Do women experience more injustice in romantic relationships?
That's absolutely true.
However, this does not mean that men are always the beneficiaries in romantic relationships.
Sure enough, as that comment appeared in the comment section, the victims in the live stream all left the room.
My wife and I have been married for ten years, during which we had twins (a boy and a girl), and my career was thriving. In everyone's eyes, I was a winner in life; everyone envied me and claimed they wanted to be like me. For many years, I believed that too. It wasn't until my daughter had an accident and needed an emergency blood transfusion due to excessive blood loss, and my wife was away on a business trip and couldn't come back, that I discovered neither of the children was mine. At that moment, I felt my whole world collapse. I felt like a joke, raising someone else's wife and children, and yet I was smug and self-satisfied. Later, under my questioning, she confessed that she had cheated on me with her first love after we got married… We are now going through divorce proceedings, and I hope the court will grant my request for her to leave with nothing and return most of the child support I have invested.
I loved her for twelve years. To be worthy of her, I worked three jobs a day, striving relentlessly until I finally bought her a house in her favorite city with cash and gave her the 500,000 yuan dowry she wanted. I thought this was the beginning of my happy life, but unexpectedly, three months after our marriage, she ran off with all my money. Now I have nothing, my family despises me, and I don't want to live anymore. If there really is an afterlife, I only hope that I won't suffer so much in my next life, and that I won't encounter someone who treats my sincerity like dirt and tramples on it at will.
[We dated for three years. Except for the stars she wanted, which I didn't get for her, I did everything else. But when it came time to discuss marriage, she complained that my house was too small and my savings too little. She turned around and married a wealthy businessman ten years her senior, living the life of a lavish socialite. Later, I went to see her and asked her why. She said: "I like you, but liking can't put food on the table. You've been very good to me, but that kindness can't be used to buy designer bags and diamond jewelry. You're a good person, but I'm sorry, the person I want to marry can't just be a good person."]
She couldn't have children. We were married for seven years, and despite pressure from my family, I insisted on being childless because I didn't like children. Then, a car accident injured my left leg. The doctor said I might have a slight limp, which wouldn't affect my daily life, but it would affect my appearance. She felt ashamed to have a limp husband. Six days after the accident, she took me to the civil affairs bureau for a divorce, preferring to leave with nothing. Less than two weeks after the divorce, she quickly remarried a divorced, wealthy man with two children, announcing that she had finally found love and that everything before was just compromise…
[You might not believe it, but I'm a grown man, and my wife is abusing me. In the year and a half we've been married, she's hit me over thirty times, and sometimes she's even tried to stab me with a knife. My friends all ask me why I don't fight back—she's just a woman, surely I can fight her off? It's not that I can't fight back; it's that I can't bear to. I spent over 600,000 yuan to marry her, and if she drives away my parents' life savings, it'll all be for nothing. I just hope that after we have children, she'll change and stop abusing me so easily!!!]
[...]
After these male victims finished recounting their experiences, the live stream chat remained silent for a while.
When they became active again, the screen was filled with confusing comments.
I'm genuinely, incredibly curious: where do those utterly wicked people come from? They're so hateful!
I can feel the despair of you guys even through the screen! Where are you scumbags? Come out and avenge us!
To be honest, after hearing so many stories about men betraying women, hearing about women being cold and heartless all of a sudden feels somewhat gratifying. Am I psychologically unstable? Hahahaha.
[You're not alone, upstairs. In my humble opinion, this is likely a side effect of women being oppressed by men for a long time...]
After listening to these guys' stories, I'm actually tempted to become a "bad girl" myself! What should I do? Urgent, waiting for answers online!
[...]
"Heaven's justice is clear, and retribution is inevitable. I don't recommend that anyone become the executioner who wields the knife and toy with other people's feelings." Seeing that the comments were gradually going completely astray, Wan Jiao spoke up in a subtle way to pull things back.
Without watching Wan Jiao's live stream, netizens don't really believe in the concept of karma.
But ever since watching Wan Jiao's live stream, I have to think carefully about everything I do, for fear that I might accidentally become a 'small shrimp' in the vortex of cause and effect.
That's no joke.
Once you fall in, you'll never be able to get out.
All the girls who said they wanted to be "bad girls" simultaneously raised their hands and slapped their own mouths after Wan Jiao finished speaking: "My mouth was being a jerk and talking nonsense, I'm so sorry."
…
There's a saying: When you realize you're the worst person in the world, you'll find it hard to accept and cope. But when you discover everyone is like you, or even worse off, you'll gradually find psychological balance and even comfort yourself: That's just how the world is!
Nana's courage was unprecedented, thanks to the strangers online who shared their experiences.
In front of hundreds of millions of viewers in the live broadcast room, she took off her sun protection clothing, revealing her scarred skin underneath.
She was smiling, but her eyes were filled with tears.
She said, "The day I was bullied by those men was the beginning of my nightmare. Later, he abused me, and he used what happened that day to humiliate me, force me, and hurt me. I realized that once the nightmare started, it would never stop."
“I’m so glad I didn’t give in to him because of fear, depression or anything else. We didn’t get a marriage certificate. I can still use the law to seek justice for myself and my family for everything he did to me and my family. And those beasts who hurt me and made me feel like I was falling into an abyss for hundreds of days and nights, I want them to pay the absolute price for what they did.”
Nana specifically emphasized, "We did not get a marriage certificate."
Netizens exclaimed:
[The fact that this young lady could drag things out with that scumbag for so long in that mental state, without ever getting a marriage certificate, suggests that God was actually on her side.]
[Does anyone have a lawyer friend here? I'm really curious to know, according to the laws of our country, what will be the outcome for this young woman's boyfriend's actions?]
[What will be his fate? This kind of trash who thinks "he'd be unworthy to be human if he didn't die" should be rewarded with the ten most cruel tortures before being executed (*￣︶￣)]
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