Chapter 168: The Fierce Female Instructor



Happy Dating Agency.

Jiang Feng looked at Liu Lian who was sitting in front of him and started the second round of mediation, saying bluntly: "Ms. Liu, from your previous narration, I can hear that you are indeed very dissatisfied with your mother-in-law.

You complain that your mother-in-law's cooking is not to your taste, that she is too controlling and does not allow you to be free, that she did not spare more time to help you take care of your child when you were in confinement, and that you cannot stand all the ways in which she takes care of your child...

But from my point of view, I think you are wrong!"

Liu Lian was dissatisfied and asked in a deep voice: "Master Jiang, what did I do wrong?"

Jiang Feng looked at her and said, "Your mistake is that you don't respect your elders enough, and you think that your mother-in-law's efforts for you are what she deserves. You even ignore her efforts for this family and think that it is her duty to take care of you and your child during your pregnancy and confinement.

To put it bluntly, you don’t have a grateful heart, and this is the main source of the conflict between you and your mother-in-law.”

Liu Lian argued, "Master Jiang, I don't agree with what you said. I am a grown-up girl who has not eaten a single meal or drunk a single drop of water from the Kang family for more than 20 years. I married here to continue the Kang family's lineage. Should I still be bullied by her?

I am pregnant with the Kang family's child. Isn't it her duty as a mother-in-law to take care of me?

After the child is born, he will also be a member of the Kang family. Shouldn't she, as a grandmother, take care of him?"

Jiang Feng smiled faintly and said, "Ms. Liu, when teeth and tongues collide, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps and bruises when living under the same roof. As a daughter-in-law, you should be more understanding and tolerant of your mother-in-law. There is no need to argue about many small things.

Also, it is really not your mother-in-law's obligation to take care of you during your pregnancy and confinement, and help you raise your child.

Don't bring up the descendants of the Kang family. When the child grows up, you, the mother, will benefit, not her, the grandmother. There are grandmothers in this world who can enjoy the blessing of grandchildren, but they are rare."

Liu Lian frowned and said, "Isn't it said that 'the first ten years depend on the mother-in-law, and the last ten years depend on the daughter-in-law'? If she doesn't take care of me and help me take care of the children when I'm in trouble, how can I take care of her when she's old?"

Jiang Feng said: "This sentence is very subjective. There is no reference standard. For example, in your relationship with your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law treats you very well. But in your opinion, your mother-in-law treats you very badly.

Moreover, this is actually very unfair to my mother-in-law.

The first ten years depend on the mother-in-law, which requires her to work like a slave and never complain.

To put it bluntly, with the current high divorce rate, you may leave the house right after your mother-in-law has taken care of you. Even if you don't divorce, there are many mothers-in-law in today's society who are still taking care of their children and grandchildren until the day before they die, instead of being taken care of by their daughters-in-law.

Therefore, the so-called "watch your daughter-in-law for the next ten years" has become an empty talk here.

Therefore, as a daughter-in-law, you must know how to be grateful. Your mother-in-law’s help to you is a favor, not a duty. Don’t look at your mother-in-law’s efforts now by comparing your care for her in a few decades, which has not happened yet.”

These words left Liu Lian speechless.

Jiang Feng concluded: "In short, be more understanding and tolerant of your mother-in-law. She will definitely treat you much better than her mother-in-law treated her. She has worked hard to raise her son for more than 20 years, and the money she earned is given to you as his wife instead of to her as his mother. You should be content!"

Liu Lian was shocked, and there was a hint of thought in her expression.

Seeing this, Jiang Feng said, "Ms. Liu, please think carefully about what I said to you. Now go to the lobby outside and wait, and call your husband in."

"Okay, Master Jiang!" Liu Lian responded, then got up, pushed the door and walked out.

Soon, Kang Buping pushed the door and walked in.

After he sat down, Jiang Feng continued his straightforward style and said, "Mr. Kang, you have an unshirkable responsibility in the conflict between your mother and your wife.

Originally, your mother and your wife were strangers who didn't know each other, but through you, they became a family, and you played an extremely important role in it.

When a conflict just started between your mother and your wife, you should have tried to find a way to resolve it immediately, instead of just trying to smooth things over like you did, which would only make their relationship more and more strained.

