Pan Di, you should think about why. When it comes to marriage, it's not just you who chooses the other person, the other person also chooses you. Do you have anything to offer?
Can you be a housekeeper or do embroidery? Are you good at cooking or are you able to endure hard work in the fields? Tell me, what is so good about you? ”
What a fool. She has been making trouble every day recently. She really thinks that everyone in the village is blind. She also goes around telling her sisters that she looks down on the peasants in the village and wants to marry someone in the city. When you cook every day, do you add all the water into your brain?
Not to mention the village chief's family, even the few families who had nodded their heads before were now unwilling to pay attention to them. You call her a mud-legged peasant, a toad trying to eat the swan flesh, but she still rushes to lick him. Whose son is so cheap?
She was so worried that she couldn't sleep, but she came to make trouble for no reason.
Mrs. Li thought she was the smartest and most capable among her sisters-in-law, so how could she have raised such a stupid person?
Li closed her eyes and didn't want to look at Zhao Pandi any more. She was afraid that she would not be able to hold back and take action. There are already enough jokes in their family. It’s already difficult for their daughter to find a husband, and they can’t let her become the subject of everyone’s talk.
"Pandi, you are not allowed to go anywhere recently, especially you are not allowed to say anything like you don't want to marry a peasant in front of your sisters. You really think they are so nice, but as soon as you tell them off, they will spread the news. Several villagers who were willing to marry us before don't mention it anymore. Can you be more careful?" Li said earnestly.
"If you don't want to mention it, then don't mention it. I don't think highly of them." Zhao Pandi was inexplicably panicked, but she was stubborn and refused to admit it.
"It's up to you. You may not decide this year or next year, but when you become an old maid, I wonder what you will do."
Zhao Pandi panicked, "Mom, you can't just ignore me!"
"How can I care? Do you listen to me? You always think I am harming you. You are my own daughter. How could I not want you to be well?"
Zhao Pandi stopped talking. It was for her own good, as long as she behaved well and did her work without causing any trouble for the family.
Whenever something really happens, her parents still think of her three younger brothers, and she is always the last one to come.
"Pandi, listen to your mother's advice and find a good family to marry into. Don't think about unnecessary things. Not to mention us, even Ruxin has a hard time getting married right now.
Your aunt-in-law has been in the county for so many years, she must be somewhat well-known, right? People have to accept their fate and not regret it later. “Just like those businesses in the village, they were good originally, but now they are all bankrupt.
Zhao Pandi bit her lips until they turned red, and her eyes were also red. She was unwilling to accept that she was the worst off among her three sisters.
After all, it was hers. Li held her hand and continued to persuade her, "Don't worry, I can't guarantee that you will be better than Xiaoyu in the future, but you will definitely not be worse than Ruxin.
Think about marrying into a village family. You will be the head of the family and the family will only take care of you for your whole life. But in the city, are rich people easy to talk to? He has three wives and four concubines, and you fight with a bunch of women every day. One poisons you today, and another one drugs you tomorrow. Can you bear such a life?
If you are not favored, you will be locked in the backyard for the rest of your life, living a miserable life. Think about it yourself which day is better and more comfortable. ”
Zhao Pandi admitted that she was scared by her mother. No, she had to go and ask around, maybe her mother was trying to scare her on purpose. A good family wants a good dowry, maybe they simply don't want to give her money?
"Mother, what do you think of my dowry? What do you plan to give me?"
The damn girl was just coveting the little private money between her and the boss, and each of them was a debt collector.
"Go away, go away. A girl keeps talking about dowry every day. Do you have any shame?"
"Mom, you don't have any preparations, do you?"
"I will never let you down. You should know the current situation at home. Your father and I will do our best.
We only have so much ability, and you have three younger brothers, so it is absolutely impossible to think too well. Of course, we won’t take any of your betrothal gifts. We’ll just give them to you as additions to your box. ”
Zhao Pandi lowered her head, which meant that apart from the betrothal gift, she actually didn't have much silver for dowry. She knew that most of the betrothal gifts in the village would be withheld for a large part, so it was not bad that her mother was willing to give it all to her.
But……
"Thank you, mom!"
Let's just leave it like this for now, and think of ways to ask for more when she gets married.
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