Chapter 157 Chapter 157 Good Woman
The tired look on Lin Lili's face surprised Zhao Ruyue.
Zhao Ruyue seldom saw such an expression on her face. In the past, no matter what time it was, Lin Lili always looked energetic.
Even when she was about to break up with Brother Lei, the man she loved to death, she showed more anger and the fighting spirit inspired by her anger, and did not show any signs of fatigue at all.
"Aunt San, are you leaving now?" Lin Lili tried hard to smile, but there seemed to be a bitter taste in her smile, and it was not as bright as the little sun as before.
Zhao Ruyue saw that she seemed to have something to say, so she asked Ning Shaoming to take the two children home first, and she would go back after she finished talking.
"I had just seen Jia Jia and her baby and was planning to go back, but we haven't seen each other for a while. Since you just arrived, I have to stay for a while and chat with you for a while."
When Lin Lili heard her words, the smile on her face faded a little: "Then I'll buy some delicious food and some drinks, and we can eat and talk at the same time?"
Sun Jiajia pretended to be disgusted: "Hey, hey, hey, have you forgotten that I am still in confinement and have to eat confinement meals? I can only look at other delicious food but can't eat it. You buying delicious food for me is too much torture for me. Please be a human being!"
Lin Lili smiled evilly: "I just want to tempt you! At worst, when I have a baby and am in confinement after giving birth, you can fight back against me!"
But she was just joking and didn't really go out to buy food. After Sun Jiajia gave birth to the baby, the gifts given by relatives who came to visit her were so many that her family couldn't finish them all. Some of them Sun Jiajia couldn't eat, but they had to be taken out to entertain guests. There was no need to buy more.
Moreover, even if there were delicacies from land and sea in front of her, Lin Lili couldn't eat them.
Wang Haiyan went out to buy groceries, and Sun Jiajia was the only one at home with her child, so they didn't need to be cautious about what they said.
Zhao Ruyue said directly: "I saw you looked very worried just now. Is there any problem with business in your store or something?"
"It's not a business matter." If it was a business matter, it would be fine. She could always find a way to solve it. But now it was like being stuck with taffy. She couldn't get rid of it. If she tried to pull it off with her hands, she would get her hands stuck again. "It's an emotional matter."
"Oh..." Zhao Ruyue didn't know what to say.
When it comes to emotional matters, it's generally best to let the two people resolve them on their own. Don't get involved. The more people get involved, the more chaotic it becomes.
Zhao Ruyue does not express any opinions on other people's feelings.
However, as an elder and friend with whom one has a relatively good relationship, one can be a listener. Perhaps those who are having relationship problems will feel better after talking it out, and they do not need advice from others.
To this, she only needs to say: "What happened to make you so embarrassed?"
As expected, with just these words, Lin Lili couldn't control her desire to talk, and she started to talk nonstop, "It's my ex-boyfriend. I don't know why he's crazy. He's pestering me again. The problem is that he's already engaged to someone else. Isn't it hurting me if he comes back to me?"
"At first I thought he really had deep feelings for me, so he couldn't forget me like that, but who knew he had such a good plan! He even wanted me to accompany him to the dinner party and help him to show his support and build relationships! What on earth does he think of me!"
"I now understand that I was so stupid. I thought that accompanying him to dinner parties and helping him negotiate business with others was what I should do as his girlfriend and future boss lady. I thought we were one and helping his career was the same as saving more things for our future home and children.
It turned out that they didn't think so at all. They were very calculating and looked down on me. They just wanted to use me, and after using me, they would just give me some gifts and dump me!
Fortunately, I thought he was quite generous in giving me so many things when we broke up. I was really blind at that time! ”
When Zhao Ruyue heard this, she knew that she didn't need to worry too much about Lin Lili, as her judgment was not affected by her complicated emotions.
Whenever Lin Lili found someone to talk to, she could control herself and let out all the grievances, resentment, hatred, irritability, helplessness and even fear in her heart through talking to them.
The more she spoke, the more excited she became, and her mind became clearer, but she still felt very tired.
"I know I should stay away from people like this, but I don't know how to stay away from them completely. Sometimes they pester me so much that I really want to kill them with a knife!"
Sun Jiajia was frightened by the sudden fierceness in her eyes: "Don't do anything reckless! You just had a few years of good life, you must not ruin yourself for such a person!"
Lin Lili smiled bitterly again: "I know, don't worry about it."
She was just talking, but in fact she was very clear-headed and knew how happy she had been in the past few years. She had money and time, so she could go out and play when she wanted to, and not work when she didn't want to.