It was just a small matter at first, but when it accumulates and explodes, it is no longer a small matter! "

Kang Buping smiled bitterly and said, "Master Jiang, I understand what you said, but I really have no way to solve it. Apart from trying to mediate between them, I really can't think of any way to make them stop caring about those trivial matters."

Jiang Feng said: "Actually, it's not your fault. You and I are both men. Although I haven't been married yet, I have seen many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes people shudder.

Many times, when conflicts arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men don’t know where to start to persuade them.

Speak for your mother, your wife is unhappy.

I want to speak up for my wife, but I'm afraid of hurting my mother's feelings.

In short, men who are unable to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will most likely choose to remain silent. "

Kang Buping said with deep sympathy: "Master Jiang is right. I am such a man. Every time my mother and my wife quarrel, I remain silent. It's not that I don't want to persuade them, but I don't know where to start in front of them. I can only wait until they finish quarreling, and then persuade them privately.

Unfortunately, the results were minimal, and I later became too lazy to even advise him privately."

Jiang Feng nodded in understanding, "Mr. Kang, after my mediation this time, I believe your mother and wife should rarely quarrel. When they occasionally quarrel, if you really don't know how to persuade them, just tell them separately in private that if you don't want to pay the high mediation fee again, then don't bother so much."

Kang Buping said yes repeatedly after hearing this.

In fact, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and it is definitely better to live separately than under the same roof, but Jiang Feng did not mention this to Kang Buping, mainly because his family situation is somewhat special.

First, their family moved from Guangdong Province to Jiangxi Province decades ago, and their hometown is no longer habitable. If they live separately, they will have to spend extra money to rent a house, which is a completely unnecessary expense.

Second, Kang Buping's father had passed away, leaving only his mother. It was undoubtedly a big blow to his mother to leave her alone while he lived with his wife and children.

Therefore, Jiang Feng never mentioned this matter to him.

Feeling that he had said enough, Jiang Feng called in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who were waiting in the hall.

Seeing the family of three sitting down, Jiang Feng directly used his wall-breaking ability on them.

Originally, Kang Buping and Liu Lian's marriage matching value was as follows:

[Current marriage matching value] 56 (marital relationship 62 + family matching 68 + family relationship 38)

[Ultimate Marriage Matching Value] 60 (Marriage Relationship 69 + Matching 71 + Family Relationship 40)

After Jiang Feng used his wall-breaking ability on them, their marriage matching value changed dramatically and instantly became like this:

[Current marriage matching value] 68 (marital relationship 68 + family matching 68 + family relationship 68)

[Ultimate Marriage Matching Value] 79 (Marriage Relationship 79 + Matching 79 + Family Relationship 79)

At the same time, Jiang Feng looked at the three people and said, "I believe you have thought clearly about what I said to you just now. The rest of the time will be given to you and your mother-in-law. Ms. Liu, do you have anything to say to your mother-in-law?"

At this time, because the current family relationship item soared by 30 points, Liu Lian's impression of her mother-in-law also changed greatly, and Jiang Feng's previous mediation also played a significant role.

Therefore, when Jiang Feng asked her if she had anything to say to her mother-in-law, Liu Lian might have been emotional, and looked at her mother-in-law sincerely and said: "Mom, I'm sorry, I was ignorant before, and I made you suffer!"

In Hu Jinhua's eyes, her daughter-in-law was more pleasing to the eye than ever before. She said excitedly, "Mom has done some things wrong, too. I hope you can bear with me!"

Kang Buping was so excited when he saw this scene that he was shaking all over. He had always dreamed of his mother and wife living in harmony. Now that his dream had come true, he felt that the 100,000 yuan was totally worth it!

There is no need to say much about what happened next. The relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quickly warmed up after putting aside their past grudges. In just over ten minutes, they went from being disgusted with each other to having a deep affection for each other.

The main reason for such a huge change in the two was naturally the wall-breaking ability used by Jiang Feng. The second reason was his words of mediation, which made both the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law reflect on themselves.

Afterwards, Kang Buping readily paid the bill, and the family of three thanked Jiang Feng profusely before leaving happily.

Jiang Feng did not have much time to reflect, as he now concentrated his time for marriage mediation on Saturdays and Sundays, as he had more than a dozen clients waiting for his marriage mediation!

Sunday.

11:30 pm.

On a sparsely populated old street in the provincial capital, a car parked on the side of the road was swaying rhythmically, but the amplitude of the swaying was not large, and it would not be noticeable if you were not staring at the car.

