Gentle and virtuous Song Yi harbors a secret: years ago, when she was desperate, she sought help from a man. She witnessed his wildness and endured his disdain.
She thought they would never m...
Chapter 605 Review of Ming
Qiao Qiao said she wanted to eat a sandwich, so Qiao Yunxue took her to wash up and then carried her directly to the restaurant.
Qiao Yunxue used the tablet to play an episode of cartoon for Qiao Qiao, who was watching it very attentively. Qiao Yunxue went to the kitchen to fry eggs and ham slices and made two sandwiches. This breakfast didn't take time to make. After Qiao Qiao finished watching an episode of cartoon that lasted more than ten minutes, breakfast was ready.
When Qiao Yunxue took away the tablet, Qiao Qiao did not cry or make a fuss - she had good habits with electronic products. Although she had her own mobile phone and watch, she would not be addicted to them. The same was true when watching TV. She would watch as long as she agreed in advance, and she would not ask for more watching at the end.
These sound very ordinary things, but few children of this age can do them. This is all thanks to Fu Shanzhan.
He really put a lot of effort into raising children and can be considered a semi-expert.
Just as Qiao Yunxue thought of Fu Shanzhan, Fu Shanzhan's WeChat message came.
Qiao Yunxue opened the dialog box while drinking milk and saw the following message: [Remember to give me the consultant's contact information.]
Oh, yes, there is this matter.
Qiao Yunxue looked at the time. It was almost eight o'clock and the counselor should be getting ready for work.
Qiao Yunxue found Gu Ming's WeChat in the list and sent her a message: [Good morning, Dr. Gu, are you free today?]
Gu Ming: [I'm closed today, but if you finally figure it out and want to continue your consultation, I can make an exception.]
Qiao Yunxue: [It's not me.]
Gu Ming: [Who is that?]
Qiao Yunxue: [I told my ex-husband about my current situation, and he wants to talk to you.]
Gu Ming: [That's great! You should have done this a long time ago! Send him my WeChat ID.]
After greeting Gu Ming, Qiao Yunxue sent her WeChat business card to Fu Shanzhan.
Fu Shanzhan: [Okay, I'll add her to chat.]
Fu Shanzhan: [What are your plans with Qiao Qiao today? ]
Qiao Yunxue: [Take her out to buy some clothes.]
Fu Shanzhan: [Well, be careful, no more chatting.]
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After getting the counselor's WeChat from Qiao Yunxue, Fu Shanzhan immediately added the other party as a friend.
After the friend request was approved, Fu Shanzhan introduced himself and explained his purpose, and Gu Ming also responded to him.
Fu Shanzhan changed the note for Gu Ming and politely sent him a message: [Doctor Gu, if you're free someday, I'll come to your workplace to talk to you about Xuexue's situation. Sorry to bother you!]
Gu Ming: [Mr. Fu, you're welcome. This is my job. You can just pay by the hour.]
Fu Shanzhan: [Okay, is today convenient?]
Gu Ming sent the address of the consultation center.
Fu Shanzhan: [Okay, I'll be right there.]
The consultation center is near P University. Fu Shanzhan drove there from his old house and it took him more than an hour. After parking the car and walking in, he saw a very long registration queue.
He didn't know much about this area before, so he was surprised to see so many people coming for consultation.
Gu Ming had told Fu Shanzhan that there was no need to register, so Fu Shanzhan went to the consultation room on the third floor according to the information she gave him.
After knocking on the door and coming in, Fu Shanzhan saw Gu Ming.
"Doctor Gu," Fu Shanzhan nodded to her, "Hello, I'm Xuexue's ex-husband."
Gu Ming smiled politely and pointed to the chair opposite, "Please sit down."
Fu Shanzhan sat down opposite him. Gu Ming glanced at the time and gave him a brief note. "Name?"
"Fu Shanzhan." After Gu Ming asked this question, Fu Shanzhan remembered that he had always introduced himself to Gu Ming as Qiao Yunxue's ex-husband, and had never mentioned his name seriously.
"Sorry, I forgot to introduce myself to you." He apologized.
Gu Ming shook his head to indicate that it was okay. "But it's rare to hear a man introduce himself like this. It's obvious that Mr. Fu loves Ms. Qiao very much, even more than she says."
Fu Shanzhan pondered Gu Ming's words, his eyes changing into one of uncontrollable excitement: "You mean, she told you...I love her very much?"
Gu Ming nodded. "Mr. Fu's love is very obvious. In my limited life experience, I have rarely heard a man introduce himself as a woman's ex-husband instead of saying his name and occupation."
"Before meeting you, I had a rough idea of my feelings for you, but it's clear that your level is higher than I thought, perhaps even one or two times higher."
Fu Shanzhan felt that this was a compliment to him, but seeing Gu Ming's serious expression, he felt that it was not that simple.
So he didn't speak and waited for Gu Ming to continue.
Sure enough, within half a minute, Gu Ming said, "This is where the biggest problem between you lies."
Fu Shanzhan frowned, not understanding: "You mean, the problem between her and me is because I like her too much?"
"That's right." Gu Ming said, "I know this is hard to understand, let me give you an example."
"If we use temperature conversion, from zero to 100 degrees, 36 degrees water is equal to body temperature. Some people think it's too cold, while others enjoy the clarity without excessive stimulation. Around 40 degrees is probably a comfortable temperature for most people. A hot bath at this temperature can relieve fatigue. But when the water temperature reaches 70 or even 90 degrees, people's first reaction is to hide."
This metaphor was not abstract, and Fu Shanzhan understood it immediately.
He thought for a moment and replied to her: "When we were in love, she probably hoped that I would be 70 degrees or 90 degrees."
Gu Ming: "That's right, because when you were in love, she was also burning with heat, maybe 100 or 200 degrees, so your 90 degrees is far from enough for her."
Fu Shanzhan: "So, how is she treating me now?"
He was not very happy to hear Gu Ming say such things. His words seemed to remind him that Qiao Yunxue no longer liked him.
Gu Ming is very good at observing people's emotions. Fu Shanzhan was not so able to control himself after getting into trouble with Qiao Yunxue, so Gu Ming immediately felt his displeasure.
She smiled and asked instead of answering, "You hope she treats you the same way you treat her, right?"
Fu Shanzhan subconsciously denied: "No, I just want her——"
"No, your unhappiness just now has already explained everything." Gu Ming interrupted him, "Answer sincerely, okay?"
Fu Shanzhan: “…”
"That's the problem between you two. She's realized it, but you haven't," Gu Ming said. "People need to be loved, but they can't handle unconditional devotion from others. It would be very stressful, especially for someone like her who's already stressed."
"I just want her to feel safe." Fu Shanzhan felt that what Gu Ming said just now made sense, but he couldn't convince himself, "If I don't do these things, how can I prove my love for her?"
Gu Ming looked at him: "She doesn't believe it, so you need to prove it."
Fu Shanzhan: “…”
Gu Ming: "You think she doesn't believe it?"
Fu Shanzhan was almost driven to a standstill by her questions. Answering yes was wrong, and answering no was also wrong.
My head hurts.
Fu Shanzhan raised his hand and rubbed his temples, then heaved a long sigh and asked her directly, "What do you think I should do to help her resolve this issue?"