After washing his face, Dr. Luo went out with Dr. Xie to buy breakfast.
The two walked side by side.
The air in the small city is fresh, the sun is shining, and the air is filled with the fragrance of flowers and the chirping of birds. This is because the mountains can be seen behind the First People's Hospital.
As they walked, Dr. Luo asked about other friends: "How is Dr. Liu these days?"
"Senior Sister is very nice." Xie Wanying said.
"As long as she can recover on her own, I'm glad." Dr. Luo Yanfen then said that she was not too worried about Dr. Liu. This was because it was well known that Dr. Liu and Officer Hu were truly in love with each other, and they did not get married with the purpose of having a child.
Dr. Luo said that these views are confident because she herself has experienced it. For example, her relationship with her ex-boyfriend was often praised by outsiders as true love, but they had to break up in the end.
Her boyfriend dislikes her for focusing on her career, but in fact he dislikes her because he is afraid that she will not be able to give birth to a good child after she gets older and gets married.
For a long time, various public opinions have always pointed out that the problems of pregnancy and childbirth are solely the fault of women.
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It is said that women give birth to bad children because they give birth late, and the blame should be entirely on the career women themselves.
Anyone in the industry who has studied at the Third Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of Beidu Hospital will know that the birth of a child is always the result of both men and women, and it is completely unreasonable to say who is at fault.
Whether it is true love or not, no matter how sweet the interaction between a man and a woman is during courtship and marriage, Dr. Luo believes that only when it comes to the issue of children, it does not mean that marriage must be for the purpose of having children.
Otherwise, one day, the result will be like what happened to Dr. Luo and her ex-boyfriend.
As Dr. Xie Wanying listened, she could understand who Dr. Luo was worried about.
"What were the results of Dr. He's second examination?"
"good."
"I heard her husband has a good attitude."
"Yes."
We are all doctors, and Dr. Li Xiaoshen would not say that he does not understand medical principles.
"Dr. He's parents-in-law seem to be more concerned about this matter." Dr. Luo is a straightforward person and will not hide these facts.
Having learned a profound lesson, she couldn't stand seeing these things.
"Has Dr. Li communicated with his parents?" Dr. Luo asked again.
Dr. Xie didn't know the answer to this question, as it was the Li family's internal private matter.
By the way, when she was traveling, the eldest sister suddenly called her and talked about the matter of the second sister.
It is said that Dr. He Xiangyu is planning to move out and move back to the house she bought before she got married, which is in the same community as Mr. Zhang.
It is conceivable that the conflicts within this family may be much greater than outsiders initially judged.
Second Senior Sister is a bit like Dr. Luo, and also has a straightforward personality.
Doctor Liu Jingyun has a gentle personality and was afraid that her junior sister's move would make the old man angry and affect their marriage.
Since he couldn't convince the second junior sister, he could only call the youngest junior sister.
Xie Wanying’s point of view is: Second Sister is pregnant now, the health of a pregnant woman is the most important, and the mood of a pregnant woman is very important. Don’t let her get depressed and affect her health.
Behind the seemingly professional medical opinion, Dr. Xie hides his little thoughts: To put it bluntly, it takes two to tango in this kind of matter, so don't put all the blame on the woman and let her suffer alone.
Dr. Luo understood what was going on and sighed, "It seems that the two of them got married for the purpose of having children."
Sometimes Senior Brother Tao said that Second Senior Sister was like a child, and Xie Wanying felt that there was some truth in that.
When you choose to get married at a certain age, no matter whether you like it or not, having a child is equivalent to completing a mission in life. As for what happens after marriage, you don’t need to worry about it for now.
You would never imagine that such thoughts are actually very common among the middle class who have more livelihood security, regardless of gender.
Precisely because they are all middle class and their financial conditions are good, even if the divorce lawsuit is evenly matched, they are not afraid of getting married or divorced.
Isn’t this idea a little naive, like that of a little kid?
In fact, getting a divorce after marriage is not an easy thing.
Since you regard marriage as a cooperation of interests, can I let you divide it as you please when we break up?
Before her rebirth, Dr. Xie did not want to follow the crowd and get married to deceive herself and the other party, so staying single was a prudent choice.
After her rebirth, her views on choosing a spouse and getting married have never changed. Marriage cannot be entered into casually. It is not worth it to bring yourself a lot of trouble after marriage.
Having said that, there is a reason why many people have the idea of getting married and divorced casually as mentioned above, such as the second sister because of emotional trauma.
Second Senior Sister is like a child, while Senior Brother Tao is too much like a teacher.
It’s hard to describe Brother Tao’s sometimes overly considerate and gentle nature. I’m afraid that what he wants to do good may turn out to be a bad thing.
No wonder Teacher Lu was most worried about his student Tao during his lifetime.
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