like the crowd.
The analysis is complete, please reflect on yourself."
Wu Xiaosong said, "To quote something from the internet, Mr. Wan, even the punctuation is correct."
Yu Fang said, "Boss Wan, I brought him here for counseling too. You explained it so well. Does he need to change this?"
I shook my head. "Don't change it. If you do, it will become a mess. As for marriage, it's determined by heaven. Who you marry is not up to you."
Some people desperately pursue someone, win their hand, and still end up getting divorced. Others desperately pursue someone, win their hand, and even though others think they're a complete mismatch, they live happily ever after. Marriage should be left to its own devices.
Yu Fang said, "Can you help him calculate when he will get married?"
Wu Xiaosong reported his birth date. I took my turn and said:
“In the second half of this year.”
"Huh?" Wu Xiaosong was surprised.
Yu Fang asked, "Did you have a date?"
Wu Xiaosong shook his head.
"Don't hide it from your sister."
"No, why would I hide it from you?"
Yu Fang turned around and asked, "Boss Wan, are you talking about getting married in the second half of this year?"
I smiled and said, "Sister Fang, I only told others once, and I'm telling you a second time. That's right. Get married in the second half of the year."
"Will it happen?"
"right."
The two of them believed it on the surface, but in their hearts they were still unsure whether to believe it or not. They still said many words of thanks before leaving.
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