Waking up, the entire world had changed. This was the best of times: technology flourished, travel was convenient. Yet, there was a cultural disconnect, with traditions lost. At first, Qin Jian was...
Uh, that's interesting.
Qin Jian couldn't help but laugh. As a doctor, she certainly knew that this guy was fine, so she wasn't worried at all.
When Qin Jian wanted to browse other pages, he found that he had received a recommended message.
She took a quick look and understood the problem.
She was a very young girl, one of those pretty girls who had lived on the main planet for a long time. She was also a very hardworking person, but she didn't understand why she lost to the old and ugly ex-wife of that uncle.
I don't understand why the uncle is still obsessed with her even though he is divorced.
He was obviously younger, he was obviously also greedy for pleasure, and she obviously had a better figure and a more delicate face...
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The photos in those chapters were obviously taken secretly, and the women in the pictures were elegant and calm.
Putting aside the moral issues, Qin Jian was still happy to answer.
Well, it's a matter of personal taste.
If you want to choose a young one, choose a young and beautiful one. If you want to choose a temperamental type, of course choose a temperamental type. Originally, two people have their own beauty, and there is nothing to say. But since the girl asked, let her understand where she lost.
If we have to compare the two people, then it is obvious that the girl loses in temperament. She is young and beautiful, but if she stands next to that man, it will be obvious who is better.
That is a very mysterious issue of temperament, the sense of sophistication.
This little girl is dressed in designer clothes, and one can tell from looking at her that she must be living a good life. But precisely because of this, how can I put it? This is the limit. Does she really have to break it down and ask, where did such an obviously little girl get so many star coins to buy these luxury goods? It must have been given by her parents or others. This raises the question. Things given by others ultimately lack confidence. This confidence is not important, but it is also very important. At the very least, without confidence, you can't show inner calmness.
Those luxury goods on her were like a child wearing adult clothes that didn't match, or like toys that could be played with, thrown away, used for entertainment, or treated with indifference, but they were of no great help to her.
The woman in the photo, though wearing only an expensive jade bracelet, exudes a certain elegance that cannot be concealed. It is this elegance that allows one to tell from a few meters away that she is a beauty, without even needing to see her face. This elegance clearly tells others that she cannot be a plaything, nor can she be prey.
Even if it's just a back view or a side view, she can gain the respect of others for being beautiful from a few meters away. Yes, not all beauties are meant to be respected, some are for entertainment.
Yaya is not a little girl: Hello, I just read your reply, which is the most meaningful among the 3,000 answers, but I still don’t quite understand it. Can you break it down and explain it to me?
Chinese Medicine: Okay, let me think about how to say it.
Qin Jian thought for a moment and continued to reply on the page: Some people are very beautiful, but many people only know that she is beautiful but don’t know why she is beautiful. In fact, this kind of beauty lies in temperament.
The so-called temperament is divided into many kinds. The more classic and timeless one that is sought after by people is the sense of luxury.
What is a sense of luxury?
In the past, the sense of luxury had a more similar name, called aristocratic temperament.
Aristocratic temperament is the tired feeling on a person's face after desires and wants are satisfied.
It was a feeling of indifference, detachment, calmness and composure, completely different from the petty and fawning feeling.
A sense of sophistication does not mean a static dead face. It can be a cold and provocative look, or a charming smile that is graceful and elegant, or even a devilish charm that is alluring and stunning.
It's something that comes from the very bones, and can manifest itself in a casual, free, gentle, and generous way, or in a crazy and self-centered way, or in a decadent and extravagant way, or in a rebellious, perverse, and violent way...
Because a sense of sophistication is never an expression or a specific personality, but a feeling of temperament.
To put it simply, people who are calmer are much more advanced in themselves. Furthermore, the indifference after their desires are satisfied will make them appear more dignified. When desires are often satisfied, to the point where there are almost no desires left, the sense of nobility that emanates from that nonchalant attitude is the most deadly.
From ancient times to the present, there is a type of men who are very popular with women, that is the young masters raised in aristocratic families. Because of their status, their desires have been satisfied since childhood. Because they have obtained everything, they are not easily seduced or seduced. That kind of indifferent and noble feeling makes women hope that they can become his desire that he cannot get, and want to see him go crazy.
Qin Jian noticed this aspect when she was very young, but she didn't fully understand it at that time. She just felt that she couldn't be petty and had to be generous. The specific manifestation was that when she had money, she would buy something expensive that she really wanted to buy but had never bought before. It was not because the thing was so good that she had to buy it. What she bought was a potion, a kind of potion that could wash away the lingering desire and the jealousy, envy, inferiority, pettiness, and other bad emotions derived from such emotions.
She remembered that she had bought several expensive combs in the secular world before, firstly because she wanted to get them, and secondly because she wanted to get rid of her pettiness. Desire was endless, and she did not have enough financial resources to cultivate herself. Therefore, it was worthwhile to use the right amount of money to elevate herself to the right level at the right time.
The aristocratic temperament can be the lazy feeling of wearing a silk nightgown and drinking red wine on a leisurely afternoon, or it can be the quiet feeling of sitting quietly in a tea room drinking tea in simple clothes. There is no specific one, but if you want to learn it, it is not impossible to learn it. Even if you don’t have a lot of money, you can still learn a little bit.
First of all, the most important thing is to satisfy your own desires. I won't go into details about this. Of course, having no desires is the best. Then, you need to have confidence. Simply put, you need to have money and be able to make money. Only with confidence can you be calm and composed. Relying on others for help can make you charming, elegant, and innocent, but it will not give you a sense of sophistication.
A person's level, and the level they can reach, is related to their appearance, figure, knowledge, experience, career, family background, and other assets. Generally speaking, people who don't work hard are already set in their ways...
In terms of facial expressions.
Those who are calm and generous, not in a hurry to be affirmed by others, not in a hurry to please others, do not cater to, tease, flatter, or have desires written on their faces, are confident and calm.
In terms of demeanor.
At least don't bend over or hunch your back, and don't slump your shoulders. Stand, sit, or walk properly.
In terms of dressing.
Just be comfortable. There's no need to overdo it and put on all the nice, expensive, and exquisite things, dressing yourself up like a little mouse that fell into a jewelry box.
In terms of clothing.
Undoubtedly, dressing up is the fastest and most effective way to become sophisticated, but sophistication does not mean being expensive, but being comfortable and leisurely, as opposed to being forced or flattering.
In terms of color, the best choice is the Morandi color system. This color system has low brightness and saturation, and all colors are added with a little unsaturated gray. It is light, pale, tranquil but not flashy, and unconventional.
The Morandi color system is a very light, safe and comfortable color system. It can easily create a very gentle and elegant texture. The key is that it is also very durable and has a unique low-key texture.
In other words, mysterious colors that make people want to look at it again and again, which cannot be seen through at first glance, can easily create a sense of luxury.
In terms of texture, it goes without saying that texture determines everything. Good fabrics and cheap fabrics feel different, and good fabrics and natural materials are different. People who are really particular prefer natural materials. This is a low-key decency. Well, to put it simply, natural materials are more expensive than artificial materials. This is also a low-key show-off.
When it comes to tailoring, simplicity and elegance are crucial. The most important definition of aesthetics is that less is more. Don't be fancy, don't be ill-fitting, just enough, the right fit is best.
After typing these, Qin Jian sent it out.
The author has something to say: Second update, for Meow Rabbit 202 update!
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