Hearing this, Grandpa Mu was stunned.
"Dandan, what did you just say? You said you wanted me to go with you. Is that true?"
Rodin thought about it and decided that this method was not impossible. She already had Xiaoxiao with her, so bringing another grandfather with her wouldn't be a problem.
"That's what I was thinking. I've already planned to bring Xiaoxiao with me, so it seems okay for me to take you along too! Otherwise, what will happen to Xiaoxiao while I'm studying? Well, if you go over there, you can help me look after Xiaoxiao."
Rodin felt that he was really an elf, and that everything could be solved perfectly this way.
Grandpa Mu: "Huh?" He finally understood, so he was the one who looked after the child. Because Dandan wanted to take Xiaoxiao with her, and there was no one to look after the child, so he just went over to help look after the child.
"Well, I think it's okay. I'm retired now, so I should enjoy my retirement life. So I'll follow you."
Xiyan: "What do you mean?"
Mulan: "No?"
Mulan didn't expect that in such a short time, his daughter and his father had already skipped him and made their choice, so he didn't have to worry about anything from now on.
When Rodan and Grandpa Mu came out again, Grandpa Mu's face was full of smiles, and his eyes looking at Xiyan were much gentler.
Xiyan: "What's going on?"
After dinner, Rodan wanted to go home. Mu's father said he would see her off, but Xiyan stopped him.
"You go wash the dishes, I'll take Dandan home."
Xiyan was walking on the road and looking at the girl next to her. She really thought that this girl was very cute.
"Dandan, you know what? Actually, a few days ago, I felt that there was a little unpleasantness between you two siblings. I even felt that you two were not as harmless as you seemed.
But I didn't expect that I would hear such words outside the study today. It turns out that you didn't dislike me, but you really thought that it was the life of your father and me, and how we lived had nothing to do with you. Your values really made me think that you were a very good girl.
I apologize to you and your brother for my childish behavior. It's really like what your grandfather said. I was a little bit competitive with you. I wanted you to know that now that I'm married to your father, I have the final say in all family matters. Your father loves me very much, as if this would give me a dominant position. Actually, I was also very childish.
Xiyan admitted this very naturally. "I even thought that your family wanted to exclude me. You all united against the outside world, and I had to fight alone, so I had to hold your father tightly in my hand. I only now realize that before getting married, you said you didn't care and that you would get along well, but when you are really in that situation, you can't help but start to have wild thoughts."
"This is normal. In fact, I think marriage is about marrying into another family. You don't know how the other family will treat you. Will they accept you kindly or reject you outright? So it's normal to be cautious. The only thing you can hold on to is the man in front of you. If he can't give you a sense of security, then you will feel that your marriage is meaningless.
You don't need to feel that you're doing something wrong or that you're unhappy. What you should think about is that your life will be very good in the future. Life belongs to you two, not to anyone else. My grandfather's childishness can't hinder your life. It will be just the two of you in the future, and you will be very good.
Not living with the elderly does not mean being unfilial. On the contrary, it will reduce a lot of friction, because no matter what, there will always be some differences in concepts. Even my grandfather and I sometimes get angry with each other, so don’t think that it’s your problem. It’s not like that. It’s because of the problem of concepts. Sometimes he can’t adapt to the situation for a while.
The reason I didn't live at home wasn't because I didn't like you. I argued with you because I felt my brother's feelings needed to be taken into consideration, not because I thought you were a bad person.
As for my decision to leave for a while, I believe that if it were you, you would agree without hesitation, because we deeply love this country and want to make continuous efforts for its strength.
Auntie, my dad, ever since I came back here, I've always seen him with a heavy heart. I've never seen him smile happily, but ever since he met you, I've always seen him smile happily. He even gets angry with me. I think a dad like this is a lively person, not someone who suppresses himself all day and might explode at any moment.
After hearing this, Xiyan felt that she was not as mature as a child and did not think as thoroughly as she did.
"No matter what you say, I was narrow-minded after all, but I won't do that again. Now that I understand what the problem is, I won't overthink it anymore. I believe we'll get along happily in the future. Of course, if you want to take him with you, I have no objection."
When you recognize your own problems, you should bravely admit them. This is what Xiyan does, which shows true open-mindedness.
"Actually, I didn't think about bringing my grandfather with me at first, but I found that he was very worried about me. They were always worried that something would happen to me, afraid that I would get hurt. Instead of constantly worrying about him at home, it would be better for him to come with me to see how I train. I can also take care of his health. After all, he is an old man who is always disobedient. You tell him not to eat something, but he will eat it anyway.
These past two days, I wasn't paying attention, and he ate a lot of fat. I didn't even know he... The old man is really hard to control."
Rodin frowned, looking as if he didn't know what to do, which made Xiyan smile.
"I also think your grandfather is a little childish. I will get along well with him in the future. Thank you, Dandan. Thank you for helping me understand where my own problems lie. You made me realize that marriage is not that scary, and I shouldn't be so afraid."
She spoke very confidently at the time, as if nothing could stump her. That was because she had not met Feng Meng.
At that time, her thoughts were simple: marriage was simply a matter between her and Mulan. They would get along well together, and their future life would be incredibly happy, with no possibility of unhappiness. However, just as she was in the midst of happiness, she met Feng Meng, which brought her back to reality.
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