Chapter 053 I wish you don't become a stepmother but have three children a year

It takes at least twenty days to go to the 246 sea area. If the weather is bad or it is farther away, it may take a month.

Everything else is fine, but Jiang Sinian and Lin Wanxia have a dispute over whether Xingxing should stay or go.

Jiang Sinian means to send Xingxing to the family compound as before and let his sister-in-law who follows the army take care of her.

Lin Wanxia is a little entangled. Sending a three-year-old child from one family to another will make the child feel particularly insecure.

Adults always think that children are young and ignorant, but childhood experiences can affect children for a lifetime.

Otherwise, how can there be a popular saying on the Internet that "some people use childhood to heal their whole life, and some people use their whole life to heal their childhood"? !

She wanted to take Xingxing with her, but going out to sea was very dangerous. She was an orphan, and if anything happened to her, she would not be able to take the responsibility.

Lin Wanxia did ask Xingxing for his opinion, and Xingxing wanted to follow Lin Wanxia and did not want to go back to the family compound.

Of course, he knew nothing about the sea and just wanted to go out and have fun. He

was quite excited because he had been out to sea with Lin Wanxia for a while before.

The two had a frank talk, and it was Jiang Sinian who took a step back.

"Take him with you!"

Lin Wanxia was still hesitant, "But the sea is ruthless."

Who can compete with nature?

Wind, rain, thunder and lightning, which natural phenomenon we see in daily life can people contend with? Not to mention on the vast ocean.

"Our existence is to protect your safety. Xingxing is also one of the common people. If something happens to him at sea, it will be our dereliction of duty." Jiang Sinian said lightly.

There is one thing he hasn't said yet. As long as he is alive, he will not let any citizen, including Xingxing, get hurt.

Lin Wanxia knows very well what such a light-hearted sentence means.

Besides being moved, she is shocked, admired and proud.

She is proud to be born in such a country and to have such a group of people in the country.

It is worth marrying such a man, whether she loves him or not!

However, after thinking it over again and again, Lin Wanxia still chose to communicate with Xingxing again.

Lin Wanxia broke down and explained to Xingxing the dangers that might be encountered when going out to sea in detail in words that he could understand.

For example, going out to sea is different from being at sea. You can't come back whenever you want. Most of the time, he can only stay in the cabin. And he is the only child, and there is no one to play with him.

She can't do that either, she has to work.

For example, the sea may not be as calm as the coastal sea. Sometimes there will be strong winds, and the ups and downs of the boat will make people who are not usually seasick get seasick and vomit until they can't stand.

For example, if the time at sea is long, there will be no fresh vegetables on the boat, and there may be no meat, so most of the time you have to eat seafood.

For example, the weather at sea is unstable, and if there is a typhoon, there is a possibility of capsizing.

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Lin Wanxia told Xingxing about all the dangers she thought of and asked him: "So, do you still want to come with me?"

Xingxing bit his lip.

He didn't have any idea about other things, but he couldn't accept the fact that he was the only child on the boat many days without other playmates. But he didn't want to leave Lin Wanxia.

Lin Wanxia was also in a dilemma. After thinking it over again, she discussed with Xingxing, "This time you stay at Grandpa Sun's house and wait for me. This way you can play with the children in the village. Don't worry, Grandpa Sun has time to take care of you and won't let you stay in one house for a day and another for a day."

Lin Wanxia thought that the family compound was small and inconvenient to go in and out. Most of the sisters-in-law had no income and were very concerned about having one more mouth to feed at home.

One or two days is not a problem, but over the years, there will be objections.

But it's different in the village. There are many rooms and large yards, and Xingxing is not a big deal.

Even if Xingxing is willing to live at home, it's okay to just let Grandpa Sun come to sleep with her at night.

As for adding a pair of bowls and chopsticks, Lin Wanxia will give enough food expenses, and believes that Grandpa Sun and his family will take good care of Xingxing.

Xingxing was very tempted.

If I can live at home, play with the kids at the beach during the day, and bring them home to watch TV at night, it doesn't seem impossible.

But I still want to be with Lin Wanxia.

He extended his pinky finger, "Then you have to take me with you next time."

Lin Wanxia stretched out her hand to tug at him, "Tug at each other and never change for a hundred years!"

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Jiang Sinian's comrades first sailed to the 246 sea area, and Jiang Sinian waited for Lin Wanxia to take Chen Bin's boat together.

Lin Wanxia is going to attend Lin Yaoyao's wedding.

It's not that Lin Wanxia wants to see the excitement, but mainly because the customs of each era are different.

In the new century, human relationships are becoming more and more indifferent. Among the young people who don't even want to have children, some are so unique that they want to sever ties with their parents, and they don't even care about relatives.

But now is 1982.

An era with relatively weak rule of law but a strong sense of morality.

It was a time when everyone helped an old lady crossing the street.

It was a time when a lonely old man would sleep and his water jar would be filled with water the next day, and good deeds were done without leaving a name.

As long as Lin Wanxia's last name was Lin, as long as she didn't want to be scolded as ungrateful, she had to attend Lin Yaoyao's wedding.

In the eyes of outsiders, no matter how much Lin Gensheng and his friends had gone too far, they had raised Lin Wanxia for so many years.

So no matter how reluctant Lin Wanxia was, she had to attend her cousin's wedding.

The wedding in 1982 was very simple, and most families' wedding cars were bicycles.

No matter how the two families got together, the wedding was still grand for outsiders.

The Jin family was rich, and they used a sedan to pick up the bride, but there were only two of them.

Sixteen bicycles followed behind.

In the island city, this was already a very grand show.

Lin Wanxia yawned, sandwiched in the crowd watching the excitement.

There was no way, she really didn't want to beat Lin Yaoyao on her big day.

According to custom, Lin Wanxia had to come to help the day before the wedding.

Lin Wanxia did arrive at the courtyard where the Lin family was currently renting a day in advance.

But as soon as Lin Yaoyao saw Lin Wanxia, ​​she showed off in various ways.

Lin Wanxia didn't care how much betrothal gifts Lin Yaoyao received, or what kind of new clothes and hair ornaments she had.

But Lin Yaoyao not only showed off, but also wanted to attack Lin Wanxia.

Saying that she was a cheap stepmother would be fine, but she also said that Xingxing was not good in this and that.

Lin Wanxia was so angry that she couldn't help but retort to her.

"Yes, the person you married is perfect in every way. I wish you a long-lasting love, and I wish you don't become a stepmother but have three children a year."

Lin Yaoyao was originally very proud, thinking that Lin Wanxia was saying nice things to coax her because she was now married into the Jin family.

Some relative nearby heard this and said with a smile: "As expected, they are cousins. They are relatives. Look, the blessing words are different from ours. We hope that the bride will give birth to triplets. But triplets are too tiring. It would be best if she gave birth to two at a time, a dragon and a phoenix, a complete set of sons and daughters."

Lin Wanxia also smiled: "You think too much. I mean one at a time, three a year."

A woman heard this and shook her head: "How can she give birth to three after ten months of pregnancy and only twelve months a year?"

"Yes, she gave birth to one herself. The rest were born by the third and fourth mistresses."