In the past, she had trouble in love and used to envy Sun Jiajia for choosing the right partner and having a happy marriage. But then, she didn’t know when it started, but she rarely envied others anymore.
If she wasn't sober enough, she wouldn't be so irritated and tired because of being harassed by her ex-boyfriend.
A big part of my hatred for my ex-boyfriend is because my happy days were ruined by this person. If he really fell into my trap, I may never be able to go back to such days.
Zhao Ruyue saw that Lin Lili looked a little conflicted and thought that maybe she didn't know what to do, but maybe she just hadn't decided whether to do it or not.
"What are you going to do next?"
Lin Lili thought for a moment and said, "I haven't made up my mind yet, so I'll just avoid him for now. I need to think carefully about what to do in the future. It's not a good idea to keep avoiding him. I don't owe him anything."
Zhao Ruyue nodded: "Then you should plan it well. As long as it is not illegal or immoral, you can use any method you think is useful. You can hide, even if you can hide for a lifetime, that is your ability. But you must protect your personal safety and don't confront the other party head-on.
Of course, it would be better to break up cleanly. Otherwise, if it is delayed for too long, there is a risk that the other party will not get the desired result, and if they attack you, it will be terrible to hurt you. ”
If you are really hurt, it may be regarded as an emotional dispute. Not only will you be hurt, but you will also be disgusted afterwards. It is not worth it.
Zhao Ruyue actually wanted to talk about some examples that she had seen in the news before, but she was worried about scaring the two of them. She was also afraid that when she spoke, she would reveal some information that shouldn’t appear at this time, but she didn’t realize it. After thinking about it over and over again in her mind, she didn’t say it in the end. Just remind Lin Lili to be careful.
Lin Lili was actually worried that something like this would happen. She ran a hair salon and often came into contact with wealthy women, and the stories they encountered were quite exciting.
But such a wonderful story is just a story when you listen to it, but it is an accident when it happens to you.
After pondering for a long time, Lin Lili asked cautiously, "There is one thing that I have been struggling with and hesitating about for a long time. I don't know if it would be considered immoral if I really did it."
Zhao Ruyue and Sun Jiajia looked at her at the same time: "What's the matter?"
Lin Lili said a little shyly, "That's right, that person who was my ex-boyfriend's former supporter actually had feelings for me. I didn't know it at first, but after I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, he still kept in touch with me and gradually distanced himself from my ex-boyfriend. Otherwise, my ex-boyfriend wouldn't have come to pester me again. He thought I was still upset that I didn't marry him..."
She really wanted to say that guy was thinking too much!
Now that I think about it, he wasn't that attractive. It was just that I was young at the time and it was my first time in love, so the part of my head that houses my brain was completely occupied by love, so I had a filter for him and loved him to death.
After waking up and thinking carefully about her behavior at that time, Lin Lili didn’t know whether she really loved him as a person or loved the him in her imagination.
Zhao Ruyue frowned and asked, "Isn't the person you are talking about married?"
If he is really married, then Lin Lili is still a bad peach blossom, and it is definitely immoral to have any involvement with her.
"He was married before and had a daughter, but divorced a few years ago and is single now."
Zhao Ruyue was relieved: "If I'm single, then it doesn't count as violating morality."
As for the fact that the other party is divorced and has children, if you don't plan to get married and are just dating, you don't need to think too much about it, you can use the other party and borrow his power.
However, when Sun Jiajia heard this, she felt that it was not a good choice for Lin Lili.
If my good friend finds a man like this, even if he is an official, he already has a child. If she becomes a stepmother at such a young age, her life will not be easy in the future and she will be criticized for whatever she does.
Moreover, it is not allowed to have a second child now. If that man’s daughter is still registered under the same household registration with him, Lin Lili will not be able to have a child of her own.
Sun Jiajia said: "I don't think this guy is very good either. Why don't you look for another one? You should have a lot of suitors around you. When you get married, Brother Lei won't dare to ask you for help anymore."
Lin Lili actually has no intention of getting married now. She just wants to resolve the Lei Ge issue as soon as possible. Otherwise, she will be entangled all the time and she will be really tired.
"There are indeed many people pursuing me, but there is no one better than that man yet. He is the one with the best conditions among those pursuing me, and he is also the only one who can solve my current dilemma."
Lin Lili said a little embarrassedly: "Actually, I just want to use him to solve the current problem. I have never thought about marrying him."
If she really wants to get married, she definitely doesn't want to be a stepmother, nor does she want to find a husband who is so much older than her.
Every time she thought about it, Lin Lili felt that her thoughts were not good and were not what a good woman should have.
But this was her truest thought. If it wasn't in front of Zhao Ruyue and Sun Jiajia, she would never say it out loud.
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