Chapter 198 A Full Ten Years
Although I really want to get married and have children as soon as possible, I don't want to do that for the sake of my children's good genes or to avoid unnecessary trouble in the future.
You have to choose carefully.
What I want is to find someone with high IQ, high appearance, good character, and who is dedicated to his career.
I want our marriage to be a partnership.
It is a marriage of convenience, in simple terms, a marriage of alliance.
Such a target is not easy to find.
I asked someone to look for it for several days but couldn't find a suitable one.
Tangtang just came back from vacation, and I suddenly thought of something, "Does your unit have a high-IQ PhD who only wants to do archaeology, thinks marriage is troublesome, doesn't want married life, but has to get married?"
Tangtang stepped back and asked, "What?"
"I want to find someone to marry and have children."
Tangtang was startled at first, then stood up suddenly, "What?"
I looked at him and smiled. "I said, I want to get married and have children."
Tangtang looked at me like that for a while and asked, "Are you serious?"
"Um."
Tangtang is the person who understands the knot in my heart about Shen Yanci best. She hopes that I can completely let go of Shen Yanci, but she also feels sorry for me for letting go of his pain completely.
She knew without me having to say anything that something must have happened to me again for me to suddenly decide to give up on Shen Yanci completely and get married and have children.
This made her eyes suddenly red, and she came forward and hugged me tightly.
"Baby, that bastard, what did he do again! Don't be sad, you have me!"
She hugged me so tightly that I felt like I was hugging the whole world.
The greatest blessing in my life is meeting my little baby Tangtang.
I smiled and patted her shoulder. "He can't hurt me anymore. I just made up my mind to make a quick end to this relationship."
"Besides, you know, my grandma's always been nagging me to have a baby."
"I'm going to study for a doctorate next year, so I'll be very busy. This year is just the right time for me to get married, have a baby and have a child."
Tangtang saw that I really didn't look upset, so she felt relieved, "You're a step too late. I've got the only single, high-looking, high-IQ male doctor in our unit!"
When I heard this, I was startled at first, then asked, "Are you planning to make it up?"
Tangtang loves to play, so when looking for a partner, she never looks for someone she knows, in order to avoid embarrassment after a breakup.
Now, she actually found someone from their unit!
"Well, he proposed to me!" Tangtang said as she stretched out her hand and shook the diamond ring on her hand.
I smiled and hit her, "You are really good! I didn't even know you had a new boyfriend, and you got proposed to me!"
Tangtang was a little shy when talking about this. "I didn't want to have anything with him. We got together by accident. It's been less than a week and he proposed to me!"
"I think I'm about old enough to get married and have kids."
"You know my mom is pushing me too hard."
It was my grandma who urged me to get married.
Tangtang was urged by her mother.
Tangtang is Pei Ye's only daughter, not counting her adopted daughter. The nature of her job requires her to not go home for ten days or half a month once she starts working.
After her mother retired, she was too bored and had nothing to do, so she urged her to get married and settle down whenever she had free time.
So I can let her babysit while she is still young.
Tangtang and I are the same age, both 28 this year. If you don't want children, then forget it. But if you do want children, now is indeed a better time for us to have one.
"If you get married this year and have a baby, I will also get married this year and have a baby. Then, we can have the baby together and raise it together. When they grow up, they can still be good brothers or sisters."
"If it's a boy and a girl, they can grow up together as childhood sweethearts and fall in love in the future, which is even better!"
Tangtang began to think happily about the wonderful life we would have in the future with children.
What she said was so vivid that I couldn't help but look forward to it.
People's ideas really do change as they grow older. When I was young, I thought that marriage must be based on love.
But now I can find someone to partner with in order to make a living.
I even thought that if I really couldn't find a suitable candidate, I could try in vitro fertilization.
The love that I once regarded as my life is suddenly not that important to me now.
However, Tangtang seems to be the exact opposite of me.
I used to be single-minded, but now I have become more open-minded and think that as long as the quality is good, anyone can do it.
She used to love playing, but now, she suddenly really loves it.
I have lived among the grass all these years and have never been sad about it, but now I have fallen in love and cannot extricate myself.
She missed him so much during the few days of vacation that she video-called him every day.
I saw her boyfriend who has a PhD. He looks very gentle and refined, and seems like a very good man.
Very considerate and attentive.
A good marriage candidate.
Ten days passed in a flash, and I still hadn't found a suitable candidate. Just when I was considering doing IVF if it really didn't work out, I decided to do it.
Song Yuan somehow knew that I wanted to find a marriage partner.
When I was discussing cooperation with him.
After going through all the details of the contract, he suddenly looked at me and asked seriously, "Yi Yi, what do you think of me?"
I was stunned at first, then smiled and said, "I think you are great!"
Although I rejected Song Yuan's confession before, we have always been partners and I think he is a really good person.
"Then, if you want to get married and have children, why don't you choose me?"
Song Yuan’s words stunned me again.
"You know, I like you, and have liked you for ten years!" Song Yuan looked at me, as if he saw the girl who once stood under the cherry tree.
Just one glance, and he remembered it for ten years.
He could never forget it.
"In terms of character, appearance, and IQ, I think I'm OK."
It’s not that Song Yuan is narcissistic. He is indeed excellent in all aspects and is a rare talent among men.
It also meets the conditions I am looking for.
only.
"I'm looking for a life partner who shares common interests with me. I just want to get married and have children. I probably won't be able to love anyone anymore."
I just want to get married and have kids, I don't want to fall in love and start a family.
So, it was because he liked me that I never thought of considering him.
I couldn't give him what he wanted.
I couldn't give him a response.
We shouldn't have delayed him.
What I should be looking for is someone who doesn't want to fall in love, and who, like me, just wants to get married and deal with life.
"You don't need to love me, as long as you can be with me, I will be very happy and satisfied!"
I was about to say something when I heard that.
Song Yuan said, "Yi Yi, you should know that marriage is not as simple as you think. It is very difficult to find someone who fully meets your requirements. If you don't know the background of the person, it is very likely that he will kill his wife and take over your property!"
"Besides, having a child is not just about giving birth. A child needs a healthy environment to grow up. Otherwise, it would be better not to bring her into this world."
"Children also need companionship to grow."