Chapter 085 How do you know so much about raising a child when you are young and have never been a mother?

Lin Wanxia went out not just for breakfast.

Three-year-olds can be enlightened.

After breakfast, Lin Wanxia took Xingxing to the bookstore to buy a few books.

Xingxing couldn't read yet, so the books she bought were all cartoon-style picture books.

Some taught pinyin and some taught arithmetic.

Xingxing liked them very much and held them in her arms without even paying attention to her toys.

After buying the books, she bought some seasonings.

Nowadays, everyone's economic conditions are limited, and the seasonings are also very simple, just salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and MSG.

Families with better conditions will buy some star anise, peppercorns and other spices.

Things like oyster sauce and matsutake are not what ordinary families have.

Lin Wanxia was now well-off, so she bought a lot of rare seasonings, and also bought two bottles of wine and a bottle of canned fruit.

It was already mid-afternoon when she got home.

Unexpectedly, Jiang Sinian was at home.

"Dad!" Xingxing raised his hands high as if offering a treasure, and showed Jiang Sinian the book in his hands, "Look, this is the picture book that Lin Wanxia bought for me."

Jiang Sinian glanced at Xingxing and motioned for him to go to the inner room, "You go in first, I have something to say to Lin Wanxia."

Xingxing's smile disappeared, and she pouted and reluctantly moved her feet.

Lin Wanxia pulled Xingxing back, touched Xingxing's head and said to Jiang Sinian: "Xingxing likes these books very much, and he is sharing his joy with you. I suggest you take a little time to share his joy instead of dismissing him with just one sentence.

You think he is still young, and his words, his emotions, what he wants to do and what he doesn't want to do are not important.

But have you ever thought that when he is sharing with you, you don't want to spend time and energy to take care of him. When you have time or want to understand him for some reason, you will find that he doesn't want to communicate with you.

You don't know what he likes and what he hates."

If Lin Wanxia was Xingxing's biological mother, she would not say this to Jiang Sinian in front of Xingxing.

However, she is a stepmother, and some things need to be said clearly so that the father and son can have no barriers and remember her kindness.

Jiang Sinian was stunned, as if considering Lin Wanxia's words.

Xingxing reacted directly, hugged Lin Wanxia's thighs, and confessed: "Lin Wanxia, ​​you are so nice!"

Lin Wanxia smiled at Xingxing, touched his little head and said: "You are also very nice!" Then he looked up at Jiang Sinian and continued: "Since you can sit here and wait for me, it proves that what you want to tell me is not urgent, at least not so urgent that you need to wait for me at the gate.

So why can't you spend more time with him?

You know, being a good father is not just about giving money. Money can only buy three meals a day, clothes and toys, but it can't buy a baby's steps or his opening his eyes to call dad.

And you choose to be a single father, so in addition to making money to support him, you must also provide him with the best of your ability."

Jiang Sinian's professional relationship destined him to not be a qualified father, and he was absent from his growth on a daily basis.

But fragmented companionship is also very important.

Jiang Sinian nodded and said sincerely, "I will remember what you said today, work hard to correct it, and learn to be a good father. But..."

He paused and continued, "I am very curious, how can you know so much about raising a child when you are young and have never been a mother?"

Lin Wanxia: "..."

Yes! How to explain it?

She blinked and said frankly, "Probably because I was also lacking a father and a mother since I was a child, so I know what children need best."

In fact, part of the reason is because of her experience in the new century, and part of the reason is because

Jiang Sinian just remembered that Lin Wanxia is an orphan and has been living under the fence since she was a child.

His eyes softened a little, "Thank you!" In the future, I will treat you well and let you have a home.

Jiang Sinian kept his word and took the book from Xingxing's arms and flipped through it, asking him, "Do you like these?"

The books he was holding included pinyin, literacy, mathematics, and stories.

The color version of "The Tadpole Looking for Mom", "Whose Tail Is Lost", and the black-and-white version of "Water Margin".

The first ones were fine, but the last one made Jiang Sinian raise his eyebrows, "Do you like this one?"

"I like Timely Rain!"

Jiang Sinian was really surprised, "Do you also know Song Jiang?"

"I also know Li Kui, Leopard Head Lin Chong..." Xingxing counted them one by one on his fingers.

Jiang Sinian looked at Lin Wanxia.

Lin Wanxia shook her head, "I didn't teach that. There is a kind of snack that the kids often eat that randomly contains cards of the 108 heroes of Liangshan. It is said that there will be a big prize if you collect 108 cards. Xingxing and other kids in the compound have been obsessed with collecting cards recently."

Jiang Sinian wanted to say, how can 108 be so easy to collect? Not to say the possibility is zero, but the possibility of collecting them is not high either, it's just to fool the kids.

But thinking of what Lin Wanxia said just now, he changed his mouth, imitated Lin Wanxia, ​​and patted Xingxing's little head, "You are so amazing! You can remember the names of so many heroes. When I was your age, I could only play in the mud."

Xingxing showed his little white teeth, and even his eyes curved.

It was the first time his father praised him!

Lin Wanxia patted Xingxing and said, "You can go show off your new book to the kids."

After Xingxing jumped out of the door, Lin Wanxia asked Jiang Sinian, "Are you waiting for me because of Wang Cuiping?"

Jiang Sinian nodded and said, "She is still sitting in our captain's office waiting for me."

This time Wang Cuiping learned her lesson. She did not go to find squad leader Zhang's leader but went directly to find Jiang Sinian's leader.

However, Wang Cuiping was notorious in the compound, and the leaders were afraid of her like snakes and scorpions. When

the captain got the news, he grabbed the teacup and wanted to run.

Unfortunately, he was blocked by Wang Cuiping just as he wanted to leave the office.

Seeing this, the people below quickly notified Jiang Sinian to hide.

"So you are hiding back?"

Jiang Sinian shook his head, "Is it appropriate for a big boss like me to hide? I'm following Wang Cuiping's example. I'm going to find squad leader Zhang."

Lin Wanxia couldn't help but burst out laughing, "Then what?"

"Squad Leader Zhang said that their regiment leader talked to him. It seems that he wanted to persuade him to send Wang Cuiping back to his hometown or... divorce." "

He doesn't agree?"

Jiang Sinian nodded, "If he agreed, wouldn't he have done it long ago? First, he doesn't want Wang Cuiping to go back to his hometown to trouble his parents. Second, he feels that no matter what, she is the wife he married, so he should endure it anyway."

"You don't have to endure it." Lin Wanxia said particularly righteously, "Just change your wife."

Jiang Sinian: "..."

Lin Wanxia knew that every era has its own moral standards, and the current view of marriage is to never divorce.

She changed the subject, "So, why did you look for me?"

Jiang Sinian looked her up and down, "I just want to ask if you have suffered any loss."

It seems that you haven't.

In fact, he went to the family compound as soon as he received the news, wanting to see if Lin Wanxia had been wronged.

As a result, he saw that Lin Wanxia was not in the room, and he was a little panicked, thinking that Lin Wanxia had been angry and left. Just as he

was about to go out, he ran into the neighbor's sister-in-law.

The neighbor's sister-in-law pulled him and described to him what happened in the kitchen in the morning in a very excited and vivid way.