It’s different after being educated. Her father seemed to be indifferent to her affairs, and her mother was anxious. It’s not that her family is special. In most families, men’s reactions are different from women’s, and they are more calm. It’s consistent with what the obstetrician’s father said.
"The next biggest concern is loneliness."
Isn't it surprising that family members can also feel lonely? How can the patient's family members feel lonely when they are not sick?
"Family members accompany patients and need to support them, but if there is no one to support the family members, they are actually fighting alone in society." When Li Yaxi said this, she thought of how her mother had avoided the reality of her hospitalization and did not come to the hospital to accompany her. She was afraid that this was the reason, coupled with the third psychological characteristic of family members, panic, which will be discussed below.
Don't think that only patients are afraid of life and death. The fear of family members facing the death of their family members is unimaginable to outsiders. It is not you who will die, but watching your family members die is like a soldier seeing his comrade dying in front of him.
It can be said that life is afraid of loneliness, and loneliness and panic coexist.
Another common emotion among family members in clinical practice is the "hostility" shown by Zhang Li and Liu Jinyin today.
Isn't it even more surprising?
Hostility is a common psychological characteristic of family members in clinical practice. No wonder clinical teachers have long been unaware of this, because they understand science.
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Hostility is definitely related to cognition. People who are not studying medicine have a rather one-sided understanding of medicine, and some inexplicable rumors are spread to smear the patients. Some family members themselves have weak stress resistance. Combined with the above three other factors, it is too easy to turn into hostility. Moreover, the hostility is not necessarily directed at medical staff.
Analyzing these psychological states is helpful for humans to see themselves clearly like looking in a mirror. Researchers believe that humans are not unconscious, but are often lost in a maze.
"Doctor Xie, have you seen other striking psychological characteristics of family members in your clinical practice? You doctors have more contact with patients, so you should be more aware of them." Li Yaxi asked. Her research goal is to dig out more psychological problems of clinical family members. The earlier the problem is discovered, the sooner it can be intervened to avoid tragedies like hers.
The patient's family members have a great influence on the patient's mentality.
I chose to do research in pediatrics because my mentor told me that in pediatrics, both patients and their families are more likely to express their emotions and expose their psychological problems than in adult wards.
The other party's question reminded Xie Wanying of herself at the first moment. She was also a patient's family member, and a reborn patient's family member. Her biggest psychological characteristic was: guilt.
Is she the only family member who feels guilty? Definitely not. It is common in clinical practice, especially in pediatrics, to see parents crying and saying sorry to their children.
"Yes!" Li Yaxi was enlightened by her words and said, "Today I met a mother in the ward saying sorry. I thought she was saying sorry to the child, but it turned out not to be the case."
The guilt of the family members is not only about the patient's illness, but also about other family members, and even about the "stranger". Who is this "stranger"? It is the donor.
Don’t think of all the family members as Zhang’s family. Zhang’s family members are a minority among the minority. Most people are kind-hearted. They are not only grateful to the donors, but also feel deeply ashamed, thinking that they have not taken good care of their family members and caused others to need donations.
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