Chapter 37 Daily 05
Daily 05
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I originally wanted to write an article and post it on November 19th, our third wedding anniversary. However, I didn’t expect that I would be lying in the hospital that day, feeling so uncomfortable that I didn’t even have the energy to pick up my phone to check Weibo.
I was finally discharged from the hospital yesterday morning. As a Capricorn who can't sit still and works hard, I brought my computer here today to write an update on Shanhai for everyone.
Yes, it sounds pretty impressive, but we've already been married for three years now, hahahahaha!! I saw the anniversary update this morning, and it's been exactly 1,500 days since we started dating, hehe!
This year, I haven't posted much about my daily life with Sixth Brother. Not only haven't I updated Shanhai here, but I haven't posted much on Weibo either. It's not that there's any weariness between us; on the contrary, it feels a thousand times more entangled than when we were first dating or married. Every day, from morning till night, if we're apart for even a minute, we're sending each other a hundred "miss you" and "love you" emojis. And whenever we're together, we cling like conjoined twins, clinging to each other like we're conjoined twins, making anyone watching us ecstasy.
Because I am so bored every day, I don’t have the energy to record some small fragments of life.
I have wondered why we can always get along like this.
One of them should be that we are all lucky to have found the person we love most in our life.
My best friend once asked me if I felt dissatisfied with Sixth Brother in the past few years of marriage. I thought about it and said really not.
I can't say I tolerate his shortcomings, but even his small shortcomings look cute to me. And the same is true for him. No matter how I act unreasonable, he will look at me with a smile and say I am so cute.
The love is almost overflowing.
Sometimes I lose my temper and get angry at him.
He would laugh so hard, then pinch my face and say: Baby, if you are mean to me again, or scold me again,
I:? ? ?
Brother, you really are spoiling this naughty kid!
Maybe this is what a lover means when he or she loves someone so much that he or she is good in every way.
Whenever I look at Sixth Brother, I feel that it is so great that I can be with him in this life. I can’t imagine being with anyone else except him.
Every time I can't help but feel grateful for fate's favor to me, allowing me to meet such a partner.
The second is that we are almost in sync in everything we do. We have similar interests and values.
We support each other in all our decisions, whether it is work, study or life.
When it comes to my writing, Sixth Brother always gives me his full support. This includes, but is not limited to, listening to my story ideas and offering suggestions; telling me interesting stories about my interactions with readers, and he can even recognize a few of them; being my go-to person, helping me stamp my books and bind postcards; and running errands, taking photos, and managing my book signings. And, most importantly, when I share my good news about my book with him, as well as my frustrations and lack of confidence, he listens patiently and responds with warmth.
I think this is really rare.
Because not everyone can understand and support what you love, but if the people you love can support what you love, it will make this love grow exponentially.
I think I will always love writing so much, and Liu Ge deserves a lot of credit for this.
Of course, in other aspects, we watch TV and movies together, play King of Glory and PS games together, exercise together, go out to play escape room script-killing games together, and work and study quietly together at home.
We do almost everything in sync. I know that it's not only because we have similar interests, but also because Sixth Brother is willing to do everything with me.
I forced him to watch variety shows with me, forced him to watch melodramatic Korean dramas with me, and forced him to look at handsome guys with me.
Although he would mutter a few words, he would eventually sit next to me and watch with me, and would also give empathetic comments at the right time.
As for the male stars I like, he now has the rhythm of joining if he can't beat them -
Me: Wang Gaga is so handsome!
Sixth Brother: I think so too.
Me: I want to go to his concert!!!
Sixth Brother: Then let’s go together.
Me: Yang Yang is so handsome!!! He’s so handsome, I want to marry him!
Sixth Brother: Be content, am I not his meal replacement?
He is a very broad-minded person, and he spoils me so much that he never gets angry or jealous because of which male star I like or who I have a good relationship with.
He trusts me enough and never tries to pry into or dig into any of my privacy. He respects all my decisions. But I tell him everything, no matter how big or small. Almost the moment I know something, I rush to him and tell him the next second.
My mother always complains that we are like a pair of pants. If you tell one of us something, it’s like telling both of us.
We chat for a long time every day, no matter it is trivial things in life or news we see or hear, we will discuss it together and exchange each other's ideas. This habit has really been maintained.
Yes, we are each other's lover and best friend.
Of course, Sixth Brother really dotes on me. According to my mother, apart from her, my father and Sixth Brother never say anything to me that I don’t like to hear, and they always agree with what I say.
Under the favor of these two men, I was domineering at home, jumping around and doing nothing.
whee.
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In previous years, on our wedding anniversaries, my sixth brother and I would make date plans in advance and happily go out to eat and take photos.
Those who know me know that I only share good news and never bad news. I never share anything negative with anyone, and I don't want to use personal matters as an excuse. But this year is special because I'm serializing short stories and haven't started a long one yet, all due to health issues.
I never dreamed that I would spend my third wedding anniversary in the hospital.
It doesn't matter how many details I've gone into, or how much unimaginable hardship I've endured. None of that matters. But during these difficult days, I've once again deeply realized how lucky I am.
The night before the third anniversary, I was so upset I couldn't sleep. My sixth brother stayed up all night with me, and he didn't sleep either. Worried that I was upset, he kept telling me jokes.
I couldn't sleep the whole night. After a while, I was in so much pain that I called him to give me a massage to relieve the pain and to chat with me to distract me.
He patiently took care of me, staying awake all night and staying by my side until my condition stabilized the next day. He would then go back to sleep for a while before continuing to stay with me.
When he saw that I was in pain, his eyes turned red and he said he felt so distressed.
I used to think that my parents were the only ones in the world who treated me so well without complaint and selflessly, but now there is him.
He did all the work to take care of me that I even thought I would never do, which was completely beyond my imagination.
I felt like he put loving me before loving himself.
The night before he was discharged from the hospital, he retweeted my Weibo post celebrating our third wedding anniversary.
"Happy third anniversary to my baby and me. I hope my baby will always be happy and healthy. I will stay by your side forever."
That's what he said.
It was short, but I cried when I finished it.
Because after I got sick, I realized more deeply that health and happiness seem so simple yet so difficult to achieve. And for ordinary lovers, being able to stay by your side regardless of weather is the most beautiful vow.
In Liu Ge’s view of love, the most profound and solid thing is silent companionship.
I later asked him why he posted these words. He said that he thought of the phrase "accompany is the most lasting confession of love", but it was too corny to say it that way, so he simplified it into plain words.
He said to me: I think being willing to stay with each other no matter what happens is the deepest love.
I couldn't agree more.
When you are at your peak, it is not difficult for someone to accompany you and enjoy the joy of success; but when you fall into the trough and show your most vulnerable side, it is really not easy for someone to stay with you and take care of you.
Only through my own experience did I realize how great the power of companionship is.
Over the past three years, I've lived a very happy and joyful life, smiling every day. Even when I'm going through something unhappy, as long as I'm with Brother Liu, I feel like I can overcome it.
He has shown me all the tolerance, consideration, and love a husband could have, allowing me to live like a young girl, do what I like, run forward with all my strength, without any worries or labor, and never have I felt insecure or uneasy for a single day.
No matter what happens, he will share my burden and block it for me.
I feel like he is another me in the world.
The road ahead is still long, but I hope that on every anniversary in the future, I can be here to share with you the happiness of being with him, until the day I can no longer write.
I cherish my happiness with him immensely, and I also cherish the days of writing stories for you.
Those are my most precious treasures.
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