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For the rest of our lives, we'll e...
Chapter 1
With You, Mountains and Seas Can Be Leveled
Sang Jie
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In fact, I had thought about writing my own story a long time ago.
But perhaps because of personal preference, as a writer, I have always felt that there is nothing wrong with writing down a friend's story or creating a fictional character, but if I really want to write a true personal emotional story that happened to me, then the protagonist of this story must be my husband.
He must be the man who will walk with me for the rest of my life.
The result of my paranoia was that this story was not officially published until the sixth year after I wrote it.
You should all be familiar with the protagonists of the story, me and Brother 6.
As you know, after I got together with Brother 6, I would occasionally post some daily jokes on Weibo. Later, I even asked Brother 6 to register a secondary Weibo account so that we could interact with you. In addition to writing, we also had the function of "spreading love food." Actually, we never post these things on WeChat Moments in real life, but it is on the Internet that we are willing to share these little things with you. Even though we have never met you in person, you can witness our journey to this day.
So, when I was reading the comments on Weibo just now, I was particularly moved.
Some old readers said that they have been with me for six or seven years, and now seeing that I am getting married with their own eyes, they feel as happy as if they are getting married themselves. I thought to myself, wow, six years ago, in 2012, when I just started writing in Jinjiang, you already knew me. At that time, I was just in college, and now in the blink of an eye, I have a job and am about to get married. How time flies so fast, and the most surprising thing is that you are still here.
I have always felt that what can stand the test of time is the most sincere. Over the years, I have experienced all kinds of things and people, but what I am most grateful for is that I am still writing, and you are still accompanying me through every important stage of my life and sincerely blessing me.
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Today I told my cousin in Beijing that I was proposed to. She was very happy and at the end of the conversation she said, "It's great to marry for love."
In the past, I read all kinds of chicken soup, articles and Weibo news, and always saw people saying "the most beautiful thing is to marry for love". At that time, I didn't have such a concept, so I just laughed it off. Later, I saw some older friends or relatives around me. Some of them married for money, but ended up breaking up painfully; some of them went their separate ways after marriage; and a brother said that nine out of ten of his friends who got married ended up getting divorced; some people just felt that they were old and the time had come, so they married someone who happened to be suitable. After getting married, they always liked to complain, but continued to live their lives; of course, there are also positive examples, such as my friend Dangdang, who is still as sweet with her husband as before after marriage, and she still enjoys the love with her partner after having a lovely son.
But all these things were not my own personal experiences, so I still didn’t have a concrete concept of them until I met Brother 6.
Before I met Brother Liu, I also thought about what my future husband would be like - he must be good-looking, smart, gentle, kind, and filial, and he must also be good to me, able to play with me, have fun with me, and be quiet with me... Because I was single for a long time, my friends around me laughed at me and said that I was too demanding and picky. How can I find a male protagonist like the one in the novel in real life?
But I just don't want to compromise.
Maybe it's because I'm a Capricorn, I'm particularly stubborn in some aspects, and my expectations are very high. I can't tolerate the people I meet, even if they have only some minor shortcomings. Even my parents sometimes say that this person is okay and suitable for marriage, but I don't want to because I don't like them at all.
It was at this moment that I vaguely realized that I might be the kind of girl who is only willing to marry for love.
It was probably around June last year. One night I suddenly felt a little depressed, so I called my best friend Princess Iron Fan in the middle of the night. At that time, she had already met Tang Monk and was very happy.
Me: What should I do? Will I ever meet someone I like? Honestly, I don't think anyone else likes me. I don't like them at all. I don't have any feelings for them at all.
She: You will encounter it, don’t worry.
Me: Am I usually too strong and rational? I really find it hard to develop feelings for people now. I always judge people by my own standards and don't really feel comfortable using my feelings to test them first.
She: There will be someone who can make you soften and stop thinking rationally.
Me: ...That's unlikely, right? I'm not that type of person.
She: Yes, when you really like him, you will change.
At that time, I was skeptical and desperate. I really felt that after all these years, I had never met someone who could open my heart. Would I really never be able to wait? After all, not everyone is so lucky to meet a good person who likes them mutually.
Until I met Brother 6 again.
I found that he really met all my fantasies about a future partner, almost exactly the same.
After being with him, I really began to change dramatically as Princess Iron Fan said, and I also began to slowly paint all my imaginations about marrying him one day in the future.
It may be hard for many people to believe, but Brother Liu and I actually knew each other fourteen years ago.
At that time, we were in the same junior high school and the same class. I still had two pigtails, and he was still a cute little boy with a mushroom head and bangs.
He is my first love.
Later we separated.
And then fourteen years later, I was about to marry him.