Chapter 569 Engagement
This has become commonplace in many Chinese families.
Li Yan and Yue Mingde are not a good match. If the Yue family is the kind of family that disciplines women, they will pay special attention to Li Yan's support for her parents' home, and may even take tougher measures. Li Yan may then be changed, or may not be so excessive.
But Yue Mingde and the Yue family are not such people. Yue Guohuai and Wan Jiayin are unwilling to interfere in their children's lives and marriages unless it is absolutely necessary.
They will reason with them, but when it comes to life choices, it is still up to them to decide.
For example, when Yue Mingde responded to the call to serve as an informed official, Yue Guohuai and Wan Jiayin not only did not object, but also supported it.
The second brother Yue Mingli wanted to be a policeman, and the most dangerous criminal policeman, and they also supported him.
Yue Minghui likes those fashionable things and they think they are great too.
They crawled out of the hail of bullets and piles of dead bodies, and they have all received a good education. They not only have a broad vision, but are also very open-minded.
They are very clear that their children's lives are not decided by them, but by the children themselves.
They don't want to interfere in their children's marriages. In their opinion, once their children get married and start their own families, they should be responsible for their own families. If any problems arise, they can come for help unless they cannot solve them, but they cannot always interfere.
The problem with many children's marriages is that their parents interfere too much, resulting in the children being unable to solve the problem themselves, or having to face two sides, having to solve the problem with their partner and with their parents. This sandwich makes the children too tired.
Not only did the parents fail to help their children, they actually added burden to them.
Li Yan goes to her parents' home for financial support and has complaints about her husband's family. Everyone in Yue's family is aware of this, but except for Yue Minghui, no one else wants to conflict with Li Yan.
They were not afraid of Li Yan, but they had to give consideration to the other party. There was also Yue Mingde in the middle, and they did not want to make things difficult for him.
In fact, it can be seen from this point that if Li Yan really cared about Yue Mingde, she would not ignore her own family, and would not have so many complaints about the Yue family.
Yue Mingde has a very good relationship with his parents and brothers. Whenever Li Yan says something bad about anyone in the family, Yue Mingde will feel uncomfortable. Yue Mingde has mentioned it to Li Yan several times, but Li Yan never takes it seriously and even gets worse.
Yue Mingde is the kind of person who doesn't like conflicts, but even a clay man has some temperament, and he will explode if someone provokes him.
Afterwards, Li Yang took out a knife and wanted to hurt Yue Youhui, which made Yue Mingde completely explode, and his outburst directly solved the root of the problem.
As long as he is still married to Li Yan, he, Yue Youxin and Yue Youhui are all inseparable from the Li family. Therefore, in order to protect his son, he must divorce Li Yan and have no relationship with the Li family at all.
He cares about what happens to the Li family afterwards, whether it is a favor or his duty.
But Li Yan didn't understand this logic. She just wanted her mother to praise her for her ability.
Many parents fool their children in this way, and the children pay a lot just to get a word of praise from their parents.
There are not only foolish and filial daughters like Li Yan, but there are actually more foolish and filial sons.
Some are the eldest in the family, but more are the second child.
For some reason, parents generally look down on the second child and like the eldest child because he is the first child, and like the youngest one because most parents only understand how to be parents when the youngest one is born.
Often the second child is the one with the least presence in the family, and he or she does the most work and is the most diligent at home, because only in this way can he or she attract the attention of his or her parents.
Only when Yue Youxin got rid of Li Yan's influence and no longer had any expectations of her did he achieve true transformation and growth.
Everyone needs to go through this step, needs to recognize the relationship with their parents, needs to understand that parents will not be as strong as they were when they were children. They will grow old, they will be afraid of death, they will become more and more fragile, and the situation between parents and children will be reversed.
One day, parents will become children, and children will become parents.
Most people actually cannot completely hate their parents, because they do show moments of love, but they also cannot truly love their parents, because their parents have never truly loved them.
Some people can slowly get out of it, while some will be trapped forever, and some people don't seem to care, but the hurt and impact have already permeated every aspect of their lives.
Time flies, and Yaya finally grows up.
This day is not only Yaya’s birthday, but also the day when Huo Jiusi and Yaya get engaged.
Huo Jiusi finally got his wish to change his relationship with his little dumpling.
Of course, the engagement was agreed by Yaya. If Yaya didn't agree, Huo Jiusi would not dare to do it rashly no matter how anxious he was.
He and Yaya quarreled because he acted on his own or did not respect Yaya. Twice was already a lot, and he didn't want Yaya to be disappointed in him because of these things.
Huo Jiusi wasn't sure whether Yaya regarded him as a brother or a friend, or had changed her mind about him.
The two grew up together, and family and friendship definitely play a more important role. Huo Jiusi is precocious, and he changed his feelings for Yaya very early on. Moreover, he has also had ambitions since he was a child, and he raised Yaya as his own wife.
If it was his sister or friend, he wouldn't be so dedicated.
Although he had eavesdropped on the conversation between Daisy and Yaya in Rongqishan's garden before, and Yaya admitted that she liked him, which made him very happy, but every time he was with Yaya, she was still the same as before, which made him confused, and he didn't dare to ask, for fear that asking would make Yaya have the wrong feelings or be troubled by it.
What's more worrying is that if Yaya realizes that she has no romantic feelings for him, it will be even more troublesome.
He definitely didn't want Yaya to fall in love with someone else. If that happened, he would go crazy and cut that person into pieces. But he didn't want Yaya to be unhappy.
When Huo Jiusi looked at Yaya's sleeping face at night, he felt as if he was being roasted on fire.
It was Yaya who took the initiative to bring up the matter of engagement.
After finishing her studies, Yaya was 16 years old. She stayed at home with her family for a while, and also lived in a sanatorium with Yue Guohuai and Wan Jiayin for some time.
We then went traveling together for another half a year before starting our business.
She founded a pet products brand that includes pet food, snacks and daily necessities.
She herself had experience as a cat, and during that time she also met some puppy friends and was familiar with their habits.
In this life, she has many pets and the ability to communicate with animals, so naturally she wants to contribute to them.
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