Chapter 568 Acting as a Blood Bag
Li Yan was very angry at first, but as more and more people started shouting, she couldn't help but start to doubt herself.
But she didn't think she was wrong. She had regretted it over the years, but every time she told herself that she was not wrong.
The one who was wrong was Yue Mingde. If Yue Mingde had not insisted on divorcing her, she would not have separated from Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui.
But Yue Mingde never stopped Li Yan from visiting Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui. It was Li Yan who was angry and didn't visit Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui.
Either every time he came to see Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui, he had a purpose, either to ask them to persuade Yue Mingde to remarry her, or to take their things.
She also brought food for them, but it was either rotten apples or snacks that the family didn't eat, and the snacks were all moldy.
It’s not like Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui haven’t seen good things before. Yaya is not stingy. She won’t guard her food and will always share the delicious food with them.
Huo Jiusi bought a lot of delicious food for Yaya. Every time they went to the compound, Yaya would bring out a lot for them. If they didn’t have time to go, she would ask her father to bring it back, and sometimes she would even come to deliver it to them.
Li Yan scolded them for being ungrateful and said they were beasts who didn't care about her. But she never thought about it, and she never took good care of them, was never gentle to them, and never really treated them as her children.
She said that Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui were good to Yaya, but she never thought about how she treated them and how Yaya treated them.
They changed their respective destinies after hearing Yaya's voice, and they believed that what Yaya said must be true.
They also believed that if their mother knew about these things, she would not care. She did not care about their deaths. She only cared about her brothers and nephews.
But they can understand her and feel sorry for her. If they have a daughter in the future, they will not let their daughter be like her mother, and they will not spread wrong ideas to her.
Li Yan was brainwashed by her family since she was a child, because they were afraid that the family would not be able to live well without her, a blood bag.
The worst person among them is actually Li Yan's mother. It was her doting that not only ruined her two sons, but also ruined Li Yan.
This is the influence parents have on their children.
Many times, women become perpetrators of violence against other women because they are afraid of losing the resources they have.
Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui originally wanted to support Li Yan, but when they learned that Li Yan was not living well, they did not gloat over her misfortune, but felt very sorry for her.
They didn't expect much from her. They just hoped that she could realize that what she had done to them before was wrong, and that she could stop caring about her brother and Li Yang.
If her brothers were sick, and Li Yang was a good kid, then there was nothing wrong with her being willing to take care of them. It wasn't like one would lose their family once they got married. But the brothers Li Zhiqiang and Li Zhigang treated Li Yan like the blood bag of the family.
It would be fine if it was just the two of them, but they also wanted to train Li Yan to continue raising their children. This is not fair.
No family can withstand this. One person can help another person, but one person cannot always support another person.
Not to mention that Li Yan is not supporting just one person, but two families.
If a family with many brothers and sisters can help each other, it will develop into a strong family, and if one side is in trouble, all sides will come to its aid.
In normal times, they can provide each other with support and integrate resources.
But if several people have their own little calculations, are selfish and only think about their own interests, or like Li Yan's family, several families are sucking blood from one person, then they basically can't live well.
If the person whose blood is being sucked awakens in time, leaves the family, or reduces their blood-sucking, then there is still hope. But if this person refuses to change his mind, like Li Yan, then he will definitely suffer the consequences.
Spiritual matricide means being able to mentally get rid of the influence of the mother on oneself, which is usually mostly negative.
In fact, most Chinese people will go through this step one day. Some will kill their mothers, and some will kill their fathers.
The majority of cases involve patricide.
It's a problem of social discipline. No matter how bad a woman is, she can't be that bad. But men have been selfish since childhood. And it may be due to genetic reasons. Some men are born selfish even if no one teaches them.
Men's selfishness and calculation are ingrained in their bones, and of course this is revealed in contrast to women's selflessness.
In fact, people are selfish and will naturally protect their own interests, and will naturally calculate accordingly.
It's just that women produce some hormones during pregnancy because of maternal instinct, but more of it is actually due to social discipline, for example, people believe that mothers must love their children.
But if a mother is so tired after giving birth and then has to take care of a high-demand baby, it will make the mother collapse.
Some people will hate the child because of this, while others will be torn between themselves. On the one hand, her body does not want her to take care of the child, but on the other hand, her morality prevents her from taking care of the child.
In this situation, many mothers will develop a mental illness, namely postpartum depression.
Postpartum depression is influenced by hormones, but more of it is human-caused.
If at this time, the family members can take on the responsibility of taking care of the child, they will not be so harsh on the mother, for example, requiring breastfeeding, requiring the child to eat this and not that.
Many times, people's demands on mothers are not for their physical health, but all for the baby.
The process of childbirth is painful, especially for people with high self-esteem.
The process of childbirth makes people feel that they are no longer a person, but an animal, a beast.
The process is particularly humiliating, and coupled with the physical pain, it becomes a double torture.
Many people do not fully understand the entire process of pregnancy and childbirth, and think that the pain will be over as long as the child is born.
Because pregnancy is very painful, there will be morning sickness and various other symptoms, and emotions will also be affected by hormones and the body.
You may suddenly become irritable and feel particularly aggrieved.
If these can be understood, it would be fine. If not, it will aggravate the emotional pain.
People call giving birth "unloading", believing that after unloading, the body will feel relaxed, less cumbersome, and can do whatever they want, returning to their previous relaxed and free state.
The birthing process will be very painful, and after giving birth you will face other pains, and the most important thing is that after giving birth is when you will be truly tied up.
The child belongs to the mother alone. Usually, if the mother does something wrong, many people will blame her. On the contrary, if the father does something right, he will be praised by many people.
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