That is, it is best to educate them while they are still young and ignorant about everything.
And most importantly, they are easy to coax at this time. Although they can be difficult at times, everyone has a way to deal with them.
After all, there is an age gap between adults and children, so dealing with them is a piece of cake.
Although it's true that children these days are really hard to raise, no matter what, these children in my family are better off than other people's children.
Furthermore, because of the elders in the family, even if they make mistakes, they will sometimes be criticized, and they will humbly accept it instead of throwing a tantrum on the ground.
In this respect, they are better than the neighbor's child. Their family has never spoiled them excessively just because they are only children.
On the contrary, everyone will correct their bad habits or problems in a timely manner when they are discovered.
As I just mentioned, the reason why Dad sometimes has a stern face is because he has made a mistake. As long as he doesn't make a mistake, he won't look the same.
However, sometimes they feel that there are many elders in the family, who are all their relatives, and they will act shamelessly to avoid punishment. But this often doesn't work, and the punishment will be more severe than admitting their mistakes in time.
This also led them to realize that elders are elders, and no matter how good they are usually, when they make mistakes, everyone is the same and no one will stand up for them.
As for handing the children over to the nanny, that's impossible unless there's something special going on at home, like yesterday, in which case they would be left with the nanny.
Basically, there are always elders in the family playing with them. Even if the old men and women can't keep up with their physical strength, they will still stay by their side.
Instead of completely entrusting them to the nanny. After all, no matter how dedicated the nanny is, it can't compare to having family by your side.
Moreover, the aunt was worried that they might bump into something and get scolded by the host family.
But I don't know how. From the time they first learned to crawl, they often bumped and bruised themselves. As long as no one hurts them, I can do whatever I want.
Children need to experience setbacks and hardships to grow up; you can't pamper them like you would a flower in a greenhouse.
That's not love, that's harming them, not to mention the education of children.
Family members won't spoil them just because they are their elders or relatives from several generations away.
In such matters, family members are quite the opposite. They are never ambiguous about their children's education, though perhaps not as strict with their father as they used to be.
However, they will try to guide them in everything they do, fearing that they will not know the right or wrong of the matter, or will not realize the seriousness of the matter. In fact, no matter what they do, it is for their own good.
Also, even though the children are young, they actually know and understand everything.
Sometimes they're just too lazy to communicate with you, and sometimes they'll choose to ignore you completely. In those situations, you'll know that something is definitely going on between them.
Either you unintentionally offended them, or they want something.
However, when this happens, it comes down to who responds first and who has more patience. How could these little kids possibly compete with adults?
Another thing is that no matter what happens at home, whether it's a big deal or a small matter, they never hide it from the children.
Don't let their young age fool you; they're only three or five years old. They're very smart, and they remember everything you say to them.
When I encounter something I don't understand, I'll ask directly. That's why?
We need to keep them close by to educate them, and we will also tell them in advance that they cannot say what the adults at home say to outsiders.
But they also ask if they can tell their parents.
Of course you can, what's the big deal? Besides, if you really need to avoid talking about things with them, you'll say them after they're asleep or when they're at school. How would they know these things?
However, judging from what my brother and the others just said, it won't be long before others find out.
Without even thinking, it's obvious that these kids were the ones who told the story.
But if you know, you know; it's not a big deal. In fact, you can use the children's messages to see how others react to it.
Especially Xiao Shi, I wonder what he will think after learning about his two uncles' evaluations of him.
You should know that family members rarely praise them in front of them; instead, they make demands of them.
After all, there are some things that a father is embarrassed to say directly to his children.
This can also serve as a form of communication, and there's nothing wrong with it. In fact, it's quite good, much better than keeping them in the dark.
Furthermore, in our country, neither men nor women intentionally express their feelings towards their children or even their parents.
This is also why? It's the key reason why many problems exist between fathers and sons, and mothers and sons.
Fortunately, there are young children at home who can act as a bridge between us, which is actually quite good.
"Mianmian, put it there! I'll wash it later."
"No need, sister-in-law. Have Mom and Dad eaten?"
“I ate. When I arrived, Mingcheng had just returned, and I noticed that Nannan didn’t look well.”
With people coming and going at the hospital, no one dared to say anything more.
"They came straight back. Do you think they, mother and son, will argue because of that girl from the Jing family?"
"It shouldn't be that bad! If it's really like what you said, sister-in-law, then things are probably serious."
"That's exactly what I was worried about, which is why I rushed back to discuss it with you."
"Do you think Mingcheng would go to such lengths for a girl? He's only known her for a short time, and he's already willing to disregard everything."
"Sister-in-law, let's not worry about whether it's serious or not. We haven't figured out the situation yet, so let's not say anything or ask anything."
What if it wasn't an argument, but just that his partner wasn't good enough?
Sister Nan is feeling uncomfortable, so it wouldn't hurt for her to say a few more words.
On the contrary, it wouldn't be good if our questions escalated the conflict between the mother and son.
"Yes, I hope it's as you say."
"I hope so too. Oh, by the way, your sister-in-law saved some food for you. Go and eat first!"
"Okay, just put the food in the sink! I'll clean it up together after I finish eating."
"It's okay, I've almost finished cleaning up. I just need to cut some fruit."
"Alright then! I'll go eat first."
"good."
There will definitely be conflicts between mother and son, but it's just unknown how deep Mingcheng's feelings for Jing Qianqian have become.
If there's truly no way to change it, then you can only accept it.
But it doesn't matter how far they've come.
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