When Chen Zihan and Li Jing were talking, they did not talk big, but spoke in a very artistic way.
He often used Lu Ruorong's unconscious words to bring up new topics, and he didn't brag when he spoke, so Li Jing didn't think he was pretentious.
"He is a very capable student." This was the conclusion Li Jing came to after interacting with Chen Zihan.
Confident but not frivolous, smooth but not treacherous, this is the conclusion Li Jing gave to Chen Zihan.
However, Li Jing continued to make her point clear. She believed that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong were both young and should focus on their studies. They could consider relationship matters when they were more mature.
"My mom said the same thing," Chen Zihan replied sheepishly. "She also believes that at this age, you should focus on studying."
When Lu Ruorong frowned slightly, he continued, "There's a daughter next door who never dated in college, focusing all her energy on her studies. After graduation, she felt she had to make some achievements in her new job, so she also focused on her work. As a result, she's already 29 years old this year and still doesn't have a boyfriend. Her mother is extremely anxious and is busy arranging a match for her all day. My mother used to joke with them that she didn't allow her to date in the past few years, but now she's forcing her to get married as soon as possible. Being a parent is really not easy..."
"I told my mom, 'You have to learn from their mistakes. Don't forbid me from dating in high school and college, and then urge me to go on blind dates every day after I start working. The adult world is not black and white, there should be a transition!"
After saying this, Chen Zihan grinned and said, "Auntie, I think that with the energy of young people like us, doing several things at once is no problem at all. So, don't worry that our studies will be affected by other things. If Rong's grades are still good, mine are not bad either. If we are together, not only will it not affect each other's studies, but we can also motivate and promote each other."
Seeing that Li Jing looked a little strange, Chen Zihan directly stated the most fundamental issue: "Auntie, don't hide your feelings. We know it even if you don't say it. It's because our Chen family is too ordinary. Ruorong and I are not a good match. Are we not a good match?"
Seeing that Li Jing and Lu Ruorong's expressions had changed, Chen Zihan still smiled and said, "Auntie, I understand your concerns. If one day I become a parent myself and have a daughter, I will have similar thoughts and concerns when she grows up. I hope my daughter can find someone of equal status to live with. That way, I won't have to worry about different living habits, conflicting outlooks on life, and worldviews, and my daughter won't be wronged. Moreover, we can help each other in real life and form a strong alliance."
"When you were young, perhaps you thought the same as we do now, scoffing at so-called reality. But when you reach a certain age, you realize that these things are truly important. They are the foundation of life. No matter how strong the feelings are, they will return to dullness with the passage of time." Chen Zihan glanced at Li Jing and saw that she showed no signs of getting angry, so he continued, "But in your hearts, there are also many things that you think are the purest and most beautiful. When you occasionally take these things out and savor them, you can feel the strong flavor of youth, pure and beautiful. I think that if these pure and beautiful things are eventually accepted by reality, become a part of reality, and continue with life, then wouldn't life be even more beautiful? Going into society with the one you love, accepting reality, encouraging each other and growing together, isn't this the greatest happiness in life?"
"I know what I'm saying will definitely upset you, Auntie, but these are my true thoughts. In a person's life, is there anything more proud and fortunate than experiencing life together with the one you fell in love with at first sight, from youth to old age? No matter how long a person lives, it's only a hundred years. When you die, you can't take anything with you. If we have many regrets when we die, then no matter how much we have achieved, our life will be filled with regrets. If we die without regrets, even if we haven't achieved anything or held a respected position, our life will still be perfect."
After Chen Zihan finished speaking, he bowed respectfully to Li Jing and said, "I am young and frivolous, and my words are outrageous. If I have offended you, I hope you will forgive me!"
Chen Zihan said many things intentionally.
He knew very well that saying so much would have the opposite effect.
But he was only nineteen, and a nineteen-year-old should be as frivolous as his age.
A 19-year-old boy talking for a long time in excitement is a very normal thing in the eyes of middle-aged men in their forties or fifties.
In that case, let’s be clear.
Of course, while he was speaking, he was observing the changes in Li Jing's expression.
Seeing that she didn't look very angry, he boldly continued speaking.
Being good at observing people's words and expressions is a way of survival.
After hearing what Chen Zihan said, Li Jing, who originally wanted to say something to him alone, knew that there was no need for him to say anything.
Chen Zihan had already guessed what she wanted to say and responded directly.
"What on earth has this guy been through? He has so many emotions and insights at such a young age. It's a bit weird." Li Jing became curious about Chen Zihan.
This doesn't look like a 19-year-old freshman at all!
Compared with him, the 20-year-old Lu Ruorong was much younger - but Li Jing always believed that Lu Ruorong was more mature than the average person.
Li Jing also believed that if Chen Zihan was given a platform and opportunity, this young man would likely take off.
At her age, and having worked in the system for many years, although she cannot be said to have developed a pair of sharp eyes, her ability to judge people is still good.
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