Ten minutes later.

The car stopped shaking.

A few minutes later, the lights in the car came on. Zhang Rongying reached out and pinched Jiang Fei, saying shyly, "You look quite honest, but I didn't expect you to be so mean. You actually bully me in a place like this. What if someone sees us..."

Jiang Fei had a satisfied look on his face, and he chuckled, "No one would walk on this road at this time, and the passing vehicles would not notice these things. In addition, our movements were very quiet, so no one would notice."

Zhang Rongying's face still had a blush on it. "If I'm discovered, I won't be able to live like a human being anymore!"

Jiang Fei was moved by what he saw, so he leaned over and kissed her, then said with a smile: "I saw that you were quite excited just now!"

"Nonsense, who's excited?"

Zhang Rongying was so embarrassed that she kept reaching out to pinch him, and only stopped when Jiang Fei begged for mercy.

The two flirted for a while before Jiang Fei said seriously, "Wife, I want to go back to my hometown to bring my parents over so that our family can formally meet yours and discuss our marriage. What do you think?"

The relationship between the two has developed to this point, and the next step is naturally to talk about marriage. Zhang Rongying nodded and said, "Then I will say hello to my parents first, and then arrange a time to meet. Is that okay with you?"

Jiang Fei nodded and said, "Of course, let's make it like this, you discuss with your parents and set a meeting time, and I will go back to pick my parents up."

Zhang Rongying nodded.

Then the two of them stayed affectionate for more than ten minutes, until after midnight, when Jiang Fei drove her home.

The next day.

Monday.

After breakfast, Jiang Feng drove towards Sichuan Province.

When searching for a match for Sister Lily, Jiang Feng drove to many provinces, and Sichuan was one of them. Here he found a suitable match for Bai Zian, the son of an official.

Jiang Feng came here for two purposes:

1. Act as a matchmaker for Bai Zian.

Second, search for matching partners for Li Qianrou, Tian Lu, and Mu Xiaolan along the way.

It is more than 1,200 kilometers from the capital of Guangxi Province to the capital of Sichuan Province, with Guizhou Province in between.

Jiang Feng's search and matching range is expanding almost every day. Now it is not just as simple as covering one city, but it can cover two adjacent cities.

Therefore, Jiang Feng’s search and matching efficiency is now extremely high.

As soon as he arrived at the birthplace of screw noodles, he found a suitable partner for Tian Lu, the fallen woman. However, Jiang Feng had no intention of stopping and continued on his way.

When passing through the provincial capital of Guizhou Province, Jiang Feng found a suitable partner for Mu Xiaolan, a girl with obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Jiang Feng also had no intention of stopping and continued driving towards the provincial capital of Sichuan Province.

At eleven o'clock that evening, Jiang Feng finally arrived safely in the provincial capital of Sichuan Province.

I parked the car at the hotel I had booked in advance, had a nice midnight snack, and then went back to the hotel to take a shower and dry my hair. By the time I finished everything, it was already one or two in the morning.

Jiang Feng was already very tired after driving all day, so he fell asleep immediately.

No words were spoken that night.

The next day.

At nine o'clock in the morning, Jiang Feng got up, washed up, checked out, went out to have a bowl of special Sichuan breakfast, and then drove straight to the target location - the Provincial Women's Special Police Team.

The information of the person Jiang Feng matched with Bai Zian, the second-generation official, is as follows:

【Name】Qiao Fenghuang

Age: 28

【Height】167cm

【Weight】54kg

【Family Background】Born into a military family, my great-grandfather was an old Red Army soldier who died in the Anti-Japanese War. My grandfather participated in the War to Resist U.S. Aggression and Aid Korea. My father is a big shot in the provincial military region...

【Personality and Hobbies】……

[Relationship experience] None

[Current marriage matching value] 81 (marital relationship 74 + family matching 88 + family relationship 81)

[Ultimate marriage matching value] 89 (marital relationship 89 + equal status 91 + family relationship 87)

There is no doubt that the family background of this match is very prominent, even more prominent than Bai Zian's family.

By matching the information, Jiang Feng could see that this girl named Qiao Fenghuang was very tough and was a famous female instructor of the provincial women's special police team.

If Jiang Feng succeeds in bringing this couple together, Bai Zian will probably be associated with the word "henpecked"!


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