Chapter 102 You are asking too much of him
At Zhu's house.
Not only the two brothers are sister-con, but Zhu Xingguo, Xu Hui, and even old lady Zhu, all of them regard Zhu Suisui as the apple of their eye.
When Zhu Suisui was pregnant, it was the most difficult time for the Zhu family.
After giving birth to three babies in a row, Xu Hui's body was exhausted. At that time, she had to take care of two little ones, and with one in her belly, Xu Hui also had to work in the fields.
When the first two children were born, the Zhu family was better off, at least Xu Hui didn't need to work. So when Xu Hui was pregnant with Zhu Suisui, she had nothing to eat and her body couldn't get enough nutrition, so she gave birth prematurely.
When the child was born, he was so tiny, his face was all bruised, and he almost didn’t survive.
The midwife said that Zhu Suisui would definitely not survive.
Xu Hui cried at that time.
Think it's your own problem.
I would feel the child's breathing from time to time, fearing that she might really be gone.
Every day is spent in fear.
Given her condition at that time, if Zhu Suisui died, she would definitely go with him.
Zhu Xingguo worked even harder, doing all the dirty and tiring work, just thinking about saving money to go to the county hospital.
Old Mrs. Zhu even chanted sutras and prayed at home, asking the Buddha to spare her life and not let the child go.
Even the two younger ones knew that their sister might leave at any time.
At home, she is responsible for taking care of her younger sister.
In everyone's heart, Zhu Suisui's affairs are greater than any one of them.
Listen to my mother and grandmother.
Zhu Suisui's eyes couldn't help but turn red, and her nose felt sore.
"Mom, grandma, it's Sui Sui who is unfilial. She still makes you worry after getting married."
Xu Hui caressed her hand lovingly, her eyes full of tenderness, "They say that children are a debt to their parents. Since I gave birth to you, no matter how old you are, you are my daughter. It is natural for parents to worry about their children. You have been weak and sickly since childhood, and you got married at the age of 18, going to a place where you are unfamiliar with the environment and facing such a large group of children. Sometimes your grandmother and I wonder whether this choice is good or bad."
The Lu family is such a good family, but in the eyes of outsiders, the fact that they could get this marriage was like a blessing in disguise for the Zhu family.
But in the eyes of the Zhu family, this is not the most important thing.
If this marriage would make Zhu Suisui unhappy, they would rather not have this marriage.
In the beginning.
When Mr. Lu talked about getting married, he naturally wanted to protect the Zhu family and let the Lu family be passed down from generation to generation, and remember the Zhu family's kindness.
Old Mrs. Zhu thought for a long time before deciding to let Zhu Suisui get married.
At that time, other members of the Zhu family were unwilling.
Afraid that Zhu Suisui would be wronged.
Old Lady Zhu said, "Aren't I afraid that Sui Sui will be wronged? But with Sui Sui's health, if she stays in our country, who knows what will happen to her? We can support her for the rest of her life, but how? Will she have to work in the fields for a lifetime? We can't even afford her medical expenses!"
"The Lu family is different. They are in the Forbidden City. What kind of place is that? It's our capital. At least the medical care there is better than here. No matter what, when Sui Sui gets there, at least she won't have to do dirty or hard work. Maybe she can eat and drink well and recover her health. Is there any better choice than this marriage?"
The old man sees clearly.
Know the pros and cons.
Zhu's family was reluctantly persuaded and asked Zhu Suisui what he thought.
Zhu Suisui also knew that her health was not very good, and the eggs at home were always at the bottom of her bowl. When her two brothers were growing up, they could only swallow their saliva when they saw her eating eggs.
Only when Zhu Suisui got angry on purpose would they be willing to eat a bite reluctantly.
Just one bite.
It's impossible to eat more of anything else.
To put it bluntly, her health is a disease of affluence.
You have to take good care of it and not let it get tired at all.
But Zhu Suisui was not destined to be a lady.
She didn't want to be a burden to her family and she also wanted to have enough eggs to eat, so she agreed.
When she went to Beijing, she was actually very nervous, timid, and had low self-esteem, and she didn't want to get married.
Later, he fell in love with Lu Lanxu at first sight, and his reluctance changed his mind.
Speaking of this.
Zhu Sui's eyes became even redder, her vision became blurred, tears fell, and she couldn't help but throw herself into Xu Hui's arms.
"I chose to get married myself. I can't blame you. I did it willingly."
Seeing her crying, Xu Hui and Old Lady Zhu couldn't help themselves.
Both of them were wiping tears.
Old Lady Zhu said, "Just tell me the truth about you and Lan Xu. When you came back and said you wanted to marry Lan Xu, we could see that you really wanted to marry her. Your eyes were full of light. It was exactly the same as when your father came back after meeting your mother. But this time when you came back, I found that you didn't have that light anymore."
Whether someone loves you or not can be felt from their eyes.
Even if Zhu Suisui wanted to disguise herself, her family members who knew her well would be able to tell at a glance.
This matter cannot be kept secret from the family.
Zhu Suisui thought about it and then said it.
"Lan Xu was very good to me, this is true, he is really a very good husband, most of the people in the Lu family were also very good to me, with Grandpa Lu around, no one dared to treat me badly, but marriage is not always like that, I just feel that Lan Xu and I are actually people from different sides, in the end it was me who delayed him, if it weren't for me, he could have married someone better."
"I know my thoughts may be a little naive. I have seen my father treat my mother well since I was a child, so I look forward to having such a relationship between my parents. But later I found that not everyone can have such a relationship."
"So I was a little disappointed. I didn't change my mind and got stuck in a rut."
There are some details that Zhu Suisui cannot tell you.
After all, it happened in the previous life, and it hasn't happened in this life yet, so we can't make a conclusion about it.
Hearing this, Xu Hui and Old Lady Zhu looked at each other.
Although I heard Zhu Suisui say that most people were nice to her, I knew in my heart that she must have been wronged.
However, if you marry into another family, it is normal to suffer grievances. In such a large family, there will always be a few people who have bad relationships.
None of those things will affect Zhu Suisui's marriage. It mainly depends on what she and Lu Lanxu think.
As for the feelings that Zhu Suisui talked about, Xu Hui deeply felt it and could understand her thoughts. As a mother, she naturally hoped that the man she married would be sincere to her. Having love is the best. In this way, the couple will feel sweet when living together even if they have to endure hardships.
However, this kind of thinking should never be brought into marriage.
After all, love is love and life is life.
A person who lacks wisdom in life will not be able to live happily in the end even if he marries someone who loves him.
Xu Hui thought for a moment and said, "Have you ever thought about this? You two were together because of your parents' orders. You didn't have any emotional foundation before that. In fact, for Lan Xu, this is his first time to be a husband. Even if he has achieved great success in his career, it doesn't mean that he can handle marriage well. Maybe he is not good at speaking to you. Husband and wife need to communicate. Sui Sui, have you asked him what he thinks, or did you just make up your mind? If so, aren't you asking too much of him?"