When asking Li Fuzhen this question, Chen Zihan was also thinking about it himself.
In the end, he came to the conclusion that if he really had nothing, perhaps no other woman would stay with him except his mother.
They admire him because of his excellence, like him and want to be with him.
This is a common trait between men and women.
No one will look at a useless person with any respect.
You have a lot, which means you are very capable and a hero, and countless people will admire you.
If you have nothing, you are just a bear.
Without the halo of a successful person, why should others still revolve around you?
Most of the men and women who stick with you when you are down are not doing so out of love for you, but out of a sense of responsibility.
No matter how strong the feelings are, they can't last long.
When you are passionately in love, if you suddenly fall into poverty, the person who loves you may not leave you immediately.
But if you are always down and out, will they really stay with you?
You have lost what makes them admire you, so their love will no longer have the motivation to continue to ferment, and eventually the feelings will slowly fade away.
Women, in particular, are more likely to be heroes than men. If you go from being a hero to a worthless loser, most of them will no longer love you. Therefore, women who stick with you through thick and thin are truly rare. If you meet one, cherish her.
Of course, if you continue to be down and out, no one will want to stay with you in the end.
This world is so realistic.
He should also be realistic.
In the next two days, Lu Qinglan and Lu Ruorong did not look for him.
Chen Zihan contacted them, but they didn't answer his calls, and he didn't get a reply when he sent them messages.
In the past few days, Luo Xiaofei and Zhao Xiaoan both came to see him.
It was most convenient for Luo Xiaofei to find Chen Zihan. They were in the same college. Although they saw each other every day, it was still relatively easy to find someone in such a small medical school.
When Luo Xiaofei found Chen Zihan, she asked him a very philosophical question.
"How much do you think a woman's love for a man is worth?"
"It's like legal tender!" Chen Zihan replied. "At the beginning, its value could buy a lot of things, but later on, it was just a pile of waste paper."
Chen Zihan's answer made Luo Xiaofei's face change suddenly.
"Do you look down on women so much?"
"It's not that I look down on you, but this is reality." Chen Zihan smiled. "No matter what kind of relationship it is, it can't be separated from reality. Friendships in poverty should not be forgotten, and a husband who has shared the hardships of life should not be despised. This is just a fairy tale at the beginning of love, and fairy tales will burst like soap bubbles. Love is like flowers, and the material foundation in reality is water and fertilizer. Without water and fertilizer, even the most beautiful flowers will find it difficult to continue to bloom, let alone bear delicious fruit. Poverty brings sorrow to couples, this is the golden rule."
"You're so young, what right do you have to say such things?" Luo Xiaofei looked at Chen Zihan with a bit of fear. "Do you really have to make everyone sound so realistic?"
"Reality is real, and I don't dislike anyone." Chen Zihan smiled, "In fact, we can also get this feeling from our parents. No matter how strong the love is, it will eventually turn into family affection, if two people get married!"
"Then what kind of love can last a lifetime?"
Chen Zihan thought for a moment and said, "Perhaps, the love between two lovers who couldn't live together forever can last a lifetime. If the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl hadn't only been able to see each other once a year, perhaps their love would have faded away in the daily grind of firewood, salt, rice, and flour. Of course, love becomes family affection, which is the most real way for a relationship to last."
"I understand what you mean!" Luo Xiaofei nodded. "You want us to be your lovers, and lovers for life?"
Chen Zihan shook his head: "If you can meet a man you like more, you can fall in love at any time."
"Tsk!" Luo Xiaofei gave Chen Zihan a disdainful look. "Don't you just want us to leave on our own initiative and stop pestering you, so as not to hinder your chances of becoming the Lu family's son-in-law? If we leave on our own initiative, you won't have any worries, no psychological burden, and no self-blame."
Chen Zihan looked at Luo Xiaofei in surprise, and finally just smiled without further explanation.
Zhao Xiaoan is more practical than Luo Xiaofei. She directly asked Chen Zihan whether he had already made an engagement with Lu Ruorong and hoped that they would stop disturbing her.
If so, then she would accept it.
But she is willing to be Chen Zi Han's lifelong lover. After all, he is the first man she loves wholeheartedly, and she also hopes to follow Chen Zi Han to do things in the future and achieve good results with Chen Zi Han's help.
"You can call me realistic or snobbish, but that's just what I think." Zhao Xiaoan said frankly, "A man and a woman together, helping each other and giving each other what they need, is also a kind of love. Love is never pure, and the women of the Lu family can give you more. I knew I couldn't compete with them, so when Lu Qinglan came to me, I gave in."
"If you ever fall on hard times, I can guarantee you a lifetime of food and clothing. If you want to achieve so-called success, I can also help you!" Chen Zihan looked at Zhao Xiaoan with a smile. "Actually, I prefer this kind of conversation between real adults."
"I know I don't mean much to you!" Zhao Xiaoan said sadly, "I'm actually very unwilling to accept this. I always thought I was so outstanding that I could make any man revolve around me."
"Is it true that the more playful and despicable a man is, the more he is liked by women?"
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