Chapter 564: Drunkenness
The woman felt very aggrieved and wanted to retort but didn't dare to.
Because it seemed that the man came to take the woman and the child to eat barbecue, but he ate the most of the barbecue, and the child was still young and could only eat a few bites.
The woman had been busy since she came in and hadn't even taken a bite to eat.
"Okay, eat it."
The man waved his hand at the woman as if giving alms. At this time, there was nothing left on the baking tray. Although there was still some meat, it was all burnt.
The woman looked at the meat on the baking tray, then stole a glance at the man. It was obvious that she wanted to order something else, but she didn't dare to open her mouth, fearing that she would not be able to eat what was on the baking tray.
Yaya felt sympathy for the woman as she watched from the opposite side, but she had no intention of helping her because she remembered one thing: there must be something hateful about every pitiful person.
She had encountered this kind of thing many times before. Men don't take women seriously. To them, women are like nannies who serve them. And when they open their mouths to talk to the men, the words they say are all the same, like "I make money for women and children, it's not easy for me to make money outside."
It seems that all the money the man earns is spent on women and children, while he himself gets nothing in return.
But in fact, such men are often the biggest beneficiaries in the marriage. They are only responsible for making money outside. However, such men do not make much money. They are just making money relative to the women at home.
Those things at home are all invisible contributions, but these are not recognized by people. People are accustomed to only recognizing how much money one earns as the standard, and they assume that those who earn more money are the ones who contribute more to the family.
When people talk about this kind of family, the woman is incompetent and does not earn money. But if the woman wants to earn money, she will be discouraged, saying how can she earn money if she has no skills. If the woman earns money, some people will say that they don’t know how she earns money, or that she is someone else’s wife or mother but is not at home all day and is running around outside.
Anyway, no matter what women do, it's wrong.
How sad.
Yaya had wanted to help these women before, by giving them a job. As long as they could put in half the effort they put into their families, they would have an income, could stand up straight, and no longer be looked down upon.
She proposed this to no less than ten women, but in the end only one woman was willing to accept her help and has now changed her life.
The rest didn't even have the right to make a decision on the spot. They gave up after being coaxed by the men with a few words, and they still looked proud that their men still loved them.
Another possibility is that they want to come but don’t have the courage, and after the child says a few words, they give up.
Even if Bodhisattva saves people, that person must be willing to save himself. And a person who is willing to save herself can change her life even without help from others.
After going through so many times, Yaya finally realized that some people's miserable lives are not entirely due to other people's fault, but more to her own fault. She complained that she was suffering, but in fact she was just venting her resentment. She didn't really think there was anything wrong with her life. She couldn't say that she enjoyed her current situation, but she really didn't want to change it.
People are actually very afraid of change, because change means the need to relearn and re-adapt. Life after the change is unknown, and the unknown is equivalent to being out of control.
No matter what kind of person you are, you all want to be in control of your own life and feel safe in a familiar lifestyle.
Why do older people have prejudices against young people or those who like to make trouble? It is because young people and those who like to make trouble will make them lose their sense of control and feel insecure.
When people lack a sense of security, they will become irritable and angry, but they will not realize that this is their own problem and will want to teach a lesson to the person who made them lose their sense of control.
This is especially evident in intimate relationships, such as between parents and children, or husbands and wives.
It is said that adolescent children are difficult to manage because they have grown to a point where they are out of their parents’ control. The first thing that children at this stage will do is to take on the physical appearance of adults.
Some are even taller and stronger than their parents. When they were young, their parents would use their size to suppress them. Even if they did nothing, their tall size would make the children naturally afraid and fearful.
When entering puberty, children will find that their parents are not as powerful as they thought, and that they have the ability to resist them. At this time, children will try.
Especially when conflicts occur, if the child wins, it will immediately break the strong filter he has for his parents and allow them to enter a whole new era.
At this time, conflicts are likely to arise between parents and children. Parents still want to control their children, but children, like little birds that are curious about the outside world, want to explore the bigger world.
Yaya and Huo Jiusi both experienced the physical changes of puberty, but there was no psychological change. Firstly, they were both very mature since childhood, and secondly, their families did not give them that kind of control.
Both of their families are very open-minded, especially Yue's family, who are very accepting of any attempts their children want to make.
For example, her grandmother is still active on stage and performs once a week.
For example, her aunt quit her job and said she wanted to become a travel blogger. Both her grandparents and uncle fully supported her decision.
Her uncle quit his job at school even earlier, saying he wanted to go into business. He suffered losses during that time, but later made a comeback. Now her uncle's company has grown very big.
Her brother Xiaofeng doesn't want to take over the family business for the time being, as he is developing video games himself.
The whole family had no control over Yaya. If she wanted to go to school, they would arrange for her to go to school, even though she was so young at that time.
She wanted to study abroad, and although her family was reluctant, they still agreed.
Yaya and Huo Jiusi came out of the barbecue restaurant at the same time as the family across the street, and happened to see the man trying to kick Lai Cai.
"It's a police dog. If you kick it, you'll go to jail."
Yaya scolded the man, and the man frowned in displeasure.
When they were in the store, he always stole glances at Yaya, and that look made her very uncomfortable.
However, with Huo Jiusi around, the man didn't dare to do anything, and later he didn't dare to look again.
At this moment, he had been drinking and was a little drunk. He also felt a little embarrassed that he was afraid of a young boy. So when Yaya scolded him, he took advantage of the alcohol and went crazy.
"It's this, and it's a police dog!"
The man pointed at Laicai and said, "If it were a police dog, I would kneel down and kowtow to it."
"It's just a broken-earth dog..."
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